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[Dany]

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This.

O_O

 

[DR2K]

Light to heavy bondage, submission play, dad/son roleplay, some sense deprivation, light to heavy spanking, cbt(!).

Basic power exchange play.

I've always wanted to get into (some) of that.

 

[Dr. Malik]

 

[dragonlife]

Ouch.

 

[DR2K]

I could definitely do without the torture, lol.

 

[krypt0nian]

I could definitely do without the torture, lol.

Everything in BDSM is (should be or leave) consensual and agreed upon prior.

It understandably leaves you vulnerable and open, both physically and emotionally if the scene is a deep one.

It can also be super light "ooh tie me up!" play. Or far deeper than I'll ever get.

The fun is, it's all up to the people playing.

 

[Dany]

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You are always ON TOP on posting the perfect gif, wherever you go!

 

[krypt0nian]

Oh Marius, I bet I could have you squealing in minutes and calling back the next day.

 

[DR2K]

Everything in BDSM is (should be or leave) consensual and agreed upon prior.

It understandably leaves you vulnerable and open, both physically and emotionally if the scene is a deep one.

It can also be super light "ooh tie me up!" play. Or far deeper than I'll ever get.

The fun is, it's all up to the people playing.

So what's your code/stop word? I learned what that was off of Family Guy, haha.

 

[CHEEZMO™]

So what's your code/stop word?

Saipuakivikaupias.

 

[Souldriver]

Can range from mere "calling your partner daddy" play, to more of a father son role, where the dad can be stern, strict, teaching, mentoring, punishing, loving, protecting, etc. From instructing during sexual play, to situational play where you've "caught your son masturbating" or "getting bad grades"etc etc etc

It's deeper than a few sentences can get to. Mostly a head trip but can be really fulfilling.

Weird. I always assumed the father/son thing was more about a a dominant/strong/big person on the one side, and a submissive/smaller person on the other. I didn't know there was an actual idea of a father-son relationship in play. Doesn't it weird you out when during the role play you suddenly think of your real father? It would really freak me out.

Spoiler

If this is getting to weird for gaf, I'll end the subject here.

 

[krypt0nian]

Weird. I always assumed the father/son thing was more about a a dominant/strong/big person on the one side, and a submissive/smaller person on the other. I didn't know there was an actual idea of a father-son relationship in play. Doesn't it weird you out when during the role play you suddenly think of your real father?

Spoiler

If this is getting to weird for gaf, I'll end the subject here.

Dominant/sub play is something else entirely and related. Generally the dad is older, and takes on a more mature, strong role. But this is not always true.

Dom/sub play is often a huge part of dad/son roleplay but doesn't have to be. Hence the full range of possibilities I listed.

I never think of my dad during play. It's more of a role than an actuality, if that makes sense?

So what's your code/stop word? I learned what that was off of Family Guy, haha.

Generally I don't need one as I only play with my partner and we have 15 years of experience with body language and sounds. He says he can see it in my eyes when we're at an edge.

He's rarely wrong.


How funny to actually be talking about a gay relationship in the gay relationship thead.

ooh is that the Google Overlord knocking at my door?

 

[Mystic Theurge]

Generally I don't need one as I only play with my partner and we have 15 years of experience with body language and sounds. He says he can see it in my eyes when we're at an edge.

He's rarely wrong.

It must be heaven having such a partner. I wish you two all the best.

 

[krypt0nian]

Hey cheers man. Sometimes I feel bad talking about what we have in fear of making others feel bad, but then I think of it as showing what's possible. It took a lot of frogs, believe me.

 

[p_xavier]

I've always wanted to ask: what is the extent of dad/son roleplay? Is it more like a younger man/older man mentor-type fetish? Or is it literally pretending to be getting jiggy with your father?

No judgement, but I've never had the balls to ask someone in person.

Basically for myself it's a mentor type relationship. A daddy here being someones who takes care of you and is kinda dominant sexually.

I love daddys.

 

[Ollie Pooch]

Silver foxes ftw.

 

[krypt0nian]

Silver foxes ftw.

No doubt!

I'll ask him if I can put up a pic of him.

 

[MarkusRJR]

 

[krypt0nian]

Grown ups be talking.

 

[umop_3pisdn]

Silver foxes ftw.

Ya. Age isn't really a thing for me but this is one of my types.

Grown ups be talking.

I'm not a grown up.

 

[krypt0nian]

I'm not a grown up.

You're what I need you to be until I untie you, boy.

 

[The Abominable Snowman]

This is only my opinion, and I can be a bit narrow minded

But something about bondage and old daddy fetishes creeps me right on out...

 

[krypt0nian]

This is only my opinion, and I can be a bit narrow minded

But something about bondage and old daddy fetishes creeps me right on out...

And only vanilla sex creeps me the fuck out. Fetish play of whatever sort is not for everyone, but for those that enjoy it, HOLY FUCK.

 

[ciD_Vain]

I watched the sunset today with my bf from the edge of the Santa Monica pier; it felt so romantic ^_^

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This.

Holy fuck O_O

 

[krypt0nian]

I watched the sunset today with my bf from the edge of the Santa Monica pier; it felt so romantic ^_^

*swoon*


Oh and there are levels of CBT. I don't go near half of that stuff. *eep*

 

[umop_3pisdn]

You're what I need you to be until I untie you, boy.

