I uninstalled and redownloaded fallout 3 and started it completely from new.
It froze before I could name my character.
It is amazing that they are able to sell and promote this on steam as a working product. Maybe if you have windows 7 it's better?
Please stop blaming the product. It has worked fine for me on Windows Vista, 7, 8 and 8.1 over the years.
There's nothing wrong with mods, and Durante's visual mods are hardly anything like the overhauls, additions and modifications we see for Bethesda games, nor are they as complex to configure or install. If there were 100,000 variations of Durante's mods that all conflicted, and you wanted 40 of them at once, it might be worth comparing.
Looking at your load order above, it doesn't even look as if the mods are active as there are no ticks next to them, so unless you're managing them in something else, that'd be the first thing to look at.
It really pisses me off at how people approach modding this way, then blame the game and mods because they can't get it working properly. Not only that, but they do it publicly which leads to more misinformation about mods. If you want it to work properly, you're going to have to invest the time into reading how it all works. Mods, patches, load orders, and the appropriate apps to manage them all.
LOOT isn't a magical tool either. It will do what it can, but it's still up to you to go through each mod (again, in the right app, of which there are plenty of with plenty of documentation) and try to spot conflicts and resolve them (again, by reading about how to do this). It cannot predict and manage every mod configuration in existence. That is impossible.
It's also important to go through the documentation for every mod as the author will often put in notes as to what else you might have to do (ini edits etc) to get it working, as well as mentioning any conflicts and places to get patches.
The Nexus has PLENTY of resources for this, as well as a forum to ask questions about whatever you may be confused with. That's how I and thousands of others have learned. There's no 5 minute install process that's going to get you through it all without issues. Some modding, like with Skyrim for example, will take me ~15hrs to sort out due to patches and incompatibilities. And I know what I'm doing.
Educate yourself before simply throwing your hands in the air and blaming everything else. Your posts, and some other posts on the last few pages, are ridiculous, I cringe while reading them. If you're able to read, and willing to invest the time, there's no excuse.