"Starting a dialogue" isn't a passable or plausible goal, in my opinion, because this is a young, immature community with few things of value to say. Regardless of the hatespeech epidemic which may or may not be attributed to a "small minority," it's a strawman to act as though Leigh Alexander and others speak for the media as a whole and there has been a monolithic reaction of "anti-gamer rhetoric" (the very phrase itself is embarrassing). If anything I see people like Jason Schreier and others whose personae are more diplomatic bending over backward to maintain a dialogue with people who clearly are more incensed, more invested, and less able to see the forest for the trees on this issue. These are men and women in their late twenties and all the way into their forties, with college degrees and life experience, trying to communicate with children with anime and My Little Pony avatars on Twitter, who are insisting that #GamerGate is changing the industry forever.
Stop going to gaming sites. If you want a dialogue, get all your news from NeoGAF - it's probably available there first. When you've convinced yourself that the act of reading the words of someone who can't read yours is inherently unfair, text-based media is no longer a venue for you.
But what's worse, and what is insidious, about posts like this, is that you sneak in right at the end of your point that this isn't simply about being able to Web 2.0 your way into a better, brighter tomorrow where the lines are blurred between journalist and reader - what this is actually about, what really makes, you, the reader feel voiceless and is the catalyst for all this hashtag activism, is that you feel infringed upon by gaming journalists' "personal agendas."
That poison in the well of our past time, ruining it for the people who just want to enjoy games without it being so political. Calling it their "personal agenda" makes it an extreme viewpoint, rather than just baseline human decency and ethical coverage of gaming that is consumable by demographics more diverse than white, male, Mtn Dewdes. So, why don't we work on starting a dialogue when the reason you care about doing so isn't because you feel marginalized for being a gamer?