What? So he should have told his little kids he was having an affair? Do you not realize just how high the infidelity rates are in Hollywood? Do you know JFK had affairs? Hell even Bill Clinton whose speeches we all loved and will most likely be First Gentleman soon, he had an affair with his intern and then lied to the public about it almost being impeached.
Plus he is now in his illegitmate son's life, bought Joseph a Jeep for his high school graduation etc. His children have forgiven him and he has a great relationship with them all and even has reconciled to have a friendship with Maria. Just recently they were all together celebrating his youngest son Christoper's high school graduation.
This man was a poor Austrian who served in the military, emigrated to Germany and the UK becoming the top European bodybuilder, inmigrated to the US where he became the best bodybuilder in the world, became a successful real estate buyer, became the biggest movie star on the planet, married the niece of JFK, became Governor of the largest and richest state in the US etc. He will go down in history as one of the most successful and influential men of all time. His personal family problems aside, which his family have forgiven him for shouldn't diminish his accolades. He just recently raised millions for his after school all stars charity by selling shirts.
There are gyms and supplement shops on every street corner of pretty much every country in the world because of Arnold. Think about that.