How familiar are you with the professional world? Do you know stuff like networking? Are you aware of how important dissemination and raising awareness through by socializing with other people is?
Because networking and going to events and socializing with other people is really, really, really important for the success of your game.
That is exactly why I argue against this kind of favoritism. Yes I do network, I am a professional software developer by trade and have been doing it for years. I'm not stranger to the "real world" where people who know each other trade favors. This is exactly the kind of crap I *don't* want to see in the game development field. I am an indie, but I am also a consumer of video games.
I've been to GDC. I've shared a cab with Rami, I've chatted and have deep respect for Adriel Wallick, who is an excellent person and is doing some super brave things like quitting her job to pursue the indie life (which is not something I can bring myself to do until I can prove to myself, and my family, that it can support us).
I've been to gamedev conferences and belong to gamedev skype groups. I know about common strategies to market your game like posting up articles online with controversy to get your game's name out there. I've studied kickstarter and how to succeed and fail at it. I have my own company and manage and employ people, on a project that has been going for over 3 years funded by my own pocket change.
So yes, I know how important all that is, and my point is that the fact that it is important, rather than "is your game any good", is exactly what is wrong with this whole situation and why I am vehemently against people wanting to sweep things under the rug and accepting the status quo.
As a person who loves games, I want to see the industry move forward. That means employment equality for all genders and races, transparency, great games rising to the top rather than whatever garbage someone with an agenda wants to make succeed. Why do you think demographics in the game industry are so skewed? Because buddies hire their buddies who hire their buddies. It actively discourages diversity.
I want consumers not to get screwed over, basically. That is how I run my company, and that is how I want the world to be. Will that ever happen? No idea, I wish. It's unlikely though, but that doesn't mean I'm going to just sit back and let it happen.
I'm a realistic individual. But I don't play games professionally as I feel it is dishonest. I don't do it in my professional career, and I don't do it as part of my hobby either. I will succeed by the labor of my work and not by favoritism. We all need to live with ourselves in this life, and I'll be damned if I know that my success is owed to trading personal favors rather than the fruits of my hard work.
Maybe I'm weird though. That's just my personal ideology.