ShooterMcGavin
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Sounds like he really does just want to "Netflix and chill" in the most literal sense. Nothing wrong with that.
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I can feel it from here
Gordon Shumway
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This doesn't necessarily mean anything..did you ask ya boy?
Netflix and chill ain't about getting to know someone.
It's better to use 'Netflix and chill' to end the date.
ReturnOfTheRAT
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Friend? Haha
entremet
Member
That's the context I've seen it used it. The early stages. Heck even first dates! C'mon at least try to impress a girl.
You don't really hear Netflix and chill used amongst bf/gf.
Arkos
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This guy is an actual G. Listen and learn simpGAF
Its better for getting to know someone than the typical go out to a movie date.
Gordon Shumway
Banned
Fool..I'm in neither of these situations, and I'm laughing hard as all hell!
He lies in bed with her cuddling and isn't interested in dating her. He should tell her he is not interested.
entremet
Member
Coffee or dinner are way better.
Lol who does Netflix and chill to get to know a person? Don't it wrong if that's what you are aiming for.
davepoobond
you can't put a price on sparks
are you sure they're not just fucking? the dude is getting all of the benefits of a relationship without any of the bs. of course he doesn't want to "progress it"
ShooterMcGavin
Member
Probably, but at the same time you'd think she can take a hint. Either way, probably none of OP's business.
God Dayumm
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StylesClash
Member
This is bait and switch!
Because that's what true friends are for right. Abandoning you to your own devices while they gossip about you on a gaming forum.
OP tell him what's going on. Maybe he's shy too.
Edit: I see you have already.
entremet
Member
Oh but it is. >
lol. i'm aware of it's intended use. but i see it's a common first date thing. like for real. oh well, guess it's a great struggle date.
SuperStiltzkin
Member
It's not really a friendship if one party is crushing on the other expecting to go further. They can still be friends, but if she's looking for a boyfriend, his friend should at least have the courtesy to say that he's comfortable with just being friends who cuddle in bed together...
Arkos
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Bahaha this is too good how have I never seen it
Grizzlyjin
Supersonic, idiotic, disconnecting, not respecting, who would really ever wanna go and top that
If she never brought it up, why would he assume that she isn't okay with the situation? I mean...I assume these are adults. If an adult wants more out of whatever relationship they have with someone they should speak up. And heck, even if you're not bold enough to speak up, you could text it...or not continue doing it. The male friend isn't a mind reader.
If its a first date, they want to do the McNasty.
I just think nowadays people want to scratch that itch without investing too much time and energy, but also not "feeling like a slut". If you vibe during/after, great keep it going. Else move on.
I made a girl wait through 4 episodes of Battlestar Galactica before I put the moves on her. That shit was good. And we "got to know each other". But I agree with you. I'd never ask a girl to come over for "Netflix and chill" that I had any intention of getting to know better.
Just to be clear Netflix and Chill isn't replacing the type of dates you're talking about. It's replacing making out in a drive-in or the back of a movie theater for high school/ college age kids.
entremet
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My generation said, "wanna have some coffee upstairs?" after the date.Just to be clear Netflix and Chill isn't replacing the type of dates you're talking about. It's replacing making out in a drive-in or the back of a movie theater for high school/ college age kids.
He already knows that she wants more out of this relationship. Sure the ball is in her court if she wants a relationship, but he also has this knowledge, so also has a responsibility to look at this situation and say "Wow, to 99% of people I would be leading this person on."
Ah, I was confused because the past "netflix and chill" evening I've been fortunate enough to participate in literally began with Netflix and chilling.
Spaced Harrier
Member
Some people can't be helped OP.
Ask her to come over to your and watch arrested developed series 4.
She'll be begging to chill in minutes.
Ask her to come over to your and watch arrested developed series 4.
She'll be begging to chill in minutes.
TwEE-N-Toast
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People thinking inviting a girl to hang out at your place possibly for sex without ever explicitly mentioning sex is a some sort of modern netflix meme phenomenon..this shit has been going on since we lived in caves.
CassidyIzABeast
Member
he has the awareness of a sloth when it comes to knowing that a girl actually wants sex like most guys do. Tell her to initiate it because he aint gonna do it.
SuperStiltzkin
Member
Your generation was still driving buggies and reading books by gaslight for entertainment.
Gotta stay ahead of the curve, old-timer.
entremet
Member
Yup. It's still "want to come inside for some coffee or tea" for the people I date.
... Then we actually have tea. o_o
It can begin that way depending on comfort. 15 minutes later?
old manatee
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I ask women to X-Files and chill and then I watch the X-Files by myself.
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