Prax
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We do need a proper discussion about this, to separate which social norms are rational and have good reason, and which ones are just there by sheer inertia. Also, I was thinking discrimination in the sense of the social stigma you get versus other forms of games, even among "gamers".
Oh yeah, I understand that too.
It happens with all sorts of media consumption, like different types of anime, comics, novels. The list goes on!
So we agree that talk about these things are important, but it's also difficult because people get very defensive or feel vulnerable while others may have prebaked judgments. But that doesn't mean discussion shouldn't happen. It's just really unfortunate it flies over the heads of a lot of people because it's hard to accurately describe the feelings and mechanisms that sustains certain themes.
I think that it's we get that cute girls are cute, and guys desire gals, and sexy stuff turns people on, and these are pleasurable, and that's why people like them, etc. It's just that sometimes (or a lot of the time) these things are paired up with unsavory/unhealthy aspects too, and then it gets copy-pasted and becomes a trope, and then there's just so much of it that people feel exhausted, excluded, or even attacked because of it.
So maybe we have to deconstruct and uncouple some of these tropes so we don't get the same thing ad nauseam. And maybe we have to diversify all the themes so it doesn't choke out people who would otherwise be interested.
I think once more diversity and inclusiveness happens (meaning a variety of games are available for all types of people, with the bigger more popular ones trying harder to be inclusive in some way because people WANT to feel invited to wider social phenomena/fads), then it would actually lower the stigma and discrimination against certain game subsets.
There will always be kind of snooty people who want to look down on others for their choice in media, but I think their condescension will hold less teeth and the stigma will feel less severe if more people of all types feel satiated by what games have to offer.
Oh man, I think there have been threads in the past ATTEMPTING in some way to discuss these issues, but they always turn into disasters because people get to reactionary or have such glib responses. It would be hard not to get it locked. xD The same kind of happens with any thread to do with feminism too, so it's always frustrating.Prax, want to start a thread for this? I'm a junior member, so I can't.
I have also never started a thread before! But if you're really passionate or interested about this, I wouldn't mind reading over a thread intro post and then posting it for you! My ability to curate and maintain the topic as the OP would be questionable though. lol Send me a PM if you want!