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Gay and Bisexual relationship thread |OT|
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I SAW THE TWIST COMING A MILE AWAY!!
My first thought when it was posted in this thread: "Man, DarkUSS is slipping. Why are they all clothed? Where are the half-nekkid men in this vid?"
ZephyrFate
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OLD/10 MAN.
Though the guys in that video are still viciously hot (well, some of them).
Though the guys in that video are still viciously hot (well, some of them).
MidnightScott
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*sigh*
He thinks I only like him because he is the only person I'm friends with in person.
It hurts...
I asked him if he thought we could ever be more than friends and he said "I'm sorry but I don't think so. I know you like me but you just need to meet people."
I told him I still hope we can be friends and that maybe that could change someday and also that I don't just like him because he is the only person I hang out with.
You know it took me a lot of courage to meet a complete stranger in the first place and it went well. But I just don't think I can do this again.
He thinks I only like him because he is the only person I'm friends with in person.
It hurts...
I asked him if he thought we could ever be more than friends and he said "I'm sorry but I don't think so. I know you like me but you just need to meet people."
I told him I still hope we can be friends and that maybe that could change someday and also that I don't just like him because he is the only person I hang out with.
You know it took me a lot of courage to meet a complete stranger in the first place and it went well. But I just don't think I can do this again.
Well, I and others did tell you to go out and date other guys. Don't put all your stock on one guy who may not be able to reciprocate your feelings. Trust us, many of us have been in your current position and know it's not fun to be there.
And you know what, yeah, I admit when my first crush went down like flames I thought the same way as you did ":/ I'd never find another person that I like". Time healed though and 2-3 months later, I had a crush on another person.
MidnightScott
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He just responded said "Thanks. I'm glad ur my friend too. Just don't keep trying to be more, id hate for u to push me away."
So I won't try to push him away. We have been hanging out but we haven't done anything like we did in the past so who knows.
I'm probably just too immature for him or he has reservations since I'm confused about myself lately.
Well, that's a good wake up call, isn't it? Be sad, cry if necessary, and if you need to, get some distance away from him a bit until you can really just see him as a friend not potential BF.
Once you're done with grieving process then start looking for other guys to date. It may take 2-3 months but it's not the end of the world....or your dating life.
MidnightScott
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Well I will probably always have feelings for him but he is also a really good friend and I'm glad I was able to be there for him in his time of need. I've never really been able to help anyone until now and I am grateful that I could.
We will probably hang out again this weekend but like I said I haven't made a move on him or anything like that. All I did is tell him how I felt finally.
I just don't think I should go out trying to date people since I'm still struggling with who I am. Shouldn't I know whether I'm 100% gay or straight before I go out and end up hurting someone else?
It happens all the time. This is normally when I appear and fight off bear gaf aka all of gaygaf :O
ZephyrFate
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That's an incredible generalization.
I know. Just callin it like I normally see it. BUT I wont start some twink vs Bear thing. It's dumb.
That middle ground tends to not say much when the fight starts up :/ And it's silly cause I do like some muscle guys. Like Peter Lee and the like.
You can do that by having some NSA (no string attached) fun. Of course this requires you to not have attachment to people you're sleeping with. On that note, Grindr is usually not used to find relationship so if you do hook up with another guy, try not expecting relationship.
As for your other issue, some people are not 100% attracted to male or female and you maybe one of those people. You don't have to pigeonhole yourself into one corner you know. IF you're attracted to both or more attracted to one than the others then just go with it.
videogamer
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Don't worry about hurting someone else. It's a dog eat dog world and worrying about other people's feelings isn't going to make much of a difference. Like the other poster said, you can try NSA activities. Play safe. Use a fake name.
That's probably because twink or bear, what matters is that the guy is cute.
In terms of Grindr, I really just use it to people watch. It's way too hard to find interesting people to talk to, even if you're not contacting them for the purpose of dating. A lot of the profiles say they are looking for friends, but I've found that's generally BS.
A bit late but you should look it up. Lack of deception is a part of being sincere. You can't be sincere without being honest.
A bit late but you should look it up. Lack of deception is a part of being sincere. You can't be sincere without being honest.
dragonlife
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That's because they're forgettable.
