Females and minorties deal with this kind of harassment all the time. Not to this amount. But they deal with this their entire life when participating in hobbies that have sexist environments. People really need to be empathetic and realize that their fellow people in this industry that just want to enjoy this as much as you -- can't. And that is not acceptable.
As someone that identifies as a feminist myself, I just wish those trying to educate people on these issues approached this differently (gaming media, activists etc.) I'm not a fan of the no room for debate approach. The end goal here is to bring over all the people in this industry that aren't educated or aware of these issues. Or those that have not yet come around to it and don't see an issue. And I don't think the approach of -- this is 100% sexist with no room for debate, is the solution.
That said, how are you even supposed to try to have even a basic discussion when you can't even speak your mind on an issue without being attacked and threatened to these levels? That even just being female alone, makes you a target. God forbid you discuss issues that matter to a lot of people.
I have no idea what the solution is for these psychos.