I'm too much of a brat for that Power play interests me but I hate both leading and following

But something about bondage and old daddy fetishes creeps me right on out...

Bondage is hot to me, but pedagogical relationships kind of push my buttons the wrong way personally.

 

[Dr. Malik]

Oh Marius, I bet I could have you squealing in minutes and calling back the next day.

I was just frighten because that cock is circumcised

 

[krypt0nian]

I'm too much of a brat for that Power play interests me but I hate both leading and following

Haha being a brat and disobeying can be a hot part of it.

 

[Ollie Pooch]

I was just frighten because that cock is circumcised

Cut is best!

And yeah i'm far too dominant and cheeky to allow that stuff to happen ;P

 

[Erebus]

*NSFW* *Graphic*
This.

W T F

Now I'm scarred for life!

So anyways, a bit late but happy new year GayGAF.

Spoiler

I know it probably won't be for me. :/

 

[branny]

And only vanilla sex creeps me the fuck out. Fetish play of whatever sort is not for everyone, but for those that enjoy it, HOLY FUCK.

I processed this as "chocolate sex > vanilla sex," and it was a revelation that justified every fetish I did not understand. :lol

 

[p_xavier]

Silver foxes ftw.

There's nothing hoter than a guy just getting grey hair (well besides that he could be wearing a leather harness) :

 

[Vazra]

New Avatar since the other one was a bit dark I guess.

 

[p_xavier]

Cut is best!

And yeah i'm far too dominant and cheeky to allow that stuff to happen ;P

Nah, cut cocks are boring to jerk and then you have the scarring issue that is a real turn off.

 

[dragonlife]

Something something "opinions, how do they work?"

Also, I need a man that looks like julls to be into guys like me.

 

[krypt0nian]

Nah, cut cocks are boring to jerk and then you have the scarring issue that is a real turn off.

Fuck no they aren't. Both are crazy fun.

 

[p_xavier]

Fuck no they aren't. Both are crazy fun.

Well if you do it too hard they say it hurts and not hard enough they don't feel a thing. I like shift sticks on cars thank you.

 

[krypt0nian]

Well if you do it too hard they say it hurts and not hard enough they don't feel a thing. I like shift sticks on cars thank you.

I don't have that problem with my daddy dick.

 

[branny]

New Avatar since the other one was a bit dark I guess.

It's cute; I think I like this one more!

Also, I need a man that looks like julls to be into guys like me.

After we're done crying in our corner, I'll fix your makeup if you fix mine. ;_;

 

[p_xavier]

I don't have that problem with my daddy dick.

Awwwwwwww, trying to make me jealous aren't you? ;-)

 

[dragonlife]

After we're done crying in our corner, I'll fix your makeup if you fix mine. ;_;

But I don't wear makeup D:

 

[Cosmic Bus]

I suppose it depends on the couple, but I've wondered how this sort of bondage, roleplay, etc is initiated. Is it discussed beforehand, like "Okay, we're going into the bedroom and I'm going to tie you and and pretend to be someone else." or does it just happen and you roll with it? The thought of a guy taking on a different persona or whatever just makes me start giggling, and that... doesn't seem like the intended effect.

 

[Vazra]

It's cute; I think I like this one more!

Thank you ^^

 

[branny]

But I don't wear makeup D:

Hm, me neither lmao

 

[Replicant]

So what's your code/stop word? I learned what that was off of Family Guy, haha.

<-- My tag

 

[krypt0nian]

I suppose it depends on the couple, but I've wondered how this sort of bondage, roleplay, etc is initiated. Is it discussed beforehand, like "Okay, we're going into the bedroom and I'm going to tie you and and pretend to be someone else." or does it just happen and you roll with it? The thought of a guy taking on a different persona or whatever just makes me start giggling, and that... doesn't seem like the intended effect.

Basic limitations are discussed and then if it's a submissions scene, you put your trust in the dominant partner and go for the ride.

It's generally not a silly thing like on TV/movies where someone is the french maid or bad schoolgirl. It's far more deep and intense and primal. It can be triggered by a quick phrase or look at this point in our relationship.



There's a duck in the room!

 

[p_xavier]

I suppose it depends on the couple, but I've wondered how this sort of bondage, roleplay, etc is initiated. Is it discussed beforehand, like "Okay, we're going into the bedroom and I'm going to tie you and and pretend to be someone else." or does it just happen and you roll with it? The thought of a guy taking on a different persona or whatever just makes me start giggling, and that... doesn't seem like the intended effect.

That's why a daddy is important. If daddy wants to play bad cop tonight, you dress as a bad boy.

 

[krypt0nian]

That's why a daddy is important. If daddy wants to play bad cop tonight, you dress as a bad boy.

Simple. =)

Although I can hint on what I want, I'm more than happy to bend and shape into what he wants and love doing it. Getting off on submitting to someone else in power can be ridiculously hot. In the end, he makes sure I get what I want in some manner.

 

[p_xavier]

Here's a question that might offend some readers. How is sex with effeminate guys? They look too precious to even have sex.

 

[Cosmic Bus]

There aren't many (any?) people here besides myself who like femme guys, and unfortunately I can't answer your question with any personal experience. Anecdotal-amateur-porn examples? They appear to get into it as much as anyone else.