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[thatJohann]

I've been seeing this guy for 6 weeks now and I feel so ready to tell him. curious what your experiences have been like. I think 6 weeks seems too soon but we've done so many things it feels like 6 months already.

What's the soonest you've told "I love you" to someone you're dating?

 

[Icyflamez96]

Extremely relevant video https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5WVXXvNxZ7U

 

[linkboy]

I think it really depends on the relationship.

My current relationship she said it first and it kinda took me by surprise since I wasn't expecting it.

You'll know when the time is right though. Like when you see the person you're dating (in person or a picture) and it just brings a smile to your face, or when you can't stop thinking about him or her.

 

[teruterubozu]

Give it time before you jump into Community status.

 

[wenis]

Give it time before you jump into Community status.

Yea, jumping into that too soon can cause problems in the future.

 

[Shokifer]

Weirdly I don't think I've ever actually said that.

 

[Joey Fox]

1. You say you love him
2. He doesn't say it back
3. You get upset
4. He gets mad

That the worst that can happen? Seems like win-win to me.

 

[thatJohann]

I think it really depends on the relationship.

My current relationship she said it first and it kinda took me by surprise since I wasn't expecting it.

You'll know when the time is right though. Like when you see the person you're dating (in person or a picture) and it just brings a smile to your face, or when you can't stop thinking about him or her.

yeah i think we're both feeling it, yet we keep telling ourselves that 6 weeks is too soon to say it. he almost blurted it out recently and then got all red and said something like 'yeah you know like i heart you and it's too soon to say the L word, right?' and I just smiled.

So, i might say it soon. Your description is just how I feel.