If I had this post one or two horus ago it probably would have been my drunk post for the week, but i guess you'll have to wait until next week for that. I dont' even know whta the fuck I'm asking. I just feel so fuckin lonely, or lacking in deep connection with other people, that it's making me sick. I spent the evening going to a movie then grabbing a bite to eat then hanging out for a little bit with this one girl I've known for a while, and while technically we are friends, our 'relationship' didn't exaclly start off in that direction, and it's been a bit weird ever since. I realyl like her, I mean she's literally the first girl I've known that I've been really interested in as a person, but the situation's so complicated, sort of involving another guy (who she told me about soon after she shot me down at my first and only attempt to make a move on her when I think she gave every signal for me to do so that night), so I'm stuck in this weird position with her. We occassionally hang out as friends, but sometimes she's kind of flirty with me, she's come onto me in the past more than I've come onto her, and I have no idea if i made a move on her if thats' what she wants. So whenever we hang out I can't just accept that we're friends and enjoy the moment, and I'm always hoping for something more. But there is that 'other guy' (i think, still), and I don't want to be "that guy", if you know what I mean. But jesus christ I like her, and I wish I could just read her fucking mind and know if she was interested in me in that way or how she'd react if i "crossed the freinds line" in any way, if ya knwo what I mean.
Anyway, so as always after we hang out, I wish more had happened, and I wish I could get close to her and open up (but don't out of fear of ruining out friendship), and I start to get depresseda bout my 'girl situation'. I'm almost 23, almost graduated from college, and am usually too embarrassed to admit how far I've gotten physically/relationship-wise witha girl in my life (which surprises people because I look good and dress welladn generally act cool/in control whatever the fuck)...
Anyways, I know a lot people think relationships are overrated, relationships shit on you, you should learn to be happy by yourself, and all sorts of cynical/jaded crap, but as someone who's grown up kind of introverted and with some social anxieties, I really do enjoy being around enjoyable people, I love being around this girl, and is it so wrong to really really wish I had a girl to get really close to and get intimate with and open up to completely and FUTA? I"m just tired of feeling lonely like this, but the situation with this girl is just too awkward and I dont' realyl have any experience with girls, and I really have no experience approaching girls and asking them out and whatnot, and the situation I'm in now- I don't know anyone around here and I find it hard to get to know anyone and make friends....I mean wtf am i uspposed to do? I'm tired of spending my life being alone like this and I really wish I had a girl I could for exampel call up and ask to come over to watch a movie and cuddle and get close to and talk and FUTA. but I feel like there are tons of girls out there and I just don't know HowTF to meet them because I have like no experience at meeting girls, and its not so much an intial rejection i fear (I think) but being found uninteresting or inadequate in some way while getting to know me, and that's a lot more personal than an initial ask-out rejection.
I dunno, I can't even remember wtf this was originally about, and i'm too tired to spell-check it. I'm just sick of being lonely, and I don't even know if getting a girl would make me happier or if I have some deeper issue that "finding someone" won't fix. But I really am sick of being alone, and i feel like I'd be happier if I had someone and were cloeser to more people. i just needed to fucking vent. BLAH LIFE SUCKS
Anyway, so as always after we hang out, I wish more had happened, and I wish I could get close to her and open up (but don't out of fear of ruining out friendship), and I start to get depresseda bout my 'girl situation'. I'm almost 23, almost graduated from college, and am usually too embarrassed to admit how far I've gotten physically/relationship-wise witha girl in my life (which surprises people because I look good and dress welladn generally act cool/in control whatever the fuck)...
Anyways, I know a lot people think relationships are overrated, relationships shit on you, you should learn to be happy by yourself, and all sorts of cynical/jaded crap, but as someone who's grown up kind of introverted and with some social anxieties, I really do enjoy being around enjoyable people, I love being around this girl, and is it so wrong to really really wish I had a girl to get really close to and get intimate with and open up to completely and FUTA? I"m just tired of feeling lonely like this, but the situation with this girl is just too awkward and I dont' realyl have any experience with girls, and I really have no experience approaching girls and asking them out and whatnot, and the situation I'm in now- I don't know anyone around here and I find it hard to get to know anyone and make friends....I mean wtf am i uspposed to do? I'm tired of spending my life being alone like this and I really wish I had a girl I could for exampel call up and ask to come over to watch a movie and cuddle and get close to and talk and FUTA. but I feel like there are tons of girls out there and I just don't know HowTF to meet them because I have like no experience at meeting girls, and its not so much an intial rejection i fear (I think) but being found uninteresting or inadequate in some way while getting to know me, and that's a lot more personal than an initial ask-out rejection.
I dunno, I can't even remember wtf this was originally about, and i'm too tired to spell-check it. I'm just sick of being lonely, and I don't even know if getting a girl would make me happier or if I have some deeper issue that "finding someone" won't fix. But I really am sick of being alone, and i feel like I'd be happier if I had someone and were cloeser to more people. i just needed to fucking vent. BLAH LIFE SUCKS