Is GAF too strict?

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What about jokes parodying racists homophobes while using dysphemistic language (faggot / nigger, etc) in the joke. The joke uses homophobic/sexist/racist/etc language, but it attacks the people who use it in earnest.

I think your answer can be found from a post search for "negroidal" which was a term used by a racist in a story I posted. It became a mini meme that some people picked up because the term was amusing to some posters and was used in other threads - and even though it was out of that context it WORKED because it was not meant in a harmful way. Personally I think the mods do a good job of contextualizing such posts.
 
By forcing someone to agree that homosexuality is fine (and I think it's fine personally but that's not the point) aren't you doing exactly that though, dictating how they should think and feel about the subject as much as they are forcing their view onto others?

if you insinuate the homosexuality is anything other than fine then you're really just being hateful, and being hateful is bannable. the scientific consensus certainly leans toward it not being a choice at it's core, and even if it were it's a completely harmless choice that can have little to no relevancy in your life. you cant flame other users. you cant call someone on here a loser nerd who needs to get a life if they play games all day, or a fat slob because they like to eat etc or a gay person sinful. it's just messed and hurtful.
 
By forcing someone to agree that homosexuality is fine (and I think it's fine personally but that's not the point) aren't you doing exactly that though, dictating how they should think and feel about the subject as much as they are forcing their view onto others?

This is where you're under a misapprehension. No one on GAF is forcing anyone to BELIEVE something. A neo-nazi holocaust denying Flat Earth 6 day literal young earth creationist KKK recruiting pedophile who regularly drives drunk could in theory sign up and be a GAFer and post for many years. However a number of these views (admitting to drunk driving for example, or being a pedophile) are perma bannable (and should be). In other words, as a private forum Evilore, through the medium of his forum, Neogaf is exercising his right to define how members should express themselves.

Even so though, the BELIEF that being gay is sinful or even wrong has never in my experience been bannable. If it was I know several members who would be banned now.
 
Come on now, seriously? For the record, I find the viewpoints of the Chick Fil A owner to be pretty shitty. I'm also a strong supporter of same-sex marriage. Me choosing or not choosing to patron Chick Fil A has absolutely nothing to do with respecting or disrespecting gay people.
It depends on how you feel about yout money being given to designated hate groups like the Family Research Council. It's not just about marriage.

Flaunting the fact that I can't wait to grab some Chick Fil A for lunch and then again for dinner is one thing, but being banned for stating that their chicken tastes good and that you see no reason to stop going is ridiculous. Absolutely ridiculous.
Glad we agree. Maybe next time you should get your facts in order before making yourself look silly getting outraged over bans that never happened.

Although most were for two weeks so they should be unbanned by now.
 
One simple way would for a mod to edit the post that lead to the ban with atleast a quick blurb about "banned for x/y/z for a/b/c length."

One of the most annoying things is not knowing how long a person is banned for.

As for peer reviews, having done moderation and knowing site owners at different sites, there's generally an unspoken code about going with the flow...
 
I think its getting a bit harsh.

In the olden days you could post some pretty offensive stuff, as long as it was humorous.

Now any slightly controversial opinion or off color joke gets you banned.
 
To be perfectly honest, I have always been mystified by the "We need explanations!" and "I don't understand why he was banned!" comments that people have made even before I had become a moderator. And I have not learned of any new rules since becoming a moderator. I have not learned of secret policies. My understanding of what is off-limits is the same as it was before I was a moderator.

What this says to me is that you do not need to be a moderator to have a good sense of what the rules are. It may simply be that I have paid more attention to the rules because I have been on a perm warning since 2009. My one ban, which was for posting in full and without attribution (well, I did but it was earlier in the topic and not in the post I was moderated for) a rather length article, managed to net me that for those who are curious. But I have never felt especially worried about posting. I have never worried about breaking some rule I was heretofore unaware of. And as my understanding of moderation policy has not changed from when I was a regular poster and now that I am a moderator, I honestly do not understand the hand-wringing people are doing.

Also, if anyone would like the simplest distillation of moderation philosophy here, this is it:

I will just say that mods on gaf are not brought on for their willingness to put in work on a volunteer basis or to be ToS sticklers. They're brought on purely for intelligence, level headedness, and positive contribution to discussion. And there is no minimum required time to put in or hours that need to be covered, unlike at a lot of other forums. And I keep busy work to the minimum; being a moderator is almost purely about doing what they feel is right, and leading by example when they participate in discussions (which they did prior to becoming mods).

As such, most of the mods are passionate about the position on their own accord. I'm very hands off aside from handling sensitive matters and telling them what my perspective is on how things should be handled so that they can gel with my vision for the site. But since I pick everyone after taking into account their perspective and ability to handle conflict, and all the mods coordinate in IRC on their own, 99% of the time I can stand back and look at the result and nod my head without even having to say anything.

