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Big interview today. Need tips to be zen

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sc0la

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So here is the skinny. I have a big interview this afternoon (I am one of two final candidates) and I need some quick tips. I know what to wear, I know what to say, what I have a problem with how ever is this low level stage freight that has always plagued me in performance situations.

Anybody have any tips on killing the nerves to score the position? I am qualified, I am their ideal candidate, I just need to transcend my unfounded anxieties for about an hour.

Thanks GAF

edit:panel interview
 

themadcowtipper

Smells faintly of rancid stilton.
Whats is the interview for?


Oh an as for tip, imagine everyone nekkid, and if that doesn't work ask them to get nekkid.j/k
 

StoOgE

First tragedy, then farce.
Act like Trent from Swingers.. thats what I do in these situations.. I go into an interview with the mindset "Im too good for this job, they would be lucky to get me".. sorta the opposite that most people do. Makes me come off alot more confident.. and this is the total opposite of my actual personality.

The other trick is to really chat up the other candidate.. be really nice to him, make small talk, ask him about his personal life before the interview... it'll fuck with his head.

These are both old tips I used for debate, worked then has worked for interviews so far.
 

Dilbert

Member
The best way to control anxiety is to focus on your physical actions. Believe it or not, controlling your body will help you quiet your mind.

1) Smile. Remembering to smile at the beginning of the interview will help tremendously.

2) Posture. If you are standing, your feet should be at roughly shoulder width. Do NOT rock or pace -- focus on maintaining a strong base. If seated, keep both feet on the floor. Although you want to maintain good posture (back straight, etc.), I have found that focusing on keeping your shoulders loose helps to keep you from getting too tense or anxious.

3) Gestures. If standing, keep your hands above your waist -- keep them out of your pockets, and don't place them behind your back or in front of your junk. Use gestures to emphasize your answers, but keep the motions reasonable since you don't want to be flailing around. Find a balance which is comfortable for you. If sitting, don't forget to gesture, though you may be restricted to using smaller motions.

4) Breath. Just before going into the interview, focusing on keeping your breathing slow and regular.

One other tip which may or may not help: To this day, whenever I have to do some kind of public speaking or performance, I always have a jolt of stage fright when I first begin -- I can't quite overcome my introverted tendencies. I have found that it's helpful to have an opening line or approach ready to go so that you don't have that awkward moment where you're thinking, "OMG they're all staring at me." If you're the funny or convivial type, a joke or small talk can work. For an interview, it could be as simple as mentally rehearsing the first few things that you do: walk in, smile at the interviewers, sit down, and say "Thanks for inviting me here for this interview." By scripting it out, you don't have to THINK...and once you establish a positive rapport with the group, you can relax and focus on the interview questions with confidence.

Good luck...
 

tedtropy

$50/hour, but no kissing on the lips and colors must be pre-separated
ronito said:
When they ask you what your biggest weakness is say "Kryptonite." with the straightest face possible.

And, of course, bang your first down on the table right as the interviewer is at the peak of their WTF-dom.
 

Nerevar

they call me "Man Gravy".
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sc0la

Unconfirmed Member
Thanks everyone (both serious and otherwise).

I will let you know how it goes.

Man this is going to be a long weekend =/
 

haunts

Bacon of Hope
Looks like you're well on your way there now..but...

Regulate your breathing. The less breaths per minute you have the calmer your mind will be.

Go in there with your "everyday mind" as well. Dont try to create an "interview mind". Just be natrual yet professional.
 

Phoenix

Member
Act like you REALLY want the job. Be interested in meeting people and asking about how things work. If you've done similar things toss that in during interview conversation. The most important thing, however, is to RELAX. I can't even count the number of insanely nervous people I've interviewed who just locked up and couldn't communicate.

An interview is just as much a "can we deal with this person every day for the next 20 years" meet and greet as it is a review of your actual job qualifications.
 

sc0la

Unconfirmed Member
Went in with ice in the veins and fucking nailed it. Only had the anxiety creep into me one time and quickly roped it in took back control. I was funny, calm, articulate and cogent.

Got the job offered to me on the spot and they haven't even interviewed the other person yet :lol

Thanks guys!
 

Dilbert

Member
scola said:
Went in with ice in the veins and fucking nailed it. Only had the anxiety creep into me one time and quickly roped it in took back control. I was funny, calm, articulate and cogent.

Got the job offered to me on the spot and they haven't even interviewed the other person yet :lol

Thanks guys!
Congratulations!
 

sc0la

Unconfirmed Member
Thank you., I needed a break like this.

Though the hours are going to be slightly limited during the training period it feels damn nice to be making twice as much as I was last month and almost 3 times as much as I was 6 months ago.

Now I can actually pay bills and maybe buy a video game once in a while again :lol

#goes out to celebrate*
later guys =D

EDIT:thanks to Jinx and everyone who mentioned breathing specifically, that worked decisively well. Thanks to Stooge for telling me to be a bad ass
 

nitewulf

Member
scola said:
The interview is for a position in the planning department of the city government
1) easy smiles. very easy smiles.
2) laugh at their jokes, no matter what it is.
3) think for a second before you answer, dont blurt out. be smooth, be sleek.
4) if you're feeling it, play along with their jokes.
5) why do you want this job? SERVICE, SERVICE, SERVICE. you ARE a slave to mankind, you WANT to serve. the SERVICE INDUSTRY turns you on. the sheer thought of SERVING people makes you shiver with ecstacy.

reads thread: ok, i am an idiot. anyway, congrats, man.
 
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