DaCocoBrova
Finally bought a new PSP, but then pushed the demon onto someone else. Jesus.
Kelly... 86 the hair-do.
Why is Beyonce even dealing w/ these 'me-too's?
Farrah speaks about Destiny's child............ part1
Interviewer: Now first of all, tell me how you first became a part of DC.
Farrah: I met Kelly and Beyonce during the promo tour for 'Bills,Bills, Bills'... I was
an extra in that video and we stayed friends. Kelly and I talked on the phone. I was
in another singing group called Jane Doe and we were going through stuff amongst
our group. I didn't have the slightest idea about what was going on with Destiny's
Child. I heard rumors but I didn't know.
Interviewer: Where are you from?
Farrah: I'm from L.A. I was talking to Kelly one day and I was singing and she didn't
know that I could sing. She called me back and she was like, "Can you sing for Beyonce?"
So I sang for her and then a couple days later, she told me that Mathew wanted to meet
with me. I met with Mathew and I was actually supposed to be a stand-in for when one
of the girls got sick. This was in December (1999). Pretty much I went out to Houston
and that's when they got the letter of termination firing Matthew from being LaTavia
and LeToya's manager, so I came back home. Then maybe about a couple weeks later
I got a phone call asking if this is what I wanted to do and I flew to Houston.
Interviewer: That's interesting. So tell me what it was like when you first joined the
group. It had to have been weird because you and Michelle were taking LaTavia
and LeToya's place. Did you feel awkward?
Farrah: Yeah. It was really awkward because I met LaTavia and LeToya during the
video. LaTavia was the first person I talked to. We exchanged numbers first but her
number changed, so we ended up not keeping in contact. So it was awkward for me.
It wasn't clicking because everything was going so fast. I got out there and I pretty
much had to change my whole look. I had to dye my hair read when before, it was
sandy brown with blonde streaks.
Interviewer: Who told you to dye your hair red?
Farrah: Beyonce's mom.
Interviewer: Is she still doing the group's hair? Did she dye your hair?
Farrah: Yes.
Interviewer: Is dying your hair something that you weren't feeling?
Farrah: No. I hated it because, like I said, my hair was sandy brown before and
I put streaks in it myself. So going from that to red was like wow. It kind of upset
me because I thought they were trying to make me look or be LaTavia and I wanted
to have my own identity. They also had me suntanning.
Interviewer: Really? were you the only one in the group that they had tanning?
Farrah: They had me and Michelle tanning.
Interviewer: They didn't have Beyonce tanning? I mean she's the lightest one
in the group.
Farrah: No. I think that's why they didn't have her tanning. My assumption was
that everytime I looked at a picture, she stood out more because she was the
bright one. Not because she was the prettiest, but because she was lighter. I never
realized like, "Okay i'm tanning." I'm thinking I like to be dark. So I'm like,"Oh I get
to go to the tanning salon for free." I had to tan. I had to change my whole hairstyle.
Interviewer: So who told you that you had to tan?
Farrah: The mother. She's like the stylist and she was like,"You look prettier darker."
Interviewer: When you came into the group was it pretty much stated that Beyonce's
father would be your manager as well? I know that was a problem with LeToya and
LaTavia. So did he become your manager as well?
Farrah: Yes.
Interviewer: How did you feel about the styling of the group? Was there anything
about the clothes that you didn't neccessarily care about?
Farrah: Well, it was awkward for me wearing their old clothes.
Interviewer: We did an interview with LaTavia and LeToya and they mentioned that
you and Michelle were wearing their clothes that they paid for. Was there ever a time
that you and Michelle spoke to LaTavia and LeToya.
Farrah: No.
Interviewer: When did the real problems start with the group?
Farrah: Like I said, her mom was doing the hair. My hair started breaking and my hair is
real. Pretty much everyone in the group has some pieces or a weave. I'm the only one
in the group that didn't have anything. So when my hair started breaking, of course
I'm gonna be like,"What's going on?" So there were problems because I would
complain about my hair breaking. I'm like "This is my hair." I didn't like the red anymore.
They were like,"There needs to be a redhead in the group." They wanted me to stay
red. I didn't want to stay red anymore. I was like,"I hate this." I stopped tanning and
they were like "You should go tan." So pretty much everything was going crazy
because my hair was breaking. I actually stopped letting her mom do my hair. I had
my own lady doing my hair.
Interviewer: What did her mom say when you brought in your own hair stylist?
