EDIT: once again I post immediately after besada steers away the discussion. Sorry about that!
Andromeduck, I don't see what your post explains in terms of your claim that feminists in this debate have made a fool of themselves. Could you relate your post or elaborate on how feminists in Gamergate have done harm to feminism as such? Nevertheless, I'm going to reply to your post, despite the fact that I have a difficult time relating your points to Gamergate and your claim that feminists in Gamergate have acted bad.
I think fundamentally I'm a humanist and egalitarian.
Feminism is humanistic and egalitarian. I'm not saying you fall under the following umbrella, but whenever I see "I'm not a feminist, but a humanist" it is code or equivalent for "I don't see race/sex/gender/sexuality, all I see is human beings!", which unfortunately does not take into account the systematic and structural disadvantages that specific races/genders/sexualities/etc. suffer from.
I.e. being a "humanist" is blind to the differences between people and you run the risk of not paying respect to how one group suffers in a specific way that another one doesn't, e.g. being African American meeting police versus being Caucasian encountering police.
I'm for equal rights and equal opportunity but not necessarily equal outcome. I'm not particularly in favor of affirmative action especially academically but also not particularly against. I prefer attempting to change culture much lower down such as with Gir Smarts/Women in Science programs or puzzle toys for boys and girls, welfare and mentorship programs - things that resolves root causes over enforcing an expected distribution.
Yes, that's a measure you're proposing. They sound really interesting and I definitely agree with your ideas. I would suggest that you also look at the more general and structural causes for inequality. Getting girls into STEM fields as an example might be a good thing, but you also have to look at the norms and rules coming from media, government, institutions, educations, etc. that convey values that exclude girls.
I believe in data, and right now that means men and women - as a population - have differing physical characteristics and personal/social values so it is unreasonable to expect perfectly even distribution though we should be expect a trend towards it.
Unfortunately this argument relies on biology as an indication of preferences. That things are in a way unequal because of biological differences. However, this is not a solid viewpoint to endorse, as one man might be what is "biologically" considered feminine (let's say lower muscle tissue), while a man
I find that modern feminism isn't self critical enough, lacks basic scientific rigor and often asks the wrong questions like how can we fix X instead of are there any underlying causes/trends we're missing with respect to X. I feel that modern feminism - or at least what I see of it goes against my personal values including equality, inclusiveness freedom of expression - especially artistic expression - especially when offensive.
First, I think you've either misunderstanding mainstream feminism or you've met some version of it that doesn't talk about the whole picture. There's a lot of feminist endeavours that strive to fix the underlying causes/trends and not specifically fix the symptom of these causes.
Secondly, I think you're projecting in terms of artistic expression. The basic tenets of criticism is that it's okay to say and that it doesn't censor stuff. Artists can still say whatever they want. Artists can say whatever they want. Artists can say whatever they want.
But freedom of speech does not entail freedom from criticism. If you're going to use a sensitive topic for your artistic expression (like a rape joke at a standup comedy show), you are not free from being called out on it in case you fumble and treat the topic in a simplistic and irresponsible manner.
I find that people who are quick to publicly identify as feminist are often cliquish and often tend to group-think/bandwagon without doing much personal research or shout buzzwords without much thought.
That sounds anecdotal and I would like some examples of this.
I find myself agreeing with a lot of issues brought up by feminists but not their proposals for dealing with it or their reasoning. Like with Anita I agree that there is a problem with the portrayal of women in video games but I am unhappy at how difficult it is to have a discussion critiquing it without being called an apologist or misogynist or being told how I'm not a true feminist.
I don't think you should blame Anita or feminists for that. I think you should blame all the misogynistic and sexist gamers who have polluted such a discussion (in case your counterarguments are well-substantiated and not some ad-hominem like Thunderfoot and the rest of the 20-minute Youtube MRA gang)
I feel that feminism as a term implies a female perspective and, at least in Canada, we've reached a point where women are well off enough that there exists room re visit some of these issues from the male side for a complete picture
Women are not equal in Canada. If you look it up, you should see that many women in Canada don't feel things are equal. Granted, I don't live there and I haven't researched much into it, but I do know of interviews and statistics that state that Canada does not have equality.
I feel that feminists who are against this are just as bigoted as those fundamentally against feminism
That doesn't make sense. How come you think Canadian feminists are bigoted in case they don't agree that things are equal in Canada for women and men?
I feel that those who claim feminism is already or can cover these issues are trying to stretch the definition of a label beyond its usefulness.
How so? What is this definition that you are speaking of?
But to reiterate, all in all, andromeduck, I don't see what your post explains in terms of your claim that feminists in this debate have made a fool of themselves. Could you relate your post or elaborate on how feminists in Gamergate have done harm to feminism as such?