MidnightScott
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Well I ended up crying in my bed last night and got it out of my system. While I'm still hurt about this I'm already doing better. Even my dog came to comfort me when he heard me crying. Dogs are the best 
Well I ended up crying in my bed last night and got it out of my system. While I'm still hurt about this I'm already doing better. Even my dog came to comfort me when he heard me crying. Dogs are the best
good to hear you're doing better! there's nothing wrong with a good cry
ZephyrFate
Banned
No one's kidding, it's just that people are overreacting.
just saw that.
*hugs*
Thanks. *hugs*
CornBurrito
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Cool. Them being unique doesn't mean that they can't be put into a general category when describing their physical characteristics. An apple is an apple is an apple. A thin, hairless man is a twink.
dragonlife
Member
What happened? You seemed to be really close from some of the posts I saw.
ZephyrFate
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It's human nature to categorize. It's how we differentiate things in reality from one another.
MidnightScott
Banned
I just went on Grindr to get an ego boost lol. It's helping to cheer me up at least.
That's the spirit!
CornBurrito
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If it is any consolation, I'd boost your ego all night long.
MidnightScott
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ZephyrFate
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Do it.
CornBurrito
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CHEEZMO;33058519 said:
Hose us down with what exactly?
lordfroakie
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CHEEZMO;33058519 said:
Would putting you in the car trunk be worse?
ZephyrFate
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Not by a longshot.
Garcia
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Favorited instantly. Thank you Dex!
Got back from seeing my boyfriend for a long weekend. This whole long distance thing isn't so bad really, but I swear the moment when you have to walk away and get on a plane is so hard, especially when you turn around and look back and he's standing there watching you walk away.
I met some of his family and they all seemed to like me, even though for some of them seeing me was how they found out he was gay. Some of them cried and we hugged it out, it was all a bit surreal for me. Playing Dance Central together and drinking with them whilst they touched me inappropriately (seriously, what is with older women?) was a great way to get in their good books. It's always going to feel good when you feel welcomed into a family.
It was great to just hang out together and not really do much. On the last day he bought his flights for his Xmas visit to me. He's going to stay for 2 weeks. It feels so good to know I'll be seeing him again very soon. :3
So after writing here before about my previous... public displays of affection when I was younger I'm afraid I don't seem to have gotten any better. In fact I may have gotten worse, if this past weekend with my boyfriend is any indicator, and I can't use the 'I was 14' defence this time. I'll admit, it is a little reckless but he's just so damn hot!
I met some of his family and they all seemed to like me, even though for some of them seeing me was how they found out he was gay. Some of them cried and we hugged it out, it was all a bit surreal for me. Playing Dance Central together and drinking with them whilst they touched me inappropriately (seriously, what is with older women?) was a great way to get in their good books. It's always going to feel good when you feel welcomed into a family.
It was great to just hang out together and not really do much. On the last day he bought his flights for his Xmas visit to me. He's going to stay for 2 weeks. It feels so good to know I'll be seeing him again very soon. :3
So after writing here before about my previous... public displays of affection when I was younger I'm afraid I don't seem to have gotten any better. In fact I may have gotten worse, if this past weekend with my boyfriend is any indicator, and I can't use the 'I was 14' defence this time. I'll admit, it is a little reckless but he's just so damn hot!
I'm really fucking pissed off at people right now.
My close bisexual friend posted a status on facebook about how being gay is fine and that people should stop hating people because the bible tells them to. This caused an army of bible-thumpers to comment on her status. They went on about how being gay is a choice and that gays will all rot in hell. They rambled on about how the bible tells to condemn them, and when I told them that using the bible is a cop out when going into a logical argument they started insults saying that I'm the one using "stupid logic" and how god created me and how I should follow it till death or I'll burn. It ended up having 112 comment before she deleted it.
People as just so fucking disgusting. ajknfiuanfjkanwefiqnaeifnaeuifnaqrfisfnonef
My close bisexual friend posted a status on facebook about how being gay is fine and that people should stop hating people because the bible tells them to. This caused an army of bible-thumpers to comment on her status. They went on about how being gay is a choice and that gays will all rot in hell. They rambled on about how the bible tells to condemn them, and when I told them that using the bible is a cop out when going into a logical argument they started insults saying that I'm the one using "stupid logic" and how god created me and how I should follow it till death or I'll burn. It ended up having 112 comment before she deleted it.
People as just so fucking disgusting. ajknfiuanfjkanwefiqnaeifnaeuifnaqrfisfnonef
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