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There is no time like Serious Time(tm).

Serious time? Is that a thing I am involved in? Can't remember if I was there or not.
 
I think you weren't there that time because there were issues with you logging in? :o

Despite not being there for serious time, you are still a special friend. <3
 
x-post from dating-age, wanted to share with you guys for your thoughts.

"Talk about pressure on the first date!

Going on a date later, set it up a week ago, from a girl in work whos just moved to Scotland from Poland. I don't know how things work over there, but I think she has fallen in love with me, big time. She gets really nervous talking to me, to the point of losing the ability to speak. She is the sister of a mates gf, she talks about me, all the time.

She went out with a girl from my work last night, and that girl told me that. "Be nice to her, she REALLLLLY likes you". I felt like she was hiding something, and managed to find out that. She had a boyfriend back in Poland, and she broke up with him just to go on a date with me.

Through fb stalking I found this dudes fb, holy shit is this true. For the past week the dudes made posts like ":(", "Can't sleep", "all seems worthless now", "hopes are shattered", "I miss you".

How guilty do I feel now?"
 
x-post from dating-age, wanted to share with you guys for your thoughts.

"Talk about pressure on the first date!

Going on a date later, set it up a week ago, from a girl in work whos just moved to Scotland from Poland. I don't know how things work over there, but I think she has fallen in love with me, big time. She gets really nervous talking to me, to the point of losing the ability to speak. She is the sister of a mates gf, she talks about me, all the time.

She went out with a girl from my work last night, and that girl told me that. "Be nice to her, she REALLLLLY likes you". I felt like she was hiding something, and managed to find out that. She had a boyfriend back in Poland, and she broke up with him just to go on a date with me.

Through fb stalking I found this dudes fb, holy shit is this true. For the past week the dudes made posts like ":(", "Can't sleep", "all seems worthless now", "hopes are shattered", "I miss you".

How guilty do I feel now?"


Not at all. A girl who's willing to dump a dude that easily couldn't have had a very strong relationship. I'd be very creeped out, though. Sounds like she barely knows you and is already obsessed. Infatuation makes for quite an uncomfortable situation.
 
Not at all. A girl who's willing to dump a dude that easily couldn't have had a very strong relationship. I'd be very creeped out, though. Sounds like she barely knows you and is already obsessed. Infatuation makes for quite an uncomfortable situation.

This basically. I understand the guilt, but it isn't your fault. To be honest, unless you are seriously interested, I would probably try to just let her down very gently. The way you have described her really does sound kinda obsessive.
 
Joining the eat time topic, today we have celebrated my 4th july birth.
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Av' Baileys with ice.

Paella is numero uno :D
 
x-post from dating-age, wanted to share with you guys for your thoughts.

"Talk about pressure on the first date!

Going on a date later, set it up a week ago, from a girl in work whos just moved to Scotland from Poland. I don't know how things work over there, but I think she has fallen in love with me, big time. She gets really nervous talking to me, to the point of losing the ability to speak. She is the sister of a mates gf, she talks about me, all the time.

She went out with a girl from my work last night, and that girl told me that. "Be nice to her, she REALLLLLY likes you". I felt like she was hiding something, and managed to find out that. She had a boyfriend back in Poland, and she broke up with him just to go on a date with me.

Through fb stalking I found this dudes fb, holy shit is this true. For the past week the dudes made posts like ":(", "Can't sleep", "all seems worthless now", "hopes are shattered", "I miss you".

How guilty do I feel now?"

She probably did her own fair share of FB stalking of you by the sounds of it.

Possibly unstable situation, as you don't really know her and she only knows your superficially (and probably have an unrealistic view of you due to infatuation), but if you genuinely like her and she genuinely likes you then go for it.
The boyfriend is a minor issue in the big scheme of things, she might have been bad with long-distance relationships and ended it with him anyway sooner or later and at she did end it before she started dating you so I wouldn't take that as a sign of an cheating nature.
 
Not at all. A girl who's willing to dump a dude that easily couldn't have had a very strong relationship. I'd be very creeped out, though. Sounds like she barely knows you and is already obsessed. Infatuation makes for quite an uncomfortable situation.

This basically. I understand the guilt, but it isn't your fault. To be honest, unless you are seriously interested, I would probably try to just let her down very gently. The way you have described her really does sound kinda obsessive.

See shes polish so shes naturally born a lunatic, trying to let her down easy might make me take a free trip to kenya chopped up in a suitcase.

Although for a polish girl, shes quite reserved for the normal polish person, she doesnt like drinking smoking or drugs, and to be honest once she gets to truly know me, she will not like it.

Another side-effect to that is, she might be able to overlook it and try join me, and I don't want that either.

I like her, so letting her off gently due to being forward really quickly is too far, shes young. I think shes allowed to be. (18 btw).
 
I let it all out and told a friend I loved her. She said she has to think about things. Rejected! :(

Shouldn't have used the L-word ("Lesbians"). Should've said you've developed romantic feelings or some such. Blurting out that you love someone before you've been in a romantic relationship for a while is likely to push them away.
 
Friendzone story? I remember there being a thread about it...post the whole story, it's therapeutic and might help with getting over her.

Maybe it hasn't hit me yet but I'm not heartbroken by it. Just disappointed.

We've known each other for years and she's one of my best friends and I'm one of hers. She was always my go-to gal whenever I needed something. The other day, her FB status changed from being single to being into a relationship with one of my buddies. My heart sank. She later told me that they were just doing it as a joke, but it made me realize I had feelings for her. I told her how I felt. She says she had to think things through, that she didn't want to risk our current friendship if the relationship goes sour. I told her that I was willing take that risk. She cried and said she needed to let it sink in and to think it through the night.

Honestly, I know she doesn't feel the same way, but I had to try, so I had to let her know how I fell. I'm not expecting to hear what I want to hear but I knew it was the risk I was taking. Oh wells! :|

Shouldn't have used the L-word ("Lesbians"). Should've said you've developed romantic feelings or some such. Blurting out that you love someone before you've been in a romantic relationship for a while is likely to push them away.

I've watched too many sappy movies and tv shows to not know any better. XD I had these feelings bottled up. The L-word just came out. Yeah, I know it was strong to say, but I knew her for years. I wouldn't have said it if I had only known her for a short period of time. Still, noted for future reference. XD
 
No fork, just turn the foil into a primitive type of spoon.

I did just that to scoop up the rest of the goods off the bottom. Fork tines are useless for this kinda thing.

90 degrees here in Florida, went to the pool for an hour and I'm pretty sure I just sweat out all my water reserves.

I love that Heineken glass. I know this might sound sacrilegious, but I think it might look better with that banana milkshake O_o (also I had mango yogurt this morning high five)
 
^ sometimes opening the browser the next morning is a moment filled with such horror/anticipation. Its kind of like you hope you didn't say anything stupid, but at the same time you do, because its usually funny. That is, as long as you're not too far gone.

Gonna join glasses-gaf for the weekend. They're frameless, so they may not be the easiest to see.
 
apparently i've been falling asleep with my laptop next to me in the bed and typing in my sleep

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probably isnt going to freak people out though
 
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