Farrah: Well, I didn't bring her. I would get my hair done in L.A. Then I would
just keep it up. She didn't really say anything, but you could feel a vibe where
it was like, okay, whatever. If someone would ask who does your hair, of course
Beyonce would say,"My mother." And I would be like,"Well my girl Kim does
my hair in L.A." And then everybody would be looking at me like crazy.
Interviewer: Tell me what it was like when you shot the video for "Say My Name"
because I think that a lot of the fans felt weird about the new girls. Or maybe in
some way they resented you and Michelle for taking the other girls' places because
the fans knew those were their voices on the song. what was that experience like
for you?
Farrah: That was very, very stressful and awkward. I know me and Michelle, we
almost broke down because that was four days after we joined the group.
Interviewer: Oh, so soon as you joined the group you shot the video?
Farrah: Yeah, it was instant. It was really scary. Ive done videos before, but I
was never the artist in the video. It's like you want to get it perfect because you
know everyone is staring at you trying to see if this girl can do her thing. It just
felt really awkward. Then Beyonce and them tried to comfort us by saying LaTavia
and LeToya weren't singing on that song at all. They were lip-synching to Beyonce
and Kelly's voices. That's how they defended us singing "Say My Name." But it
was really scary thinking that people weren't going to accept you and coming
into a group and having people not like you. And you didn't even do anything.
Interviewer: What kind of feedback did you get from the fans when you all
went out to perform?
Farrah: Performing, everybody was really good. They were like just do your
thing and don't try to be nobody else. This is like my dream. I've always wanted
to be a singer and I got a chance to do it. And I don't think anybody would've
passed it up. I knew joining the group that there would be some complications
just from hearing everything that was going on. But I figured God is not going
to put this here for me for anything, and regardless, I'll have this under my belt.
I will be able to say that I was in a group that was well known. I got to do it.
I don't want to live life saying,"What if I would've done it."
Interviewer: Did you and Michelle ever talk about the situation?
Farrah: Yeah we shared rooms. Kelly and Beyonc shared a room and Michelle
and I shared a room. We talked a lot, we bonded a lot because we were the new
girls. We read the article in Sister2Sister with LaTavia and LeToya and it was scary
because a lot of the stuff they were talking about that was being done to them
was being done to us.
Interviewer: Like what?
Farrah: As far as DC I never had a conversation with just DC. It was always DC and
Beyonce's mom or DC and the dad. DC and the sister. We never had a conversation
with just DC. And also, we never knew when anything was going on. We found out
at the last minute always. Or we just ended up being there. It was never equal.
Regardless of how much anyone wants to say there's no favoritism there is going to
be favoritism when your whole family is running the show.
Interviewer: So you definitely felt there was favoritism with Beyonc?
Farrah: Yeah, I definitely felt there was favoritism. There was no way that group ever
would've been equal. I mean if LaTavia and LeToya had been in that group for ten
years, I didn't expect for me to come in and be treated any differently.
Interviewr: What type of relationship did you have with Beyonce and Kelly? Did you
have a good relationship?
Farrah: Not really. I mean, I kept to myself. I worked. It was like a job to me pretty
much. We never hung out. I hung out with the dancers.
Interviewer: You didn't hang out with Michelle?
Farrah: I hung out with Michelle in our room and stuff, but I hung out with the dancers.
Michelle would tell me her problems, but then she would get around them she would be like,"Hahahahahaha."
Interviewer: Maybe she felt like had to suck it up because she was trying to stay in
the group.
Farrah: Yeah, she was afraid of just going back to being Michelle. Well, Tenetra
anyway.
Interviewer: Oh, Michelle is not even her real name?
Farrah: Michelle is her middle name. Just like I had to change my name to Farrah.
My middle name is Destiny and I've been going by Destiny my whole life. I never went by
Farrah. I had to go by Farrah to be in DC.
Interviewer: Get out of here! I know all of your friends and family were wondering about
what that was all about.
Farrah: Yeah. I just saw my friend Marlon Wayans and he was like,"Farrah? What the
heck is that? Where did that come from?"
Interviewer: I know that DC did a song for the Charlie's Angels sountrack. Is that the
only song that you all have recorded as the new DC?
Farrah: We did that and we did a song for Mathew's group, Sygnature, called "Dance With
Me." And we did some remixes for "Jumpin, Jumpin."
Ramirez said:Like anyone's gonna read that.
The Abominable Snowman said:Matthew is Kelly's real father.
