Yeah, there is definitely a great difference of expectations of what a good romance story is from person to person in audience more than in action.
Like personally, Im not interested in like at least 95% of romance stories due to the types of stories those are.
They either seem to operate within tropes I dont like or the romance is really just a vehicle for a Very Important Life Lesson (tm) that the protagonist learns. Im not sure what kind of romance story I could do that I would be satisfied with. Its a pretty difficult one since I dont have much of what I would like to see laid out before me in works that I like.
:shrug
Have you read Strangers in Paradise?
Top tier romance story.