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[pollo]

and youre the bad guy.

Im a sophmore in college. Met this freshman girl whos been wanting to break it off with her bf who's still in high school for over 2 months now. I hooked up with her and fell for her and now were in this weird in between period where were neither dating nor are we just hook up bodies. She broke up with him. I feel like an ass. A homewrecker. And a pedophile all rolled into one. Oh not to mention I cheated on my current GF.

Dont GA hate this type of guy?
blah.

 

[impirius]

Being the bad guy is no fun at all.

My advice:
Figure out where you're going with all this. NOW.
Be honest with everyone involved about your actions and desires.
Apologize to those you've wronged.

None are easy steps, but in my experience, you have to do all of them eventually, and it's much better if you take the initiative and do them ASAP.

butheythat'sjustme

 

[NLB2]

You don't actually care about other people, do you? If not just do whatever the fuck you want to and then don't feel guilty about it.

 

[demon]

Meh, she would have eventually broken up with her highschool boyfriend anyway.

 

[pollo]

Meh, she would have eventually broken up with her highschool boyfriend anyway.

thats why i went for it

 

[hXc_thugg]

Being "the bad guy" is great. You get to do what makes you happy, and hurt other people at the same time. A win-win situation.

 

[jett]

:lol Do whatever the fuck you want, as you always do, asshole.

 

[revivalist]

You have too much of a guilty conscience.
You're very much like me.

Clear your conscience.
Is there any way you can get away with this without anyone every finding out?
You can leave the "hookup girl" alone. Let her mend her relationship with her ex-boyfriend and live her life without you involved. Fuck being with her. She's probably not wifey material anyway and it's not worth it. If she dumped her man for you, she'd probably do the same to you.
Work on the relationship with your current girlfriend. I know it's hard. I've done the same thing and tried to keep it a secret but your conscience seems to overwhelm you so much. It just takes time to get over it because all of this drama is hitting you in one shot. Just realize that if there's no prospect in her ever finding out, there's no reason you should ever tell her. If you know what you did is wrong and don't want to pursue another girl outside of your relationship, then you're fine.

 

[Kuro Madoushi]

You have too much of a guilty conscience.
You're very much like me.

Clear your conscience.
Is there any way you can get away with this without anyone every finding out?
You can leave the "hookup girl" alone. Let her mend her relationship with her ex-boyfriend and live her life without you involved. Fuck being with her. She's probably not wifey material anyway and it's not worth it. If she dumped her man for you, she'd probably do the same to you.
Work on the relationship with your current girlfriend. I know it's hard. I've done the same thing and tried to keep it a secret but your conscience seems to overwhelm you so much. It just takes time to get over it because all of this drama is hitting you in one shot. Just realize that if there's no prospect in her ever finding out, there's no reason you should ever tell her. If you know what you did is wrong and don't want to pursue another girl outside of your relationship, then you're fine.

IAWTP

You gotta think about survival in this crazy messed up world...look out for the one guy you'll always see in the mirror (that's you).