I get what both you guys are saying, but know its a bit different when you're airing out the personal business of a woman in the community. Regardless of the context, when you have a reputation of being sexist then decide to eat up the personal business of one of the few prominent women in the community, it looks bad all around. It's not just some Jerry Springer shit, its one of those episodes where he brings porn stars on and all the dudes harass and objectify them. That might not be exactly everyone's intentions, but that's how its going to look.
While I may have been an idiot in the past, its still very unrelated to actively pursuing hacked information of a woman. I'm not justifying what I did, but it doesn't mean you get to blow off what I said because somehow tweeting a rumor is the same as digging through someone's personal information.
I understand what you're saying but sometimes you can be really rude and vindictive with the way you word things. The guy removed the link from his post afaik so it's a non issue right now