Video Game Widows Speak Out...A Cautionary Tale!

moondance

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My boyfriend used to have a PS2 until it was stolen in a burglary. He used to play every now and then but I often ended up going to bed alone, waiting for him to stop playing. Now he intends on buying anther one for himself, solely to play GTA: San Andreas. I gave him a simple option: "Buy a new console, get yourself a new girlfriend." I think he got the point.
Sophie, Paris, France


I was with a gamer for years and in the end there was only one solution, he got dumped.
Katie, Bournemouth, England

My relationship of six years ended because of the PlayStation. When our son was born my partner spent all his time playing games. We never went to bed at the same time due to him staying up as he wanted just to get to a certain level. He slept during the day due to being up all night and I was left holding the baby literally. Our relationship ended and he admits now it was down to the PlayStation. I am happy now and have a new partner who does not own a games console. Every cloud has a silver lining.
Melissa, Blackpool, UK


http://news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/technology/4120463.stm
 
My husband suffers a terrible addiction to EverQuest. He even has withdrawal symptoms when we're on holiday, slackened only by finding an internet connection to check on the status of his fellow players. He plays at least eight hours a day, not coming to bed until 3am most mornings. I've become so accustomed to seeing only the back of his head, that I am shocked when I see his face. I'll sign up to the Games Widow clan!
Patricia Henley, UK

Maybe if he saw the top of yours a few times he'd come to bed more often!
 
a.k.a. "The Homewrecker"
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Yet these women probably don't understand why their men don't want to watch YET ANOTHER episode of Sex and the City with them.
 
If guys can't manage their relationships because of a mediocre game like San Andreas then they should be fucking shot. I can understand some Prime 2, but not that lame shit.
 
evilromero said:
If guys can't manage their relationships because of a mediocre game like San Andreas then they should be fucking shot. I can understand some Prime 2, but not that lame shit.

Lame troll attempt.
 
" I gave him a simple option: "Buy a new console, get yourself a new girlfriend." I think he got the point. "

I wonder how that new girlfriend hunting is going for him?
 
evilromero said:
If guys can't manage their relationships because of a mediocre game like San Andreas then they should be fucking shot. I can understand some Prime 2, but not that lame shit.

There's funny in this thread, right? Because I sure as fuck don't see it here
 
evilromero said:
If guys can't manage their relationships because of a mediocre game like San Andreas then they should be fucking shot. I can understand some Prime 2, but not that lame shit.

Worst. Troll Attempt. Ever.
 
Trying to get this thread back on track the question is:

If you lady gives you an ultimatum, "videogames or me?" do you

A-Give up videogames or B-Give up the girlfriend
 
moondance said:
Trying to get this thread back on track the question is:

If you lady gives you an ultimatum, "videogames or me?" do you

A-Give up videogames or B-Give up the girlfriend

C-get counseling.

As someone kinda pointed out, as an young adult or adult if you can't balance your game-playing time with the other things that are important to you in your life... you have need help.
 
moondance said:
Trying to get this thread back on track the question is:

If you lady gives you an ultimatum, "videogames or me?" do you

A-Give up videogames or B-Give up the girlfriend
I've run into this situation many a time. Basically I try to prep my girl weeks ahead of the game's release date. But it doesn't always turn out pretty. As much as my girlfriend knew I was anticipating Prime 2, I had to feel this constant guilt trip the entire time I was playing. But maybe that's the most severe example. Most of the time I just stop playing before bedtime.

It's easier to find another girl than it is to cut games out of ones life. I wouldn't ask my girlfriend to stop buy Coach, Louis Vuiton or Bobbie Brown just because it takes up so much of her time and money.
 
moondance said:
Trying to get this thread back on track the question is:

If you lady gives you an ultimatum, "videogames or me?" do you

A-Give up videogames or B-Give up the girlfriend

It depends. If you are playing videogames at such a level that you are neglecting those around you and your responsibilities, then it definitely might be best to compromise and lean yourself off of videogames somewhat. Playing Everquest for over 8 hours a day, for instance, is like having a full time job - 56 hours a week.

