Real Pic January!

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kairiceres said:
I guess I'm joining real pic january too! I'm trying to gain confidence in myself and I guess this is a small way of doing it. Ever since I was young, people would call me ugly and bully me about it. I have to admit that it did do a lot of damage to how I view myself and I'm trying to help myself.
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Kids can be assholes. Went through the same thing as well, made me feel like an ugly duckling ;/ You look fine though!! I'm glad you joined us <3
 
RP-Gaf, should I switch to this:
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Or stay with my Steve Jobs-y current one.
 
kairiceres said:
I guess I'm joining real pic january too! I'm trying to gain confidence in myself and I guess this is a small way of doing it. Ever since I was young, people would call me ugly and bully me about it. I have to admit that it did do a lot of damage to how I view myself and I'm trying to help myself.
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Lookin' good bro! Like Count said, bullies like that are really just disappointed in themselves.
 
kairiceres said:
I guess I'm joining real pic january too! I'm trying to gain confidence in myself and I guess this is a small way of doing it. Ever since I was young, people would call me ugly and bully me about it. I have to admit that it did do a lot of damage to how I view myself and I'm trying to help myself.
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*woot*

You must be the change you want to see in the world.

Unknown Soldier said:
Anything I like is by definition good.

You're welcome to stop by Animu-GAF anytime if you want to talk about anime. We don't bite. Except on Thursdays, weekends, and major holidays.
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Eureka 7 any good?
 
CountAntonius said:
Your'e a good looking person. Don't let the detractors tear you down. people who call other people ugly tend to be absurdly disappointed in themselves. Their words are mostly a reflection of their agony and has hardly any relevance in the real world.
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Thanks. I still have issues about how I look up to this day. My family, friends and sometimes random people would tell me that. I was abused when I was a kid. I lived with my grandma and she would always tell me that I was ugly and retarded. If we have guest come to our house, my family would ask me to go hide. People I grew up with would also make me feel bad because my looks did not fit in with their standard of beauty. Living in the united states has made me feel a lot better.
 
kairiceres said:
I guess I'm joining real pic january too! I'm trying to gain confidence in myself and I guess this is a small way of doing it. Ever since I was young, people would call me ugly and bully me about it. I have to admit that it did do a lot of damage to how I view myself and I'm trying to help myself.
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Well, this is the right place for it, and you look great, so I wouldn't worry at all. Welcome to RP gaf. ^_^

CountAntonius said:
Never been one to spoil myself in that sorta way. I will sooner or later though I guess.
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Massages aren't necessarily for 'spoiling' oneself. I only tend to go after crunch time or when I've played sloshball too vigorously and pulled every muscle in my body. Health-wise it's a great thing to do for your muscles, so don't let some strange stigma that 'massages are a frivolous activity indulged in by the lazy/rich' deter you. Your immune system and general mental health will thank you.
 
Ryaaan14 said:
RP GAF needs to stop by the tinychat more.
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I would but I'm also part of can't get my ten year old buddy cam to work on fucking linux-Gaf.


H.Protagonist said:
Massages aren't necessarily for 'spoiling' oneself. I only tend to go after crunch time or when I've played sloshball too vigorously and pulled every muscle in my body. Health-wise it's a great thing to do for your muscles, so don't let some strange stigma that 'massages are a frivolous activity indulged in by the lazy/rich' deter you. Your immune system and general mental health will thank you.
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Oh that's not why I haven't done it. I've just never been brave enough to being touched by strangers in such a way. But my anxiety in that regard is wearing off.
 
kairiceres said:
Thanks. I still have issues about how I look up to this day. My family, friends and sometimes random people would tell me that. I was abused when I was a kid. I lived with my grandma and she would always tell me that I was ugly and retarded. If we have guest come to our house, my family would ask me to go hide. People I grew up with would also make me feel bad because my looks did not fit in with their standard of beauty. Living in the united states has made me feel a lot better.
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What the fuck? Man, that is some bullshit, you look great. Fuck them.
 
kairiceres said:
Thanks. I still have issues about how I look up to this day. My family, friends and sometimes random people would tell me that. I was abused when I was a kid. I lived with my grandma and she would always tell me that I was ugly and retarded. If we have guest come to our house, my family would ask me to go hide. People I grew up with would also make me feel bad because my looks did not fit in with their standard of beauty. Living in the united states has made me feel a lot better.
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It's only your own standard of beauty that should matter and don't let it be shaped by what other controlling abusive unhappy people have told you. I'm glad you have escaped that treatment and are well on your way to undoing the damage they have done. You'll make it.


Billychu said:
At least it's consistent. Unlike Ubuntu's whole "oops your wireless card is broken for the next 6 months!" thing
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hah I use Xubuntu.
 
kairiceres said:
Thanks. I still have issues about how I look up to this day. My family, friends and sometimes random people would tell me that. I was abused when I was a kid. I lived with my grandma and she would always tell me that I was ugly and retarded. If we have guest come to our house, my family would ask me to go hide. People I grew up with would also make me feel bad because my looks did not fit in with their standard of beauty. Living in the united states has made me feel a lot better.
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That's really horrible! :( I don't get why some families do that to their own kids, your family is supposed to build up your confidence no matter how you look. You look really cute though!!
 
kairiceres said:
Thanks. I still have issues about how I look up to this day. My family, friends and sometimes random people would tell me that. I was abused when I was a kid. I lived with my grandma and she would always tell me that I was ugly and retarded. If we have guest come to our house, my family would ask me to go hide. People I grew up with would also make me feel bad because my looks did not fit in with their standard of beauty. Living in the united states has made me feel a lot better.
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Well if it makes you feel any better different women find different looking men attractive. I think I look like a 5/10 personally and yet I've been with girls way out of my league.

Looks truly don't matter, it's how you carry yourself.
 
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