The Abominable Snowman said:I read it. The whole Destiny Child saga is interesting. There's Beyonce favoritism, but because Matthew and Tina Knowles were Show Moms and Show Dads., They entered Be in all kinds of shit when she was younger, and kinda included Kelly too ( Keandria 'Kelly' Rowland) because Matthew is Kelly's real father. They forced Kelly (Keandria) to go by Kelly. They did not care about the other two (Latavia and LeToya) names because there were other ways, apparently, to make them not stand out. You notice that they're the two more skinny girls in the group, yet the most covered up.
Matthew Knowles is the Suge Knight of R&B.
Interviewer: Oh okay. So that is you and Michelle's voices on the "Jumpin, Jumpin" remix?
Farrah: Yeah.
Interviewer: Now tell me what happened that you're not in the group anymore.
Farrah: Well pretty much stuff had been adding up for a while. I had been miserable. Like
I said, I'm not a quiet person. I'm a very gun person and I like to have fun and being in the
group, I couldn't do that. It was a shame that I couldn't love and enjoy doing what I love
to do. I mean, I can be miserable by myself. I don't need anybody to help me. And that's
pretty much what I was getting. I was getting help to be miserable. I was very quiet around
the girls. I never hung out with the girls really because I felt not a part. I just didn't feel like
I was being accepted. I felt like I was just being used. I was being used to finish the album.
And after that, I felt like Beyonce was going to do her solo album and we were going to be
kicked to the curb. I didn't join the group to lip-synch.
Interviewer: During most of the performances were you lip-synching?
Farrah: Yes.
Interviewer: During all of them?
Farrah: Most of them. I was pretty much and overpaid background dancer.
Interviewer: So you two were just put there to fill in?
Farrah: Yeah.
Interviewer: I read that you had become really ill or something.
Farrah: Yeah, I got sick. We were in Europe and I was really sick. I mean, I was throwing up
every single day. No one came and said hey, are you okay? Do you need some Pepto
Bismol or anything? No one said anything. Everyone knew I was sick because whenever
someone asked where I was when I wasn't around they were like,"Oh she's in the
bathroom throwing up." So they knew I was sick. I waited until I got my day off to go to
the hospital when I came back home. We only get three to four days a month and I waited
until I got my day off. I never complained once. I never asked for a day off since I'd been in
the group. When I was sick I never complained. I never asked for anything. I was diagnosed
with dehydration and the stomach flu. Five minutes after I was finished seeing my doctor
I get a call from my manager, Mathew Knowles, saying I need to get my *** on the airplane
or I could just stay in L.A. because they don't need me anyway. And he was yelling. I told
him that I just got out of the hospital five minutes ago and he was like he didn't care what I
just did. That I needed to get on the airplane and if I didn't come I could just stay there
because they didn't need me anyway.
Interviewer: So looking back, now do you regret joining the group?
Farrah: I don't regret it. I think God has everything worked out the way He wants it.
I wouldn't do it again.
Farrah speaks about Destiny's child............ part2
Interviewer: Was it worth it? I mean, I don't know anything about how much you were
paid while you were in the group, but was it worth it financially? Did it help you pay
your bills?
Interviewer: Yeah, it was worth it financially. I was making more, of course, than I was
making before. So the money wasn't really an issue. It was just an issue of being unhappy.
And there's no amount of money that could make me stay anywhere if I'm miserable. So
when I got off the phone I went to Houston. Mathew said hi to me the next morning and
I'm really upset still. I'm sick and I'm upset and I don't want to speak to him because I don't
want to say the wrong thing. And Beyonce remarked "Did you hear my dad say hi?" And
I said,"Yeah, I heard him say hi and I didn't speak to him for a reason." So she said, Well
if you don't want to speak to him you don't gotta speak to me either." So I started clapping
and I said "Good, well my day is gonna go much easier." That was another thing. You
couldn't say anything or have a conversation without the daughter being there. Then it was
too personal. I mean, you should be able to have discussion with your group, you should
be able to have a discussion with your manager. I mean, you're gonna have disputes. Thats
gonna happen but if you can't even do that, then nothing is gonna get solved. I mean, we
could not even talk about anything. We were paying her sister, Solange Knowles, to come
with us. We were paying for her flights, we were paying for her hotel rooms.
Interviewer: How old is her sister?
Farrah: She's 14. We were paying for her flights, her airline tickets, and we were giving
her per diem.
Interviewer: Who? The group?
