Listen, i dont like discord either, but isnt the content exactly as good as the groups that you join and engage with? Which leads to ask: what kind of weird discord groups do you guys partake in
If this is how you're using discord, you're using it wrong. Discord is best used for somewhere around 3 to 20 friends to create a group and be able to stay in contact with each other. You can play cross-play games together, watch videos together, chat like an old ICQ channel, share memes and other images. It's honestly great.
The only reason to visit a larger discord server is to see official PR announcements from companies or games you enjoy, and you can mostly find that sort of thing on Twitter instead. Anything else on a large server is exactly like you described above.
I used it because it was the only ’community’ for a couple of old online games that have resurrected servers through fan efforts.
The is no forum or anything on their sites and they point everything to discord. So I joined and of the 3 or 4 games the discord servers were the same shit interchangeable.
One had some trans person writing huge daily rants about how their job doesn’t appreciate them and their workplace is full of bigots. Nobody ever replied to them but they kept this weird diary posting going everyday.
Others were just random unrelated things like giving their opinions on Pokémon IV values for breeding (none of the games are Pokémon related).
Then I asked a question about the emulator network settings and had a response, only for a resident know-everything to respond to them ACKSHUALLY and then they spent a couple messages arguing over who knows the most.
If you reply to someone, your reply will get buried under the stream of noise. The quoting system is awful so it’s impossible. You basically have to privately talk to them, defeating the point of the community part.