Laughed way too hard at this.
Cute girl in class touched me...
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Laughed way too hard at this.
SuperAndroid17
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Holy shit OP is GAF-MAN!
HES REAL!
HES REAL!
Pound_lb003
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This is not a national culture thing, this is a personal culture thing. don't make out like all Canada has some sort of rule on touch. The idea that there's a level of relationship communicated through a touch is entirely arbitrary i.e that's in your head.
It's never too early to ask a girl out for a coffee or a bite to eat. It's not forward enough to seem overbearing, and it's transparent enough that she'll understand you're interested. If she says no, then you leave it, if she says yes, then grab a coffee and get to know her.
Either way, if you're thinking about sex, it's a ways off and there's no way to rush it, so get used to it. And please, for god's sake, remain aware of what she wants.
I don't understand why some people find relationships so difficult.
Bronetta
Ask me about the moon landing or the temperature at which jet fuel burns. You may be surprised at what you learn.
I guess you're right. Ill let her use my book this one time but if she tries again I'll tell her to consider getting her own book.
Based on the nature of the conversation, it's hard to determine what she really meant by touching your arm a few times. Obviously, some girls make physical contact like that as an intimate signal that their interested in you. If she approached you first, then it could be a more likely indicator of that, but the nature of your conversation puzzles me a bit. Naturally, some girls can be touchy feely during social interaction, but then again, it may not mean anything at all. You know, some girls can just have a habit of engaging in physical contact like that with their friends and family. So for all you know, it may just be here way of saying thank you in a more appreciative manner than just choosing to say thank you. Since she has talked to you a few times before, then perhaps she was just in a more comfortable zone with you.
Vulcano's assistant
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In high school I remember a goth girl touching ones's back and arms in hopes that the awkwardness of it all would make one move over.
Anytime anyone who says chivalry isn't dead and isn't being intentionally ironic with it I laugh.
Just ask her if she wants to study together.
SymbiantXenos
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657 emails an hour. Also call 60 times a day.
Perfection.
The touch barrier.
She used kino on you breh
Time to get sarging you so don't get oneitis
Be sure to neg her a few times so you don't end up in friendzone
From one extreme to the other.
Amentallica
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I appreciate that you gave enough information for context clarification as to why she may have touched you.
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Because you did not, I am to assume that she was unsure about something, noticed you in front paying attention, but when she whispered for you to turn around you were too deaf to hear, so then she tapped you to get your attention, but as soon as you responded, you turned around and started sweating profusely, got nervous, and further drowned her out when she had more questions and kept calling for your attention, which forced her to continuously tap your shoulders, after which you couldn't handle the touch of a female anymore and you began to foam at the mouth and seized up in class, but her questions had finally been answered and she just got up, walked past you, and smirked at your twitching body.
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Because you did not, I am to assume that she was unsure about something, noticed you in front paying attention, but when she whispered for you to turn around you were too deaf to hear, so then she tapped you to get your attention, but as soon as you responded, you turned around and started sweating profusely, got nervous, and further drowned her out when she had more questions and kept calling for your attention, which forced her to continuously tap your shoulders, after which you couldn't handle the touch of a female anymore and you began to foam at the mouth and seized up in class, but her questions had finally been answered and she just got up, walked past you, and smirked at your twitching body.
Bravo.
Clearly we haven't touched sticks. Allow me to touch your stick.
seriously tho, great post
It's highly probable that touch was casual. Some girls do that. I know that you probably don't want to ruin what you already have now (one book in exchange for a few touches lol), but if you want to ask her out just do it.
As long as the conversation doesn't start with "Earlier when you touched me..." you're all good
As long as the conversation doesn't start with "Earlier when you touched me..." you're all good
Holy shit
SargerusBR
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Should had been first post
Don't be this cat, OP.
No, god damnit, stop. The alternative isn't just "be an ass."
LISTEN TO THIS PERSON
Sato Koiji
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The next time do it like Bret Michaels...tell her there is a connection and chemistry between you two and tell her that you deeply love her and would die for her.
The last part is very important!
The last part is very important!
billy beane
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I hate when girls touch my arm
Don't fucking touch me
Don't fucking touch me
Sato Koiji
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Are you ok?
Blargonaut
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All jokes aside, this reminds me of something that happened when I was around 17.
A few years ago in high school, this girl in Biology class I've never talked to suddenly went up behind me and squeezed my right bicep. I turned around in my seat to find out what was happening and she was standing there staring at me. This lasted for about 2 seconds, after which we both nodded and she went back to her seat across the room. I never spoke to her again.
I don't even work out. And I'm slightly overweight.
Carpe diem OP
A few years ago in high school, this girl in Biology class I've never talked to suddenly went up behind me and squeezed my right bicep. I turned around in my seat to find out what was happening and she was standing there staring at me. This lasted for about 2 seconds, after which we both nodded and she went back to her seat across the room. I never spoke to her again.
I don't even work out. And I'm slightly overweight.
Carpe diem OP
lol the fuck?
OP:
Holy shiiiiiiit
I remember this. Takes me way back. Loooool. I was in 7th or 8th grade when we discovered this at school. So hilarious back then.
Bronetta
Ask me about the moon landing or the temperature at which jet fuel burns. You may be surprised at what you learn.
The touch wasn't to get my attention. I was talking to a friend outside class after lecture ended and she came up to us.
Fancy Clown
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Lol
And she asked about... what?
Dude, next time you two start talking in the hall or whatever, ask her if she wants to come grab a cup of coffee. If you still aren't sure if she's into you, ask if she wants to hang out at some point outside of school like with a group going to a movie. If that goes well, then just ask her on a date.
Extra Sauce
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I've had a girl slap my arm because I said something inappropriate. What a bitch.
I loved it.
Sun Bather
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She touched your arm, she didn't pull out your cock and started jerking it off.
Can Crusher
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Touch her back. See if it's weird.
Bronetta
Ask me about the moon landing or the temperature at which jet fuel burns. You may be surprised at what you learn.
We talked about our backgrounds, where we work, assignments, stuff like that. We're also meeting tomorrow after class to work on an assignment so I'll let you guys know how that goes.
TangerineCloud
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(Off-topic, sorry!)
Whoa, do we know if the girl in that story is the same girl from this thread?
Had sex last night
n00bsauce87
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Every time I watch Silicone Valley, I think of people like OP and GAF more generally. Thank you for reminding me that it's not just some TV show based on make believe.
But seriously, say hi. It never hurts to speak to your fellow humans in real life.
But seriously, say hi. It never hurts to speak to your fellow humans in real life.
Can Crusher
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When you see her, hug her real tight for a second longer.
PhoenixDark
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You should touch her next time. Not during conversation, but like when you walk in class and she's sitting down, maybe touch her shoulder from behind as a greeting. Does she have long hair? In my experience this is a good way to get a touch of the hair - just go for the shoulder but extend your thumb to make sure you get a few strands.
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