Farrah: Yes. This was coming out of my check and she wasn't doing anything. She was
supposed to be a dancer, but she never danced for us until I left the group. So when I
asked why we were paying her, my manager was like, Why do you care about where
$300 is going when you're getting paid this?" And I'm like I don't care if I'm getting paid
1 million, if I want to know where five of my dollars are going there shouldn't be a problem
with me asking. When I asked about money there was a problem. When I asked why our
expenses were so high there was a problem. I mean, I asked a lot of questions. I am and
independent person. I've been on my own since I was 15 years old, so I'm gonna ask
questions. It seemed like whenever I asked questions about anything it was a problem and
it was always me. It got a to a point where when I saw Mathew coming I knew did
something. And I was like, why me? But I learned, I asked too many questions. I flew home on
our days off and they told me that I went home too much. Now mind you, we only get four
days off. We were supposed to get eight, but it went down to four. So they told me I flew
home too much. Now pat for my own flights home and I pay for my own flights back. I get
my own car pick-ups and everything. I don't ask anybody to do anything for me. All I ask is
when do I need to be back for work. I think pretty much I was just too independent. Mathew
is a controlling person and everything was under his control. I had control over what I was
doing in my life and I don't think he liked that.
Interviewer: What's the actual time that you were in the group?
Farrah: They said officially that I joined the group in February 18 or 19, but like I said, I was
supposed to be a stand-in in December.
Interviewer: And when did you leave the group?
Farrah: Well the last day that I saw them was July 13.
Interviewer: Was that the same day that Beyonce was upset because you didn't
speak to her dad?
Farrah: Yeah.
Interviewer: Okay, so how did it end?
Farrah: That was the day that MTV's All Access was following us. We got to Seattle and
they gave us like 15 minutes to check into our rooms or whatever. We had a conversation,
we had a meeting with Destiny's Child and Beyonce's mother. They were like, "How can you
come to my house and not speak to my father?" And I said, "Well, how can your father
speak to me in such a manner? I've never been spoken to like that in my life and I'm not
gonna let it start now." I said, "I don't know how he talk to you or anyone else, but I know
how he's not gonna talk to me." If I would've continued to let him talk to me like that I'm
most positive that it would've gotten worse. Because once you give a little leeway, they'll take
a mile with it; and I'm not. It was already too stressful. I'd never spoken my mind. Around them,
I'd been quiet. I'm talking to you more now than my whole nine months of being in the group.
I was quiet. I was reading all the time or on my phone. That was a shame because I
couldn't be myself; it was terrible.
Interviewer: Did you walk out on your own after that meeting? Or did they let you go?
Farrah: Well, that's when they started saying, "Well you're complaining a lot. You complain
about your hair." Like I wanted to wear my hair crimped, and Beyonce was wearing her hair
crimped. So it was like no, you can't wear your hair crimped because Beyonce is wearing her
hair like that. So it was like I had to make sure she wasn't wearing her hair like that before
I did anything to mine since I had my own hair lady doing my hair. And I had been wearing
my hair crimped before she even thought about it. So I had to wear it straight.
Interviewer: Have you talked to any of the group members since you left?
Farrah: No.
Interviewer: You haven't even talked to Michelle?
Farrah: No, I've been calling Michelle and I'm sure they told her not to talk to me because when
they fired our dancers they told me not to talk to our dancers. They try to like manipulate you
to make you think that someone has done you wrong. So I'm sure they've told her not to talk
to me. But I called Michelle on her birthday to wish her a happy birthday and I called her the
other day cause I knew they were out here.
Interviewer: What do you think is going to happen to Destiny's Child now? Do you believe
Beyonce is just going to go solo?
Farrah: Oh, she's going solo. That's a known fact. Also, another thing is she told us she was
going solo about a month ago. I have friends in the industry and I know that she's been
working on her album. She's been telling everybody she's not going solo and she's not doing
anything but she has been working on her album. She's supposed to have her album out in
December. So that means Destiny's Child is only going to be able to put out two more albums.
All you see now is Beyonce. so I don't think her solo album is going to be much different
than Destiny's Child. All you hear now is her. All you see is her. It's just gonna be two less
people, and they'll probably be singing background for her, which is what they're doing now.
I don't think it's gonna be much different. I mean, I wish her the best. I'm a Christian girl and I
don't put hate or anything like that towards anyone, but I just couldn't be around that--being
unhappy like that. I'm too young to be unhappy and too smart to let anyone treat me any kind
of way. I'm a strong persona and I know that because anyone that didn't have a strong mind
would not have left a group like that. I found out that I was out the group. I left the day we
had the conversation in the room. Like I said, they started saying, You ask about my sister's
money, you go home too much, you're quiet, you don't like bonding with the group" And
they all pretty much started ganging up on me and telling me what I don't do. And I'm not
complimentary enough.
