Forum posting habits that annoy the hell out of me?
My own's.
I love to debate, and I love to be contrarian, sometimes even for the shake of being contrarian. I am the kind of guy who genuinely loved the debating club back in the school, but when talking in person, I tend to be quite level headed and I always try my best too conciliate my postures with the one's of my peers, because understanding the other person is a useful mental exercise that also help's you to empathize better with others.
Enter the online arena, gaf specifically, and all of that goes to shit.
I don't know exactly why, but gaf takes the worst out of me, and I don't like it one bit. I know that I am the one to blame, not these board's but this is something similar to the effect that, say, xbox's live talk or Facebook posts have on people. I feel as if there's something into stake, as if it is either you humilliate the other one side of the debate or risk being humilliated yourself in public. It is probably all on my mind, but I cannot help but feeling a very strong "vae victis" vibe.
And, in the end, on a quest trying to fight what I percieve as other people's stupidity and ego, I find myself falling into exactly these trappings, fueling my own ego and imbecility. I end up arguing with people with the same postures that I also have, or trying to humilliate them as an attempt to prove something, or attempting to shove into everyone's troath how much brilliant I am for thinking on this or that way. Ugh. I can post good things from time to time, but when I look back at some of my posts I cannot help but shaking my head and saying to myself "did I really wrote that? the hell was I thinking? I am not like this... am I?".
So my sincere apologies, gaf. I sometimes forget a very basic truth: being right in a debate or conversation never outweights nor compensate being an asshole, and that's the worst posting habit that one can have.