So I can travel the world with confidence :D

And this is also good:

The job of the moderation staff is to encourage positive discussion and community contributions while discouraging things that make the community less pleasant, less welcoming, and otherwise less good than it could be.

We don't want GAF to be a community where it's okay to talk shit about people... as long as they're women, or as long as they're fat, or as long as they don't speak English, or as long as they're mentally ill, period. We don't want GAF to be a community where it's okay to try to push the boundaries of how rude and offensive the things you call people are. Just in general, this is not a place where it's okay to be rude and abusive to other people.

It's really not that hard to treat other people right. I really, honestly don't think we're asking too much of people.

And I am sure Stumples has, as with every other subject known to man and lumberjack, given a great explanation of this sort of thing in the past, but I do not have a post of his in mind offhand. But I think those two posts are a good summation both of the perspective that EviLore takes on the sort of moderation culture he wants to have and what we perceive our role as moderators to be, particularly in relation to sensitive issues.
 
yeah sometimes i too wonder why people would even want to know why a person they share a community with and interact with a lot suddenly disappears forever. totally mystified.
 
Not too strict in general, but I do wish GAF approved new accounts more easily. My gf has been trying to get in for over a year and has been rejected maybe twice (long wait for each registration) - both times for unspecified reasons.
 
i remember in the Wachowski thread, people with differing (but non-offensive or insulting) opinions about how to classify the person (such as saying "good for him" or disagreeing with the notion that so much cosmetic and synthetic procedure could be considered "natural") were attacked, insulted, and threatened with bans for having an opinion that was contrary to the majority of the hivemind. These people should allowed to have their own opinion, as long as they don't insult the community, yet they were insulted, attacked, and "backseat-modded" without any repercussions for those that came after them.

it eventually devolved into personal attacks and insults from both sides, (and several bans, I believe) but the people who respectfully voiced differing opinions being threatened with bans and insulted (which would be ban worthy from the other side of the opinion) and this being deemed acceptable was particularly hypocritical in my eyes.


I didn't post in that thread. I never post in threads dealing with political, racial, or sexuality issues because of all this grey area. Swearing and meme-ing bans are usually brief and inconsequential, its stuff like the above that can be a bit concerning. It leads me to not want to voice my opinion sometimes.
 
I still stand by what I said a while ago that permabans are the only thing too strict about GAF. I feel they are almost never deserved. Forever is a mighty long time. Unless they have a pattern of saying something fucking disgusting or stupid then a permaban shouldn't be necessary. Just ban people for a year. A year is a long ass time as well.

Or it's probably just a way for the admins to control the population just like man made famine and man made natural disasters. No tin foil hats people. This is the real deal.

Or something.
 
The ban message will say something along the lines of "The next ban is permanent" or "this is your final warning".
I guess I'm not really explaining it right. Say you're in a thread posting in whatever and a mod notices that you're toeing the line a little bit and says like "you should be careful" how do you know if that warning(which is probably a ban warning) is a regular warning or a perm ban warning. is there a cutoff list of how times you get banned before you get perma banned or does it depend on the absolute seriousness of your previous bans?
 
I don't think GAF mods are too strict outside of the DOTA2 thread, and even then they're fine in there now.

All I want to know is who gave me my first ban.

I have to know.
 
I guess I'm not really explaining it right. Say you're in a thread posting in whatever and a mod notices that you're toeing the line a little bit and says like "you should be careful" how do you know if that warning(which is probably a ban warning) is a regular warning or a perm ban warning. is there a cutoff list of how times you get banned before you get perma banned or does it depend on the absolute seriousness of your previous bans?

Oh, a perm warning is always issued via a ban message. You might still be permed for something you post if it's really far over the line/your umpteenth ban/you're a known troublemaker/you're a junior, but a perm warning is a specific flag you get in your ban record. A warning in a thread is normally just for a regular ban, and a ban won't be permanent unless one of the conditions I mentioned earlier applies.
 
Oh, a perm warning is always issued via a ban message. You might still be permed for something you post if it's really far over the line/your umpteenth ban/you're a known troublemaker/you're a junior, but a perm warning is a specific flag you get in your ban record. A warning in a thread is normally just for a regular ban, and a ban won't be permanent unless one of the conditions I mentioned earlier applies.
is that so? hmmmmm.
 
I still stand by what I said a while ago that permabans are the only thing too strict about GAF. I feel they are almost never deserved. Forever is a mighty long time. Unless they have a pattern of saying something fucking disgusting or stupid then a permaban shouldn't be necessary. Just ban people for a year. A year is a long ass time as well.

