Oppo
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It's really the preachiness that gets me. I'm not going around telling people to count their calories to stay healthy - but I have to hear why the things eating during dinner might be secretly poisoning me.
I've also started counting calories (and exercising) - which is why I recently brought it up when I told someone I was trying to lose weight and they asked me if I was eating organic. I just said 'nah, I'm not really into that, I'm just calorie counting' - and they looked at me like I was crazy. Mind you, I've lost 18lb in 3 months, and I've never been in as good shape in my life, and this person is obese.
I've been trying to not coddle people when they talk to me about stuff like this, and people haaaaate it.
Yeah I hear you. Good for you on the weight loss. For my part, I'd just point right back to what was evident. I know how tricky this can be, I totally understand what you mean about not just letting it go but not wanting to be antagonistic either. So I would probably say something like "listen, I just know what I'm doing is working, so i'm gonna stick to that for now". You can disagree but not provide any real hooks, just disengage on your terms. I like this approach also because it has a subtext of "we all believe what we believe", as opposed to you refusing to hear the supposed truth. I mean your initial answer in your example was essentially that.
The nutrition aspect probably is almost incidental in this sort of behaviour, as others have pointed out, it's just the odd "sided" issues that people kind of magnetically attach to, either through interest or peer groups or influence, or who-knows-what.