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[Bronetta]

I'm at work and my coworker who is probably twice my age and I've never found her attractive decided to wear a low cut top. Every time we communicate or I look at her, my gaze automatically reverts form her face to her breasts.

They just looks so soft and comfy. Is this socially acceptable? I've always wondered. Same thing with those girls who wear yoga pants with writing on the ass area and then get upset if you look.

 

[shadowsdarknes]

Just don't stare.

 

[alexandros]

You can sneak in some looks here and there but try not to ogle.

 

[Pai Pai Master]

You look, you appreciate, and you go on with your day. Don't be a creep.

 

[Hjod]

Wrong or not, I find it really hard not to glance atleast, if not impossible. But staring is another thing, don't stare.

 

[Escape Goat]

If you have to ask...

 

[the_firewithin]

Sunglasses. Doesn't matter if you're inside

 

[John Kowalski]

We all love the motherly bosom, but you must try and be a good boy or Santa won't bring any gifts next year.

 

[Verelios]

Don't stare. A peep is fine, I don't think anyone would blame you for that, but good god try to not be too obvious.

 

[Ramza]

Don't stare. A peep is fine, I don't think anyone would blame you for that, but good god try to not be too obvious.

This is correct. There's nothing wrong with catching a glance to admire some nice cleavage, but when you start staring, you become a creeper.

 

[Zen_Arcade]

I feel like you should refer to the Seinfeld episode for cleavage etiquette. They sum it up pretty nicely.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dbsmbCWUNEE

 

[teruterubozu]

Say, "I love your top" and move on with your day.

 

[coleco]

A peek if you are attractive is fine and it's a compliment, if you are ugly it's rude and you are a creep.

 

[ElectricBlanketFire]

I'm at work and my coworker who is probably twice my age and I've never found her attractive decided to wear a low cut top. Every time we communicate or I look at her, my gaze automatically reverts form her face to her breasts.

They just looks so soft and comfy. Is this socially acceptable? I've always wondered. Same thing with those girls who wear yoga pants with writing on the ass area and then get upset if you look.

 

[Grym]

 

[Wiktor]

IMO...just having a quick look is OK, staring is bad.

 

[dreams]

Yeah, like everyone else is saying, just don't be creepy about it. Everyone (including other women, straight or not tbh) will give a glance at cleavage. Boobs are nice. But it's when you continue to stare the entire time or act like the woman who is wearing a low-cut top deserves to be treated like a piece of meat that it causes women to get uncomfortable.

Tl;dr: a glance is fine. Staring is not.

 

[Bronetta]

I'm not staring but every time we communicate, my gaze automatically glances downwards towards her partially exposed rack. It's like an automatic response.

She knows I'm looking but I'm trying to act like I'm not looking but she knows that too. Its like some high level Street Fighter mind games.

 

[ReturnOfTheRAT]

U should make a comment about it.

 

[joelseph]

This thread will be on top all day.

 

[frankie_baby]

Don't Stare but generally women that show cleavage want it to be looked at

 

[Ravek]

Sunglasses. Doesn't matter if you're inside

Exactly.

 

[Rawket Lawnchair]

They wouldn't show cleavage if they didn't want you to look.

 

[dralla]

I'm not staring but every time we communicate, my gaze automatically glances downwards towards her partially exposed rack. It's like an automatic response.

She knows I'm looking but I'm trying to act like I'm not looking but she knows that too. Its like some high level Street Fighter mind games.

Option select the titties

 

[Shadybiz]

It's a lot like looking at the sun.

 

[teruterubozu]

This thread will be on top all day.

It's hard not to notice.

 

[Kurita]

Don't stare man.

 

[Tarkus]

She's showing it because she wants you to see it. Just don't stare.

 

[tycoonheart]

 

[thebaroness]

 

[ElectricBlanketFire]

my coworker who is probably twice my age

Here's a thought. What if the OP is 46?

 

[ruxtpin]

Need pics to really evaluate and provide a thoughtful response.

 

[Violence Jack]

Never stare. But I know some of my female friends will purposely wear low cut tops to get discounts when they have to take their car into the auto shop.

 

[Kickz]

A peek if you are attractive is fine and it's a compliment, if you are ugly it's rude and you are a creep.

^That got me good.

 

[Ravek]

It's a lot like looking at the sun.

You can't motorboat the sun, nor other..."things"...

 

[Deadly Joker]

 

[Courage]

Usually if you talk to women enough you get used to looking at them eye to eye. It's a perk you get at level 6.

 

[Currygan]

You can sneak in some looks here and there but try not to ogle.

.

 

[Dennis]

What is the point of showing cleavage?

 

[ElectricBlanketFire]

NSFW (some massive cleavage though)

 

[Grym]

Usually if you talk to women enough you get used to looking at them eye to eye. It's a perk you get at level 6.

Talk? .....to women....?

 

[maxcriden]

Usually if you talk to women enough you get used to looking at them eye to eye. It's a perk you get at level 6.

This, and:

A peek if you are attractive is fine and it's a compliment, if you are ugly it's rude and you are a creep.

 

[kehs]

It's insulting to not look at cleavage.

 

[Flappy]

A quick look of appreciation is fine. That's usually why it's being shown.

 

[BajiBoxer]

I'm at work and my coworker who is probably twice my age and I've never found her attractive decided to wear a low cut top. Every time we communicate or I look at her, my gaze automatically reverts form her face to her breasts.

They just looks so soft and comfy. Is this socially acceptable? I've always wondered. Same thing with those girls who wear yoga pants with writing on the ass area and then get upset if you look.

I've never had a girl get upset at me for glancing at her yoga pants ass writings. Is this a common occurrence for you? Are you particularly unsubtle about it or stare? Looking at her breasts every single time you talk to her might be kind of rude.

Edit: changed beasts to breasts to head off any further confusion ;-)

 

[Lionheart1827]

Man I was expecting this to be the first post as soon as I read the thread.

 

[HuskerDutheDu]

And she never wore anything low cut ever again.

 

[maxcriden]

I've never had a girl get upset at me for glancing at her yoga pants ass writings. Is this a common occurrence for you? Are you particularly unsubtle about it or stare? Looking at her beasts every single time you talk to her might be kind of rude.

What some consider rude is referring to a persons' buttock as "beasts."

 

[Ayumi]

My sister's rack is A+.

Not that I would know.

 

[zoukka]

Can't believe someone needs to ask advice for this... did you grow up in a barrell OP?