Or it's probably just a way for the admins to control the population just like man made famine and man made natural disasters. No tin foil hats people. This is the real deal.

Or something.

If someone really crosses the line in a big way (such as a long racist rant), or can't behave himself even for the short time he's a junior, or gets banned for the same thing again and again, it's clear that the user is not a good fit for GAF. A permanent ban makes sense in my opinion. Though you're welcome to disagree of course.

Are there more bans in Gaming or OT?I've always wondered that.

I don't think we maintain statistics on that, sorry.
 
I don't think anyone who has ever been banned doesn't honestly know why. I mean really. You know.

You just want to argue about it. We've all been there, just take your lumps and post smart next time.

Read that 'how not to get banned' thread. It's not rocket science. Most people don't have any problems not being a dick but I guess some people need extra help figuring it out.
 
It definitely used to be gaming but nowadays I'm not so sure.

The new consoles are coming soon, surely that will bring on a lot of meltdowns and bans.


I don't think anyone who has ever been banned doesn't honestly know why. I mean really. You know.

I honestly didn't realize what I got banned for until searching through my post history and seeing pretty much everyone being harsh towards Boxxy in some bump of a Boxxy thread got banned. Wasn't complaining though as I only got a week or two as a junior, but the ban message just said something along the lines of "we do not speak like that in company of ladies".
 
I don't think GAF mods are too strict outside of the DOTA2 thread, and even then they're fine in there now.

All I want to know is who gave me my first ban.

I have to know.

If you really want someone to be your villain, I'll take responsibility. I mean, I was not a moderator at a time, but you can come up with some story where I traveled back in time in order to administer it, I'm sure.

I don't think we maintain statistics on that, sorry.

We don't. It fluctuates depending on the topics, I think.
 
If you really want someone to be your villain, I'll take responsibility. I mean, I was not a moderator at a time, but you can come up with some story where I traveled back in time in order to administer it, I'm sure.
Not looking for a villain really, just curious so I can poke fun.

That might do though, I'll think about it!
 
I just now got back from my 3 week ban from the Chick-Fil-a thread. GAF is not too strict, I just need to learn to not make dumb ass comments. I live and learn I guess.

GAF is still the best board around.
 
Really?! Shiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiit.

Does this look like a regular mod to you?

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Probably wont get answered but:

When you ban a junior, do you take join date to the board into account as well? Say a junior is a very slow poster, but has been around since 2010. If they got their first ban would it still be a perma?
 
One simple way would for a mod to edit the post that lead to the ban with atleast a quick blurb about "banned for x/y/z for a/b/c length."

One of the most annoying things is not knowing how long a person is banned for.
That's pretty much a software limitation that has been left unaddressed for years. Users banned for any length are put into the same usergroup and that usergroup is what determines things like default tag.

It is something that would help though. Being able to tell a boot out the door from a slap on the wrist would be more useful.
As for peer reviews, having done moderation and knowing site owners at different sites, there's generally an unspoken code about going with the flow...
More applicable here is that since each mod can only read only so much, different effective jurisdictions arise and mods generally assume that areas outside their own are being handled unless something looks really off.
 
I don't think anyone who has ever been banned doesn't honestly know why. I mean really. You know.

You just want to argue about it. We've all been there, just take your lumps and post smart next time.

Read that 'how not to get banned' thread. It's not rocket science. Most people don't have any problems not being a dick but I guess some people need extra help figuring it out.

I think the problem is "don't be a dick" is a much stricter standard than used to be enforced here.

I was recently banned for comparing people judging the morals of people eating at chick a filla to the people judging the balls of people avoiding movie theaters after the aurora shooting.

Did it make allot of sense? Not really. I really don't see how this violated any TOS or offended anyone. Not my best posting work but I had to scratch my head a little as to why that was bannable.

The only thing I can figure is cross posting in 2 highly sensitive threads. OK, are we going to be so strict as to make an off topic post a bannable offense?

The problem this creates is that it causes people to self censor, even if an analogy or idea is stupid, or a joke is bad, I would rather it be put out and discussed. Often someone posts something kind of wacky and before they are allowed to explain themselves they are banned.
 
I've been banned once and I absolutely agree with the banning policy.

One post made me upset, I reacted badly, and even at the time felt I should be banned for my response.
Keep up the good work.
 
http://forums.somethingawful.com/banlist.php

You do not want this or the ability to report.

Good god that is just a sad display. Someone posted this list before but... ugh it managed to get 3X worse in the span of a few days. Stop me if I sound a little too dickish but I really don't think that the bans in those "threads" were that big of a deal. On average you're account is disabled for 2 weeks. There's a strange stigma against getting banned around these parts... its not that bad unless you're going for a record. (!_!)
 
