Tulsa school sends girl home over hair.

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Derwind

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Amazingly, white children can have dreads and afros too. But make it about race, that's cool.

Amazingly, this will disproportionately affect black kids. Different hair types exist, not everyone has hair designed for perfectly manicured hollywood hairstyles.

Stay willfully ignorant.
 
"Rules are rules" isn't an appropriate answer to rules that are clearly complete bullshit that target black kids in particular. Her hair was perfectly fine and she looked adorable.
 

DY_nasty

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Maybe its changed. When I was in black females could have braids but no dreads. Hair had to be above the collar.

Edit: Just looked at the regs. It says dreads are not allowed.

Dreads by the army definition. Which are Marley-style and fall under 'faddish'.

Thankfully, people realize that there are more to dreads than the ones that go under a beanie OR thankfully many can't tell the difference between dreads and braids anyways.
 

stufte

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How dare we make this inherently racial subject into a race thing.

I mean. Are you serious?

Ugh. I don't have the energy tonight to argue with every one of you over whether this was stupidity or racism. I think the schools rules are stupid, but it's probably not racist.

Let the outrage flow, I'm checking out.
 
It says she went there last year without incident; did they revise the dress code after she enrolled? If not, what was the problem? She's a straight A student.

Way to sacrifice intelligence for a bullshit policy.
 

Piecake

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That hair looked perfectly acceptable. Its not like she wasnt rocking bob marley dreadlocks or something.

What a shitty school. Apparently their petty policies are more important the feelings and well-beings of a small girl. Fuck them
 

watershed

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Amazingly, white children can have dreads and afros too. But make it about race, that's cool.

*edit* I'm also not saying that I agree with the school rules, but it's their rules. Sounds like they found a school that doesn't care what her hair looks like.

You don't know much about natural black hair do you?
 

DY_nasty

NeoGAF's official "was this shooting justified" consultant
Ugh. I don't have the energy tonight to argue with every one of you over whether this was stupidity or racism. I think the schools rules are stupid, but it's probably not racist.

Let the outrage flow, I'm checking out.

You don't have to slap a black baby on an airplane for it to be racist.

This is coming from the same state that's trying to repeal affirmative action so some good old 'its not that racist, it only happens to effect black people more than anyone else' racism is entirely within the realm of reasonable expectation.
 

Aristion

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Ugh. I don't have the energy tonight to argue with every one of you over whether this was stupidity or racism. I think the schools rules are stupid, but it's probably not racist.

Let the outrage flow, I'm checking out.

You can make judgments that are not consciously racist but affect minorities in a negative fashion.


Us minorities call that "racist". This school rule is an example of that.
 
Ugh. I don't have the energy tonight to argue with every one of you over whether this was stupidity or racism. I think the schools rules are stupid, but it's probably not racist.

Let the outrage flow, I'm checking out.

Straight from the school of "if no one was called nigger" it's not racist. If the natural state of black hair is not presentable, that is implicitly a racist judgment of the character and quality of what is proper.
 

belushy

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That sucks. When I was in 4th grade my mom cut my hair into a mowhawk and even hairsprayed it up one day. Didn't get sent home for it but I did get some weird looks from the teachers.
 
I wish schools would stop acting like every single student has a severe case of ADD. Kids who lose all concentration because someone has a SLIGHTLY unusual hair style probably shouldn't be in regular classes anyway.
 

Cipherr

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Amazingly, white children can have dreads and afros too. But make it about race, that's cool.

Are you high? Do you have any idea what our hair does when it grows out naturally? There is a very clear difference..... Its not a fad or a style.
 

Thorakai

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Damn idiots at this school, people following the code to the letter without applying a bit of brain power to realize this girl's hair does nothing to take away from the 'serious' atmosphere nor prevents the children from learning. Let the girl worry about ignorant shits judging her hair when she grows up, for now you foster the kid so that she continues to excel as she has thus far and instill some confidence in the way she naturally looks.
 
Are you high? Do you have any idea what our hair does when it grows out naturally?

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Ugh. I don't have the energy tonight to argue with every one of you over whether this was stupidity or racism. I think the schools rules are stupid, but it's probably not racist.

Let the outrage flow, I'm checking out.
It's stupidity and racism. Impact is more important than intent when discussing racism (as much as people like turning these conversations into therapy sessions for racists to vent their tears and play the victim)-- although in this case the intent itself is so obviously problematic that it would take someone being willfully obtuse to not realize it.
 

Degen

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I'm gonna assume that by "afro" they mean "comically large afro with one of those stupid combs sticking out of it"
 

DY_nasty

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The article says her father pulled her out of the school. She wasnt sent home.

"because of a disagreement that left her in tears"

He made the right call. I'm not letting my kid go through that kind of shit in 2013. She can go get straight A's somewhere else.
 

The Cowboy

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A couple more additions to their 'faddish hairstyles' list and black girls are gonna have to show up bald to go to that school.

In my school in the UK, someone got suspending for showing up to school with a shaved head - they considered (unless medical) a shaved head as unacceptable.
 

The Cowboy

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That's silly, what was the kid to do until their hair grew to acceptable length?
He was suspended until it grew to what they deemed acceptable. He wasn't a great pupil (not as in not smart, as in was a bit of an ass) and I'm pretty sure he didn't care and as such he (nor his family) bothered to contact the education board to complain.
 
It's in the schools dress code. Why is it that people who refuse to read the rules are instantly motivated to call the media in outrage, even if they're in the wrong? Get over it and change the hair style, or find a charter school that allows dreads. End of story.

How ignorant are you really?

A couple more additions to their 'faddish hairstyles' list and black girls are gonna have to show up bald to go to that school.

Until they say being bald is unacceptable and not part of the dress code.
 

Cagey

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Charter schools are susceptible to mind-numbing bureaucratic policies that creates horrendous results and then having people slavishly implement them, too.
 

Derwind

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He was suspended until it grew to what they deemed acceptable. He wasn't a great pupil (not as in not smart, as in was a bit of an ass) and I'm pretty sure he didn't care and as such he (nor his family) bothered to contact the education board to complain.

Thats actually kind of sad. =(
 
Really dumb rule, and the person at the school who was giving her a hard time was obviously on a power trip over a little girl. Shameful. There was nothing distracting about her hair in the least.

Reminds me of when I was in 8th grade. I went to a Catholic school and although me or my mom didn't know it at the time, coloring your hair was against the rules. Well, my mom let me get highlights at the salon and it looked really nice(I'm a girl). I got in huge trouble for it, didn't get sent home, but got detention and stuff, but they didn't mess with me too much, as I blatantly said I didn't care about the rule and it was dumb. But the next week like 3 more girls showed up to school with highlights, and after that the school hated me. Oh well. =)
 
Well seems there's enough support for afros/dreads. Mohawks definitely aren't fads and have been used around the world for thousands of years. Clearly this is a bigoted policy.
 
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