Interviewer: What was that supposed to me?
Farrah: That I didn't compliment her enough.
Interviewer: Oh my goodness! That is crazy!
Farrah: Yeah, that's what I said. If I see something I like, I'm gonna say, hey, that's nice.
If I don't compliment then I don't like it. If I give a compliment it's gonna be genuine. I'm not
just gonna be saying you're cute just to be saying it. And she was like, "I don't need your
compliment." Well, if you don't, then why did you bring it up? So I guess I wasn't
complimentary enough. I mean, everyone was jumping on me and mind you, I just got out
of the hospital a couple hours before that. So I left the room, I was like, "I don't need this!"
They were like, "Whatever we don't care." So I came home and they told MTV that I
was sick and that's why I wasn't there, but I left. I was sick but that wasn't my reason for
not being there. They also said that they kicked me out of the group and I left because I
couldn't handle it. And that I wasn't used to this. I never complained a day in my life.
Handling it was not a problem. They didn't know how much I was handling. They didn't
understand what I was handling because I never made it an issue. And then they said
that now without me, they're vocally stronger. They said the same thing when LaTavia
and LeToya left--when Michelle and I joined the group. How is Destiny's Child vocally
stronger when you're only hearing one person anyway? We were lip-syncing, so how
were you vocally stronger? There was just a lot being said like them saying that I left
because I couldn't handle it. I feel bad for Michelle because I know she's going through
it because I heard her telling me every night. Complaining to me every night, complaining
about how hard it was for her and everything else.
Interviewer: Maybe she just doesn't want to leave the group.
Farrah: Michelle's thing is she's afraid of going back to being Michelle from Rockford,
Illinois. She wasn't like the popular girl in school and now everybody is treating her like
that. She's from a small town, so it's like she can't go back to being regular Michelle
because now she was the popularity she's always wanted. It's hard for her to just let
that go and I understand. Michelle is still my girl. I have no grudges against any of them,
but it was just something that was not for me.
Beezy said:I like Beyonce, but lately I've been more attracted to this girl.
I hope it shows up.
Sactown said:Her face looks similair to Ashanti's got but you can't see tits or ass so I can't really judge her.
Beezy said:I don't know if you're being sarcastic or not, but that is Ashanti.
The Abominable Snowman said:Matthew Knowles is the Suge Knight of R&B.
Sactown said::lol I wasn't being sarcastic, weed fucks with my eyes though. Ashanti has a great ass, she looks crazy good in her new video, she is far more attractive than Beyonce in my opinion.
I've never seen Ashanti's hair look like that, probably why I didn't realize it was her.
Beezy said:Hell no. Whatever happened to him anyway?
Beezy said:I like Beyonce, but lately I've been more attracted to this girl.
http://s04.imagehost.org/0827/1698-1112004-21434ew.jpg
I hope it shows up.
Luscious LeftFoot said:Indeed. Ever since she got rid of those damn sideburns she's looked really good to me.
That being said, Christina Milian > Every other R&B girl.
Agreed but I like her more when she was the 'black girl next door' instead of the sexy vixen\slut she trys to portray now.Luscious LeftFoot said:That being said, Christina Milian > Every other R&B girl.
Boogie9IGN said:Ashanti, Christina Milian, Gabrielle Union and Beyonce > All
Beezy said:Get Gabrielle Union out of there.
This guy gets it. I agree. PEACE.Cloudy said:Kelly >>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>> Beyonce
*runs*
err, Matthew Knowles is Kelly's father. Instead of paying Child support or whatever, he opted to just be like a father to her and include her in things.Suerte said:Didn't Beyonce's folks adopt Kelly or something? I can't remember the details.
Beezy said:Get Gabrielle Union out of there.
MIMIC said:
Beezy said:
Doesn't anyone have anymore Ashanti pics?
Luscious LeftFoot said:Meh...
She sure can dance though.
Sactown said:Coming shortly.
Wat's a good place to host, I forgot where I found most of the pics, but I saved them for quick access.
OmniGamer said:I could have sworn Matthew was Kelly's godfather...not biological. Beyonce and Kelly aren't blood sisters.
Anyway, what annoys me is that Kelly is ALWAYS on Beyonce's panties whenever they have an interview...I don't know if that is part of the "always be complimentary" thing from the Farrah interview, but regardless it's so annoying. It's as if she's trying so hard to not make it seem like their's any friction or jeolousy, or that any of the spotline on Beyonce is unjustified. Such fawning is undignified.