If you truly love your significant other, or anyone who is complaining about obsessive videogaming habits, make sure you discuss it and then be honest with yourself.
 
I don't understand how people can play everquest for 8+ hours a day, and support themselves. How do these people make money?
 
Drey1082 said:
I don't understand how people can play everquest for 8+ hours a day, and support themselves. How do these people make money?

THERE ARE 24 HOURS IN A DAY! THERES STILL TIME! THERES STILL TIME!!11
 
FFIX is just as bad. One girl in my class simply stopped coming to class after this game debuted. I mean, for the years before she was always attentive, and never missed a day. But after that BOOM and she was gone. But on the days that she did straggle in all she would fucking go on about was that lame nerd game. I'm surprised those MMO game's don't come under more fire than they already do. It's like fucking crack. At least a game like San Andreas and Prime 2 have an end. And you can enjoy the catharsis of your actions.
 
evilromero said:
If guys can't manage their relationships because of a mediocre game like San Andreas then they should be fucking shot. I can understand some Prime 2, but not that lame shit.
You can do SO much better. Take some time off to come up work on your skills.

Don't breathe easy, junior members! I'm coming for you today too! Watch yourselves!
 
24 hours in a day

-6 for sleep
-2 heigene/ self (shower, food(breakfast/dinner), getting ready for work)
-8 for Everquest
-8? for work

Hmm, i guess it can be done.

Leaves about 0 for girlfriend. I can she where she might have some issues.
 
My relationship of six years ended because of the PlayStation. When our son was born my partner spent all his time playing games. We never went to bed at the same time due to him staying up as he wanted just to get to a certain level. He slept during the day due to being up all night and I was left holding the baby literally. Our relationship ended and he admits now it was down to the PlayStation. I am happy now and have a new partner who does not own a games console. Every cloud has a silver lining.
Melissa, Blackpool, UK

I rolled my eyes at the others but this one, i have to admit this guy is pathetic.
 
It will sound geek but I made it clear to my gf that I liked videogames and that I wouldn't "stop playing for her". If my gf complains that I am playing games too much is because she cannot take care of herself, like having activities on her own.

Of course, I am able to stop playing and care about important stuff (gf, work, taking care of the house, etc...) but those "widows" simply cannot manage their love life or simply their own life.
 
I can actually sympathise with these women since my gf has been sucked into WoW ... The game didn't grab me the way it grabed hold of her, she made a character on my account and went to town.
I've since gotten her a 2 month subscription card for x-mass for her to use however she pleases...

It's not putting too much of a damper on the relationship, since it is X-mass and there's so many games for me to dabble in with my extra time :lol .... And we do hold our responsabilities and chores before our gaming... But it does suck going to bed w/out her sometimes.

She's always been amazingly supportive of the fact that gaming is my passion and now my work .... We just got outa school and are new to supporting ourselves... so we're just seeing where it goes, since she'll be working in the industry with me soon.

But all in all, and being as honest as I can be ... It does suck more than I would think having to go to sleep alone, while someone is playing games 'till 3am ... I don't care how much of a pussy that makes me! :lol
 
It's like any other hobby. You simply manage it well and all is ok. But the bottom line in relationships like those shown above is that the two people probably weren't right for each other in the first place. If the guy wants to avoid his wife that badly, he probably doesn't really want to be around her so much to start with.

The Sex and the City comment was actually very right on.
 
My wife is always on about me playing games and not paying attention to her. Now she goes out and buys me a logitech cordless controler. What the hell does this mean???
 
Gek54 said:
My wife is always on about me playing games and not paying attention to her. Now she goes out and buys me a logitech cordless controler. What the hell does this mean???

Does it still have rumble functionality?
 
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