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ever been the physical replacement for a past lover?

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i haven't felt this self-deprecating, ever, in my life. when i finally figured out past friday night that the girl i have been going after, will basically use me as a physical replacement for her on and off boyfriend. i mean i know i can get her if i pursue, yet i know i wont be able to compete with this person.
how do you compete with the first and only man she has ever been with, and is obviously in love with?
how come she does not see me for myself?
ever come back home at 3 in the morning, with raging hormones? feeling like a dog? knowing one small move on your part would have lead to great mindblowing sex, yet you just could not do it? knowing you just could not be the conduit for another man?
no man should ever have to feel that way.
i just can't do it. i can't go through with this. every time i go for straight sex, i keep falling for the girls, and my plan falls through. if i was a complete asshole, i would have banged her and forgotten her.
yet now i am sitting here feeling low and sick of myself.
fuck this shit.
 
I agree with you that you're not in a desirable situation... though I'm sure some here would jump at the chance to be in your shoes.
 
CoryCubed said:
You could get her pregnant and then maybe that'll force things your way
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Or she lives off his child support while seeing her man still.
 
nitewulf said:
i haven't felt this self-deprecating, ever, in my life. when i finally figured out past friday night that the girl i have been going after, will basically use me as a physical replacement for her on and off boyfriend. i mean i know i can get her if i pursue, yet i know i wont be able to compete with this person.
how do you compete with the first and only man she has ever been with, and is obviously in love with?
how come she does not see me for myself?
ever come back home at 3 in the morning, with raging hormones? feeling like a dog? knowing one small move on your part would have lead to great mindblowing sex, yet you just could not do it? knowing you just could not be the conduit for another man?
no man should ever have to feel that way.
i just can't do it. i can't go through with this. every time i go for straight sex, i keep falling for the girls, and my plan falls through. if i was a complete asshole, i would have banged her and forgotten her.
yet now i am sitting here feeling low and sick of myself.
fuck this shit.
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Bro, don't give her the satisfaction of using you like that. Just forget about her and move on, obviously she is going to hook right back up with her on/off boyfriend and not give two shits about where you turn up.
 
she just called. i didnt pick up. i'm on my "ignore this bitch" mode. at the first sign of plan going ashtray...i bail out.
i am the god of bailing out.
 
Well, let me put it this way, you won't have any other crack at her since she is in love with her other guy right? I say go for it and just shrug it off afterwards. You're an engineer at con edison making plenty of cashola, there'll definitely be other girls out there, but shit, have fun now. ;)
 
1) Sex + emotions = bad for something you know is a short-time thing.

2) This will contradict what most of GAF will tell you. Be a man, not a man-slut. Don't let her use you to get her rocks off when she's pissed off at her guy. I mean, what kind of logic says this is OK? What kind of thinking tells you that it's totally kosher for her to walk all over you just because she's horny? Any momentary happiness you receive will eventually leave you feeling empty and like a fool.

Take a stand, eject the wench from your life. You'll wind up the better for it.
 
basically use me as a physical replacement for her on and off boyfriend. i mean i know i can get her if i pursue, yet i know i wont be able to compete with this person.
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nitewulf said:
i haven't felt this self-deprecating, ever, in my life. when i finally figured out past friday night that the girl i have been going after, will basically use me as a physical replacement for her on and off boyfriend. i mean i know i can get her if i pursue, yet i know i wont be able to compete with this person.
how do you compete with the first and only man she has ever been with, and is obviously in love with?
how come she does not see me for myself?
ever come back home at 3 in the morning, with raging hormones? feeling like a dog? knowing one small move on your part would have lead to great mindblowing sex, yet you just could not do it? knowing you just could not be the conduit for another man?
no man should ever have to feel that way.
i just can't do it. i can't go through with this. every time i go for straight sex, i keep falling for the girls, and my plan falls through. if i was a complete asshole, i would have banged her and forgotten her.
yet now i am sitting here feeling low and sick of myself.
fuck this shit.
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i was in the same exact situation last year. it sucks. girls suck. the world sucks. the end.
 
Mr. Spinnington said:
God DAMN did you just now find out about this site?!

... Myspace will be like a holy grail to you, son.
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I ran this through my funny detector THREE times and it came up with nothing every time. Damn.
 
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