I feel charlequin's quote does not pertain to the GAF of today ..

This forum is currently not welcoming to conservatives henceforth why very few do not post in political threads - there is no balance in regards to politics
 
I feel charlequin's quote does not pertain to the GAF of today ..

This forum is currently not welcoming to conservatives henceforth why very few do not post in political threads - there is no balance in regards to politics
We don't see the need to keep shifting the balance point with conservatives as they become increasingly right wing
 
I feel charlequin's quote does not pertain to the GAF of today ..

This forum is currently not welcoming to conservatives henceforth why very few do not post in political threads - there is no balance in regards to politics

That and this forum is inconsistent when it comes to discrimination (some forums are welcomed and encouraged while others are condemned).
 
I feel charlequin's quote does not pertain to the GAF of today ..

This forum is currently not welcoming to conservatives henceforth why very few do not post in political threads - there is no balance in regards to politics

We do not seek balance. That was not the point of his post.

One of the posts earlier in this thread that complained about being "banned for an opinion" neglected to mention that the opinion in question was that the Holocaust was exaggerated.

I think this is a good place to note that there seem to be a lot of posts in threads like this that start with an assumption that we're somehow missing the fact that banning people for having certain opinions is reducing the range of acceptable discussion. In fact, we're quite aware of that; when people are banned for having specific opinions (and this is still quite a bit rarer than many seem to assume), it's because we don't want to preside over a community where some kinds of awful opinions are allowed to run free.

We're very explicit about GAF being a tolerant community in which bigotry is not acceptable. When people's "opinions" run afoul of this, they're not welcome here. "Jews are all greedy" is not a legitimate "opinion" here. Neither is "gay men are all sexually immoral" or "women in general are gold-digging harpies." People who want to be part of the NeoGAF community need to accept upfront that we have a clear-cut house standard on a lot of nominally "political" issues and that there's not actually room for debate here on those topics beyond a certain point.

And it just so happens that many of these opinions that are frowned upon here are associated with American social conservatism in particular. We are aware of this. We would prefer to make a more welcoming community for minority members by forbidding certain expressions of opinions than to make a more welcoming community for people who wish to be abusive towards the aforementioned by allowing bigotry.
 
We do not seek balance. That was not the point of his post.



And it just so happens that many of these opinions that are frowned upon here are associated with American social conservatism in particular. We are aware of this. We would prefer to make a more welcoming community for minority members by forbidding certain expressions of opinions than to make a more welcoming community for people who wish to be abusive towards the aforementioned by allowing bigotry.
Conservatism is a very broad term. There are many modern conservatives here that disagree with the social part of their party and still feel unwelcome and their voice is muted.

I don't want to hijack this thread anymore and make it about politics.

Surprised this thread has lasted as long as it has :)

You will never satisfy everyone - too many users here
 
I feel charlequin's quote does not pertain to the GAF of today ..

This forum is currently not welcoming to conservatives henceforth why very few do not post in political threads - there is no balance in regards to politics

We do not seek balance. That was not the point of his post...
Well I think he is complaining that anyone with a conservative opinion is freely insulted or mocked...
That there is no room for discussions on the issues when one side is just patting each other on the back all the time and insulting someone's opinion.
I would argue this forum is not open to libertarians either... Ron Paul supporters get labeled as Paulbots, even people who do not support Ron Paul but agree with him on the NDAA, foreign affairs, etc. are insulted.

I would argue that neogaf has a more Democratic Party bias than a liberal bias.
 
I don't think so, I see a lot of repeat offenders trolling certain products/companies though. BTW I know we're not allowed to complain about people on the forum but how do you go about complaining? It ok to message admin about it?
 
bishoptl is an Administrator. He does not have to play by exactly the same rules that Kabouter or I or of the other moderators do.

I can't be the only one to think this sounds ridiculous. I get that Admins have more powers but when it comes to banning people you either all play by the same rules or nobody does.
 
if you insinuate the homosexuality is anything other than fine then you're really just being hateful, and being hateful is bannable. the scientific consensus certainly leans toward it not being a choice at it's core, and even if it were it's a completely harmless choice that can have little to no relevancy in your life. you cant flame other users. you cant call someone on here a loser nerd who needs to get a life if they play games all day, or a fat slob because they like to eat etc or a gay person sinful. it's just messed and hurtful.

It's this kind of thinking that kills discussion on this forum.

The vast majority of religious people believe gay people are sinful - definitely every Christian I've encountered in real life. Their book has God referring to homosexuality as an abomination. Are you for the banning of almost all religious people?

I'm an atheist but I want to convince these people that they're wrong, I don't want them banned for their beliefs.

They also believe atheists are sinful too. Hurtful, messed up, and selfish, yes. Ban worthy, of course not.
 
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