I think my step dad might be cheating on my mom

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Lost Fragment

Obsessed with 4chan
Or, at least have intentions to cheat.

I was fixing his internet, and when I opened the browser, a saved session popped up and it was a Craigslist ad in the adult services section. I didn't have a chance to get a good look since he was sitting right there, but when I was going for the home icon I misfired and caught a brief glimpse of some other Craigslist sex ads in his history.

Gonna go back and have a closer look at things when I get the opportunity to be in the house alone, but otherwise, what do I do about this? My mind is seriously blown right now.
 
Lost Fragment said:
Or, at least have intentions to cheat.

I was fixing his internet, and when I opened the browser, a saved session popped up and it was a Craigslist ad in the adult services section. I didn't have a chance to get a good look since he was sitting right there, but when I was going for the home icon I misfired and caught a brief glimpse of some other Craigslist sex ads in his history.

Gonna go back and have a closer look at things when I get the opportunity to be in the house alone, but otherwise, what do I do about this? My mind is seriously blown right now.

Maybe they're trying to get someone for a hawt threesome.
 
Wow, that's a terrible predicament. Wishful thinking would have me say that maybe he accidently clicked on the links.
nomster said:
Could be nothing, I read those for laughs sometimes

And that.
 
I look at that shit all the time, it's hilarious

I don't condone snooping on him, but I'd wait to see an email or something before getting all worked up.
 
Internet history cannot be trusted.

Do you have:

Proof it was him
Proof he went there intentionally
Proof that he wasn't just doing it for a joke
 
Since when was browser history a proof of anything?

He could've been looking at it for a laugh, maybe someone forwarded him a funny reading post or whatever.

I could post a link right now, put "Haha - click ->", you'll click, and BAM! you're cheater or have intentions.

For sure look into it, but don't think too much about it.
 
GuiltybyAssociation said:
Was your mother, not your step dad. She's looking for some cock on the side.
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KHarvey16 said:
Ever look in a store without having any intention of actually purchasing anything?
This is going to be fucking balloon boy all over again, isn't it? You are the devil's advocate that becomes the devil out of pride.
 
Subliminal said:
Internet history cannot be trusted.

Do you have:

Proof it was him
He's the only one that uses that particular computer.
Subliminal said:
Proof he went there intentionally

Reasonable to assume he did, considering the multiple pages in his history.

Subliminal said:
Proof that he wasn't just doing it for a joke

This is the one I don't have. I don't know exactly what his intent was, and yeah, it could just be a misunderstanding. But you have to admit it doesn't look good.

KHarvey16 said:
Ever look in a store without having any intention of actually purchasing anything?

Why the local Craigslist classifieds, though? There are a million porn sites on teh net if he just wanted to see some tittays.
 
Socreges said:
This is going to be fucking balloon boy all over again, isn't it? You are the devil's advocate that becomes the devil out of pride.

What extraordinary evidence do you have to support these claims?
 
PoliceCop said:
What extraordinary evidence do you have to support these claims?
Another "It's crazy, let's post this on GAF" thread.

It's turning into another IMDB "Is this appropriate for my 7-years old nephew?" trolling.
 
Socreges said:
This is going to be fucking balloon boy all over again, isn't it? You are the devil's advocate that becomes the devil out of pride.

Uh huh, sure thing. You know I can think of a name for someone who thinks this evidence is conclusive.

Lost Fragment said:
Why the local Craigslist classifieds, though? There are a million porn sites on teh net if he just wanted to see some tittays.

Craigslist is like wikipedia. I know I can start off looking at the best of list, then some free shit and before I know it I've lost an hour. Unless you have other reasons to think he's cheating this discovery means nothing.
 
PoliceCop said:
What extraordinary evidence do you have to support these claims?
None. I just constantly see him making ridiculous arguments against the grain. His analogy sucks and he must know that.

KHarvey16 said:
Uh huh, sure thing. You know I can think of a name for someone who thinks this evidence is conclusive.
OK. What does that have to do with me?
 
Investigate more when you get the chance.
Or confront him. If you do that and he lies, you probably won't believe him and you'll be back to square one, so I say snoop more.
 
