combo settlement building and military. And good recs?
Stronghold: Definitive Edition
Stronghold: Crusader (I reckon that they're working on a definitive edition of that game as well)
The Settlers IV
Age of Empires II (although it is actually a RTS and not a city builder, it has fairly detailed base building mechanics compared to other RTSs)
Age of Mythology (same reasoning)
Northguard
Farthest Frontiers (still in development, early access.)
Grand Ages: Rome (YMMV on this one. It has flaws)
Although you can have military conflicts as well, Anno isn't really about that. Yet, I can recommend:
Anno 1701
Anno 1404
And maybe, if you are OK with DLC platforms as business models and Ubisoft account bullshittery: Anno 1800
Same can be applied to Impressions Games' city builders (they're GOATed, tho):
Caesar III (play it with the Augustus mod)
Pharaoh
Zeus: Master of Olympus
Emperor: Rise of the Middle-Kingdom