Gotchaye, you mention the divine right a lot in your posts, but I'm not sure if you disagree with how the show portrays it or are just making the observation?
Looking for a fight Veelk?
Veelk: "You got a problem with that? punk?"
Gotchaye:"No no, merely an observation.."
In all seriousness, neither ATLA nor LoK really demonstrate they are interested in discussing that particular aspect of governance , at least not before Book 3 and 4 of Korra, which is trying to bring out a point about it (how monarchies are outdated).
It's not important in ATLA though. It's mostly a feudal society set in an old period that the audience understands is still dependent on kings, chiefs and lords, although the shows does indeed go out of its way to point out that its better to let the rightful heirs rule than to try any shenanigans.
And it's pretty obvious that's where Book 4 of LoK is going. Wu will be placed on the throne under a reformed Earth Kingdom, with Suyin as Prime Minister or something. Balance. Boom. Oh, and Korra now knows that it's not ok to punch all the time, big lesson learned.
On the metalbending thing, I wan't to make a comment: ATLA kind-of illogically diminished metalbending from the start by making it simply the bending of earth within refined metals... makes no sense, as most "earth" is also metal like iron, copper, gold, aluminium (or aluminum, if you wish), etc.. In fact, there's no "earth", just a bunch of minerals. If minerals are what earthbenders are bending, then ok, they can't bend the metallic elements by themselves. Do they purposefully make metals not as refined, just so that they can bend it? But as Veelk said, it shouldn't be possible to bend most copper wiring either... whatever.