Make like 50 ads and hopefully he'll pick yours. Then when he shows up at your hotel you can say "Why don't you have a seat over there...would you like a drink?"
 
Socreges said:
None. I just constantly see him making ridiculous arguments against the grain. His analogy sucks and he must know that.

OK. What does that have to do with me?

Against what grain? What thread are you reading?
 
I'd hate to know I was judged by my browsing history. :lol

It doesn't necessarily mean he's going to cheat unless you have some other reason to believe. Craigslist shit has been in my history before and I've never cheated (seven years).

I'd just stay out of it unless you come upon something conclusive. You don't want to needlessly upset your mom or cause problems between them.
 
Surgeon Rocket said:
Investigate more when you get the chance.
Or confront him. If you do that and he lies, you probably won't believe him and you'll be back to square one, so I say snoop more.

Snoop the shit out of that shit man
 
KHarvey16 said:
Against what grain? What thread are you reading?
No no, not so much this thread as others. I guess I was just more struck by the ridiculous analogy and felt you posited it because it fell in line with your characteristic 'there must be another explanation' stuff. Anyway I'll get off your back!
 
Thing is that my step dad's not the kind of person that would look at that sort of thing just for a laugh.

But yeah, I agree that it's not enough to even confront him about. Gonna do some snooping around though and if I find something more conclusive, then I'll confront him about it.
 
Lost Fragment said:
Thing is that my step dad's not the kind of person that would look at that sort of thing just for a laugh.

But yeah, I agree that it's not enough to even confront him about. Gonna do some snooping around though and if I find something more conclusive, then I'll confront him about it.

If you made a hot ad saying you want someone in his age range & description, and made the loc really close by and could get him to reply to it you'd be getting there.

That would be pretty creepy though. :lol
 
I browse those from time to time just for the funnies, but dig into the history some more if you think he's messing around.
 
xelios said:
If you made a hot ad saying you want someone in his age range & description, and made the loc really close by and could get him to reply to it you'd be getting there.

That would be pretty creepy though. :lol
i imagine it'd work though?

i mean if he IS looking through the ads in hopes of getting laid... that'd be the perfect ad

he'd HAVE to reply
 
What was it about? You give no description of the posts.

I'll just assume your mom and your step dad are looking to spice up their sex life by introducing more people.



I think you should sign up.
 
xelios said:
If you made a hot ad saying you want someone in his age range & description, and made the loc really close by and could get him to reply to it you'd be getting there.

That would be pretty creepy though. :lol

Yeah, this is a really good idea. Think I'm gonna try it :lol
 
Not your problem to solve. Your mom married the douche and wanted you to think of him as "dad". Now you have plenty of rational reasons to not like your step dad. Think of all the step kids that don't even get that!
 
Even if he is cheating, it's generally best to just turn a blind eye. For all you know, your mom is doing the same.

Snooping in cases like this often leads to knowing more than you really want to know, whether it's cheating, or cuckholding, swinging, crossdressing, etc.

Of course, you're probably already going to snoop because it's so easy to do these days...

Lost Fragment said:
Why the local Craigslist classifieds, though? There are a million porn sites on teh net if he just wanted to see some tittays.
Before Facebook got huge, i'd go to personals sites and do searches in my area. Aside from the M4W and W4M, i'd do M4M and W4W searches too. Found a few people i know, specifically my best friend from middle school who i found out to be gay. We've since reconnected.

There's also the curiousity angle. i'm sure CL got a big boost in traffic after the CL murders simply because people were curious what was on CL. But curiousity doesn't equal intent or infer a history.

Edit: For the record, i'm for minding your own business.
 
nomster said:
Could be nothing, I read those for laughs sometimes
pretty much my take on this


Lost Fragment said:
Yeah, this is a really good idea. Think I'm gonna try it :lol
...but this development is much more fun. :lol *grabs popcorn*

keep us updated.
 
Sounds like conclusive evidence to me. Tell your mom about it. And since she might not be convinced, just tell her that you actually caught him in a threesome, preferably with one of her friends. If you're going to leap to conclusions, why not go all the way?
 
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