Lincoln should have compromised with the South by letting them keep their slaves but make incremental changes to their quality of life. Right?
Lincoln ran his campaign on that idea, and his hand was only forced due to the Civil War. He didn't want to instantly free the slaves because he feared it would lead to a breaking of the union, and ensuring the union stayed together was Lincoln's primary goal as president.
And even after Lincoln "freed" the slaves, they weren't really free, and it took decades to get them their rights. Even now, 150 years later, our country still struggles with the scars of the Civil War.
So yea...
- Lincoln did compromise for a very long time and based his entire campaign's message on compromise and incremental change. Given the choice between compromise and freeing the slaves, Lincoln would have picked compromise, every time. He only was forced by the Civil War to start being more drastic.
- Tensions got so high, we had to fight the bloodiest war we've ever fought. Nobody is going to go to war over Health Care.
- Even after the slaves were technically "free" they weren't really, had very limited rights, and in many cases, slavery just kept going on under different schemes and names. It would take a hundred years to restore voting rights to freed slaves.
- Even today, the tensions of the Civil War still live on. We haven't even fully healed.
Lincoln didn't snap his fingers and suddenly all the slaves were free and had full rights and the same quality of life as whites. It took his entire presidency, a huge war, and hundreds of years of incremental legislation to fully get rid of the country's ties with slavery. And he was killed over it. And even today, it isn't entirely cleaned up, as states find new ways to disenfranchise African Americans of their rights, often using some of the same tactics as the late 1800s. Some would argue slavery isn't even over, as we haven't even fully cleaned up the mess from a hundred and fifty years ago. And I think they'd have a pretty strong argument that there's a lot more work to be done cleaning up the ties to slavery that still exist.
"Lincoln freed the slaves" is a nice thing to tell 4th graders in their history lessons, but the real story of slavery, Lincoln and the Civil War is a lot more nuanced and a lot more interesting.