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Diffusing the Bomb (girl thread aka help me cubsfan)

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J2 Cool

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You guys have had to have had a situation where a girl is obsessed with you that you're not particularly attracted to. How the hell do you get out of this without being an asshole? She's always been cool when I talked to her but I never even thought of her sexually once. She said "I love you" jokingly as I walked out of class because the office sent for me and I just said "I loves you too" while laughing and left the room. But I never gave it a 2nd thought. Then the days leading up to christmas break I get her telling me I'm real hot. I say "thanks?". The next day she asks "you heard what I said right" and I just nod and joke with her a bit down the hall. But then I guess before break she made herself make a move. She came to my locker right before I left and asked if I seen Ocean's Eleven. At the time I was really trying to find someone before leaving and accidentally said "no". Then she paused, making her even more apparently nervous. Then asks if I would want to go see Ocean's Twelve or something with her and some friends. I said I'm not sure and she says "maybe?". So I go "yeah, maybe." And she asks if she could write her email on something so I rip her a piece of paper.

Now I either got the guilt of not saying anything which I don't want to do, give her the wrong impression and go see the movie to be nice, or tell her straight forward which is just cold. I can't think of what else to do. Oddly enough another girl ran up to me and told me someone I know really thinks I'm hot but she was sworn to secrecy. Doubt it was the same girl because this girl made it well known. And of course there's another one who's made it even more obvious she likes me since the first day I seen her but she's never made it akward because she's so out there. And then another girl last week, I put her clayhead on her table in art because I accidentally grabbed the wrong one, and the next thing I know, that period she's taken my friend's seat to sit next to me and compliment a clayhead with no features even on it yet. I don't get it, I got a fan club now and I'm not sure how to sort it out. Anyway, any solution to the immediate problem? And yes, this thread was just some serious whoring about my recent success but I still need help.
 

Piecake

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Just be honest with her. Say you are not interested in her like that, but you still think she is a great person and you still want to be friends.

If you dont say anything, and keep on leading her on by not saying anything you are just being a selfish ass. Seriously, even it is a little awkard for you to be honest like that, she will appreciate it. It will save you and her a lot of grief
 

Jim Bowie

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Date them all simultaneously, then choose the best fit as a girlfriend.

Or, if you don't want to date the first girl, start flaunting your obvious differences. If she doesn't like games, start talking about the games you like to play. If she doesn't like Chinese Wuxia films, tell her about how most people don't know what those really are. It's extreme girl repellent.
 

hXc_thugg

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If you want actualy helpful adice, I say tell her the truth. If she gets upset then don't worry, it's fun to be an asshole.

However, I personally would just string her along because it would be fun.
 

NLB2

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You say your not attracted to her, but that's really not enough information for us to tell you what to do. If she's decent looking but you just don't feel it for her, I'd suggest a hit and run. If she's completely ugly, tell her that you're going out with some girl in a different state. No need to thank me for my advice.
 

AntoneM

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this sounds like highschool..

quick fix is to ask what University she plans on attending and then name some Uni. far ways from hers and tell her that's where you plan on going. I kills any sort of relationship ideas, but not casual sex ideas.
 

J2 Cool

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well, yeah, she's just really average to the point where I've never even thought sexually about her. She's not offensive looking but given the chance I wouldn't want to hit it
 

J2 Cool

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APerfectCircle said:
lol, im sure that would work :D

hehe, I'm not even sure who the mystery one is so who knows, maybe she's the clayhead girl. Supposedly I know her. Now the real chick I need to get with is the girl from Bad Boys Toys I seen today. She's a generic blonde kinda but insanely hot body. I was in there getting my little brother his skateboard and I didn't say anything to her until as we were paying and kinda said "you go to blah blah blah high school right?" and said she sees me all the time. I froze for a second and said yeah but had no follow up when I could have moved in real easy. Open invitation for discussion but my little brother walks out the door and I say "see ya". Now if only she's not generic enough to where I forget her face I'll be good but I'm worried I already did. But damn I won't forget that body.
 

Jak140

Member
Fake your death, then mysteriously return from the grave four months from now. If she tries anything then, tell her the relationship would never work out because you have a ghost penis.
 

Cubsfan23

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I don't get it, I got a fan club now and I'm not sure how to sort it out.

Well the solution here is obvious.......make her the President of your fan club.

Seriously though, just make her your friend, she might even help you out with the other girls that like you.
 
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