The rural northeast can be extremely backwards and racist, and parts of it do feel exactly like the deep south. No surprises there. Upstate NY is an entirely different world from NYC. There are a lot of poor towns now with no jobs, no upward mobility and stagnant lives turning to cynicism, drugs, and crime. Upstate NY used to be a summer vacation destination for a lot of affluent city-goers, but most of that has dried up over time.
Tons of people who live even a two or three hour drive away from the City have never even gone there. Then you travel abroad and people in Europe are saving up money for years to fulfill their dreams of just visiting NYC once. Hey, no need for that, guys and gals, just watch some Fox News and be scared of what's happening outside of the comfort of your home.