I've talked to some people (coincidentally all of them were men, but let's not generalize) who are well in the end of their 20's if not 30's who feel Gamergate is speaking for them. They work in the games industry and feel they are oppressed because they might lose their jobs and reputation if they speak up about the things they want to say. Some say they are shamed into silence. Which basically means that they think and want to say sexist or racist or homophobic shit, but social rules fortunately forbids them to.
Luckily they are in the minority of the ones I've talked to, so most are sensible about all of this. But these people do exist and they aren't necessarily young people. Most of the supporters have a degree, a job, some even own a company.
I just wished the "neutral" ones and the people who aren't affected by this (i.e. they can just lay back and don't get attacked) would speak up and take a stand to let the bigots know it's not okay what they are doing.
I'd venture to say the bolded statement should tell you *exactly* why they feel like they can't speak up. Because if they backed *any* part of the movement, regardless of how opposed to harassment, sexism, and any social issues, they will automatically be binned as misogynists because in general people seem to think that unlike everything else in life, *this* thing, is black or white, apparently.
Do you think the people in GamerGate saying "websites should not offer favoritism when covering games towards developers they know and are friends with" make any sort of sense? if you do, and you speak up saying so, that means you are also supporting death threats, sexism, and anything else people feel like lumping with that hash tag. Why? Because you're a faceless stranger on the internet, and people want someone to hate, and because the scum posting the death threats isn't here, you're it, buddy.
Let's not mince words here, this kind of attitude is really only fostering hate. The very hate you are trying to fight. It's really sad that people feel the need to inflict this kind of pain on people that actually even agree with their own ideals, like Boogie, simply because they think that regardless of where an idea comes from, if it's a worthy idea, it should be explored and analyzed.
Taking a stand is *not* equivalent to "being on X side". Taking a stand is *not* standing for the kind of harassment bolded above. Making assumptions about people, hating them before they even give you a reason to hate them. That's toxic behavior, that is *not* the way of getting people to embrace your message.
I'm pro equality. Pro women's rights, pro minorities, pro gay rights, pro people being who they wnat to be, pro humans being good to one another, period.
I am against people using generalizations to harm individuals. I am against people stepping on others to further their own agenda. I am against belittling anyone to make yourself feel superior.
If you truly want things to get better, then we both want the same thing. My point is, insulting and harassing others does not further anyone's good cause. Fighting fire with fire only burns down your house.
The people using gamergate to harass, threaten, victimize, or hurt people are scum. I don't think anyone really disagrees with that sentiment. But let's be real here, there are quite a few gamergate people being harassed as well, and if you truly want to use generalizations to define groups of people, then the only people coming out clean *are* the people not saying anything.
Yet another reason to stay away from generalizations. I feel like I post this a lot here, but it falls on deaf ears. Maybe I'm just weird and dislike the idea of the "righteous mass, smiting the evil" since I generally believe even the most mislead individual can change for the better, but not by being ostracized, but by being shown the right way.