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What's the best way to handle an unexpected pregnancy?

Edit: well, I neglected the details because GAF nitpicks and I just wanted advice on how to deal with the pregnancy itself but here's the story. I regret typing this already.

My best friend of 11 years and I share a flat (apartment, you are welcome, America) since we work together and it's a five minute drive from the office.

Lately, she's been acting super girlfriend like and confessed her romantic feelings for me. However, I don't feel the same way and that caused a rift between us. Somehow, we got past it and started talking again.

And then about an hour ago, she was being really... She wanted to have sex and I resisted at first but eventually, I caved and she got a condom she had stashed somewhere in her room.

Now as I was pulling out, she resisted and that counter force pushed some semen into her canal. I base this on the load I ejaculated relative to what was in the condom... And my crotch. I immediately freaked out. I am still freaking out.

She has refused to take a morning after pill and says its unlikely conception took place and took the liberty to explain high school biology to me with respect to her cycle, but I just can't let it go.

If there is even an odd chance that she is pregnant, I don't know where to start with being a father.

I am 26 and abortion is not an option. Sorry about thread title, I just didn't know what to say.

>_<


Edit 2: She is not pregnant... According to a pregnancy test she took but fuck me, I don't know the rules of when one should be taken but I will take her word for it and that of the little display showing 'Not Pregnant'. Oh, man, I am an idiot. Somewhere between cramming APIs and administration of servers, I lost all common sense. Suddenly this thread reads differently. I would smile but I don't want to jinks it ( ._.)
 
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Have a frank and mature conversation with your signifcant other about what you're prepared for and discuss the options without dismissing each other out of hand.


Congratulations.
 
by having a better, and more descriptive thread title.

But really, both of you sit down, and think things through. Financial and emotional. Familial and time-wise. Figure out what is best to do, and what you both Can and Can't do.

Sit down, talk and plan things accordingly.
 
Why the bummed emoticon?

Congrats!

Now realize everything you do in life needs to be about making that life better. It's tough at first but super satisfying as they get older.

Do everything you possibly can to provide food, shelter, security, and love to your child.
 
For some reason "unexpected pregnancy" called into mind "unexpected childbirth". Dunno why, but the idea of being completely surprised at a baby erupting from a vagina and having no idea it was going to happen seemed odd.
 
Not clear if you are the one who is pregnant or got someone else pregnant , either way talk it out and come up with a plan as your lives will change but it doesn't mean for the worse.
 
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