Michigan woman sues man over Facebook "misrepresentation/fraud" and relationship

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http://seattletimes.nwsource.com/html/living/2015572086_facebook11m.html
A Michigan woman is seeking $8,386.88 from a Kennewick man because of a relationship gone bad via Facebook.

Cheryl Gray says Wylie Iwan led her on, caused her to spend money on gifts and a trip to the Tri-Cities, then humiliated her when he posted vulgar comments on her Facebook wall.

The 50-year-old unemployed paralegal admits she was "devastated" and angry when a week before her planned trip, he said he met someone else at a Kennewick bar.


Now, "I feel foolish," Gray said. "I'm not so much mad or angry. I feel foolish. I am disillusioned."

Iwan says he and Gray were just Facebook friends who played Mafia Wars together, but the friendship developed into an online relationship. Still, he said, he told her she was welcome to visit during spring break as "my friend."

When he met someone new, he said he was upfront with Gray about it and initially she was OK with it. But then, the 35-year-old who works at Applebee's said, Gray started a hate group about him on Facebook and called him an online predator.

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Gray, a single mother living in Livonia, Mich., with her 13-year-old daughter, said she played Mafia Wars on Facebook and met Iwan through the game because they were part of the same clan, or family.

They became Facebook friends in September and had about 300 friends in common, she said.
During the next couple of months, they began talking through Facebook messages, and Gray said Iwan wanted to exchange personal information and get to know her.

They also talked on the phone, through text messages and via email, she said.

By late November or early December, Iwan created a special group page and invited her to join it, she said. The page was accessible only to people in the group, so she said it essentially was a secret page the two could use to talk.

"We spent an hour plus in the morning online and three, four, five, eight hours at night every day," Gray said.

She said Iwan used the word "friend" or "best friend," while at the same time saying, "I love you" or "I'm falling in love with you," and making plans for the future. "He led me to believe for a number of months that our meeting was to explore a potential relationship between the two of us," she said.

She sent him and his sons gifts for Christmas, his birthday and flowers on Valentine's Day. She bought airplane tickets and reserved a rental car for a trip to Kennewick from April 6-11 and reserved a hotel room in Seattle and got tickets to the Mariners' opening home game.


On March 30, Gray said Iwan told her he had met someone else four days earlier.

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Iwan said when they first began talking, Gray said she was 42. After they got more personal and made plans to meet, she admitted she was 50. She also went back and forth a couple of times about whether she would make the trip to Kennewick, even after she bought the plane tickets, Iwan said.

He said he did meet someone new when he was at a bar with friends March 26. He said he told Gray the next day about the other woman because he wanted to be upfront about everything.


"I was like, 'If you want to come down here as my friend, come down as my friend,' " he said.

Iwan, who still has copies of some of the messages, said Gray responded: "I think that's great :) I think you should pursue it :)"

Gray's attitude changed, however, later that day, Iwan said. She took screen shots of posts on the page they used, then started deleting everything, he said. She also posted comments on her Facebook wall and his wall about how he led her on for three months, Iwan said.

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On April 22, Iwan got an email from an attorney friend of Gray's seeking $956.88 for repayment of expenses related to the trip she didn't take, and gifts and flowers she sent him. A week later, Iwan got a second email that said Gray no longer was interested in pursuing the claim.

Then on May 18, Gray filed a civil suit in Michigan seeking $8,368.88 for misrepresentation, promissory estoppel, defamation of character and intentional infliction of emotional distress.
Maybe Law-GAF knows. Could she be attempting to prevent him from entering into the other relationship through the estoppel claim?
 
When he met someone new, he said he was upfront with Gray about it and initially she was OK with it. But then, the 35-year-old who works at Applebee's said, Gray started a hate group about him on Facebook and called him an online predator.

Err.. if anyone should sue the other, it does not look like it should be her.
 
"Gray started a hate group about him on Facebook and called him an online predator."

Wait, this is the woman who is suing?
 
Sounds like someone that doesn't have a lot going on in their life outside of Facebook.

They became Facebook friends in September and had about 300 friends in common, she said.
No they fucking didn't. If either of these people had 300 actual friends, this story wouldn't exist.
 
SmokyDave said:
Sounds like someone that doesn't have a lot going on in their life outside of Facebook.


No they fucking didn't. If either of these people had 300 actual friends, this story wouldn't exist.
LOL new avatar! And yeah, two lonely people, for sure.
 
Jesus... how disillusioned do you have to be to sue for this stuff? Fucking opportunists trying to wrench out every possible penny everytime something doesn't goes their ways.
 
Facebook is taking over lives. Unfortunately I see more and more folks being lured in by the sense of a "social" life.

Playing games is fun, but she's got what I call an addiction.
 
This women is crazy. She starts something on facebook, lying to the guy, she decides to spent shiton of money (dumb!) and when the guy decides to not meet her she starts a hate group and then she's trying to sue? WTF.
This shit won't fly. What they fuck, we can't refuse to meet people anymore? lololol
 
spiderman123 said:
Addicted to Facebook. How the fuck do you get addicted to Facebook?...then again I am addicted to GAF
GAF is a place for meaningful discussion about video games and lolcats.

Facebook is a friends list run amuck.
 
At the heart of this story isn't the social networking but rather what constitutes as deception - I've heard of a person suing for this exact reason before (but through IM and email). When you're in this situation, you sometimes trend to think it was 'all for nothing - a big lie' so obviously she feels cheated and feels like she can get something 'back' for the fact that she spent actual money. Not a lawyer so I don't what grounds she could achieve this on, but this is a heartbroken woman and I sympathise with her
 
So... Typical online game relationship drama, but with people old enough to sue and throw legal crap at each other.
 
samus i am said:
It sounds like she is completely in the wrong, or am I missing something?


Pretty much. Especially since he has proof. She seems to have lead herself on and jumped the gun.
 
PsychoRaven said:
They're both fucking idiots. What losers.



There is nothing wrong with an older woman.

Nothing at all. But people that "misrepresent" themselves when trying to attract a mate online is just the saddest thing imaginable.
 
I love these stories about people suing for the dumbest shit. It makes Americans seem pretty stupid but it is basically just sensationalism. There is no way in the world this woman is going to win anything. The guy could probably represent himself and still get off. And if he does win, I would counter sue for lawyer fees and court costs.
 
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SmokyDave said:
Sounds like someone that doesn't have a lot going on in their life outside of Facebook.


No they fucking didn't. If either of these people had 300 actual friends, this story wouldn't exist.

Probably all people who spam others for Mafia Wars invites, like Gamertag requests. I have people on my friends list who sent that silly fb game shit my way, I just ignore it.
 
SmokyDave said:
Sounds like someone that doesn't have a lot going on in their life outside of Facebook.


No they fucking didn't. If either of these people had 300 actual friends, this story wouldn't exist.

lmao love the new avatar. Google approved :).
 
I feel embarrassed for her and her daughter... so pathetic.

He didn't force her to buy any of the shit she did, and she defamed him apparently not just the other way around. The dude was playing internet romance games with some older broad and she took it WAY too seriously and blew her cash. Now that she realizes this after he found real pussy she's freaking out and suing.
 
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