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[SpaceBridge]

I knew someone would respond to that - I was joking, really

Male strippers?!

Reference to a fellow gay gaffer Xmas day tale. Although, I did "date" a male stripper when I first came out....which was a disaster.

My question still stands though, mainly in response to the last dozen or so pages of posts from fellow members.

 

[branny]

'86, but I plan on being "early 20's" for at least five more years.

^ Those examples don't seem appealing to me. I'm a man of little needs. I like being with someone, not anyone.

.

 

[Ashodin]

Sorry, was busy attending to the GF, brought her cereal.

...wait?

?

Does your gf know about your fling?

She was there.

It's not until college when I saw full-blown nude male pics and then gay porn that I realized "Oh, I like guys." then experiment came along, etc.

Curious - as I have never really "fallen in love" with a guy.

Please do

See above.

Oh dear.

Banging the gf's friend. This is gonna end well

See above.

Did we scared Maxrpg away

Nope! Was AFK.

 

[umop_3pisdn]

I thought you were a little older than I. I was born in '87.

Thanks I think I come across as more mature through correspondence than I am in real life, though

 

[RatskyWatsky]

She was there.

She watched? :O

 

[devilru]

She was there.

Well this just keeps getting better

 

[Ashodin]

She watched? :O

One more step.

 

[Dead Man]

She was there.

As long as you are honest with her, and she is genuinley okay, explore away.

 

[RatskyWatsky]

One more step.

What does that mean? Oh, she participated? Oooooo

 

[SpaceBridge]

She was there.

 

[Ashodin]

As long as you are honest with her, and she is genuinley okay, explore away.

It was her idea.

 

[branny]

It was her idea.

Oh.

 

[Dead Man]

It was her idea.

Sounds like you have a winner there.

 

[Ashodin]

I've known about him for a while - but never had I thought I would be doing something with him.

When it happened... it was pretty dream-like... doing things I had never done before but only imagined

 

[Ollie Pooch]

See above.

Apologies - shouldn't jump to conclusions.

And yes, sounds like a winner!

 

[RatskyWatsky]

I've known about him for a while - but never had I thought I would be doing something with him.

When it happened... it was pretty dream-like... doing things I had never done before but only imagined

Details man. Details.

 

[kairiceres]

Hey guys!

I think my attraction to the same gender started when I was in high school.

 

[Ashodin]

Details man. Details.

I don't think I can get pretty graphic on NeoGAF.

 

[Dead Man]

I've known about him for a while - but never had I thought I would be doing something with him.

When it happened... it was pretty dream-like... doing things I had never done before but only imagined

Sounds great, get off the internet and go talk to your girl and friend about it some more!

 

[RatskyWatsky]

I don't think I can get pretty graphic on NeoGAF.

You can try at least. There are some pretty explicit things in this thread, for instance.

 

[Ashodin]

You can try at least. There are some pretty explicit things in this thread, for instance.

Hmmmm.... well, I know what certain things "taste" like now, and what certain things "feel" like now.

Sounds great, get off the internet and go talk to your girl and friend about it some more!

He lives about 9 hours away. We're thinking about abducting him once we have our own place together. Scandalous...

 

[RatskyWatsky]

Hmmmm.... well, I know what certain things "taste" like now, and what certain things "feel" like now.

Wow. Were you apprehensive at all? Bottoming on your first time and all?

He lives about 9 hours away. We're thinking about abducting him once we have our own place together. Scandalous...

Permanently? Like in Vicki Christina Barcelona? :O Hott...

 

[MidnightScott]

Has fernoca introduced you to bara yet?

Oh I've been looking at bara for a long time already. It turns me on...

 

[Ashodin]

Wow. Were you apprehensive at all? Bottoming on your first time and all?



Permanently? Like in Vicki Christina Barcelona? :O Hott...

Well, like I said, I had never done any of this before - though it was encouraging when he remarked often "are you sure you've never done this before". Guess I'm a natural.

Also, I've always enjoyed things there. But the first time was a surprise from him - I didn't expect it while also entangled with the GF.

edit: what is Vicki Christina Barcelona? A movie? TV Show?

And yes, permanently. She cannot live without him, and I can see why. Luckily he also is enamored with me and her. A real thing going on I suppose.

 

[RatskyWatsky]

Well, like I said, I had never done any of this before - though it was encouraging when he remarked often "are you sure you've never done this before". Guess I'm a natural.

Also, I've always enjoyed things there. But the first time was a surprise from him - I didn't expect it while also entangled with the GF.

I'm am now officially living vicariously through you. Is he Bi too?

edit: what is Vicki Christina Barcelona? A movie? TV Show?

And yes, permanently. She cannot live without him, and I can see why. Luckily he also is enamored with me and her. A real thing going on I suppose.

A movie directed by Woody Allen. It has Javier Bardem, Penelope Cruz, and Scarlett Johansson living together.

She can't live without him? Are you afraid of being replaced?

 

[Ashodin]

I'm am now officially living vicariously through you. Is he Bi too?

Yes.

Living vicariously through me? Are you not in a relationship of your own?

She can't live without him? Are you afraid of being replaced?

She used to date him, but stopped a long time ago. They just pretty much fuck instead of really do anything relationship wise.

I am not replaceable to her, she has told me so before. But my fears have been just that (if only because of being burned by women before her).

It is something I have to slowly understand is true and destroy fears in my mind once I realize they are irrational.

She has told me before if she could marry both of us, she would. I told her I'd marry both her and him too, haha.

 

[RatskyWatsky]

Yes.

Living vicariously through me? Are you not in a relationship of your own?

Nah. Even if I was, yours sounds hotter than mine would probably be!

I am not replaceable to her, she has told me so before. But my fears have been just that (if only because of being burned by women before her).

It is something I have to slowly understand is true and destroy fears in my mind once I realize they are irrational.

She has told me before if she could marry both of us, she would. I told her I'd marry both her and him too, haha.

I know if I were in your position, that's what I would be afraid of.

I hope your polyamorous situation works out though. Sounds fun.

 

[Ashodin]

Nah. Even if I was, yours sounds hotter than mine would probably be!

Mine is pretty hot from an outside standpoint, I suppose.

Inside, it's weird. Going from one day being all monogamous to straight up threesomeing' it is pretty scary though.

I didn't not enjoy it though, which I think is the satisfying thing. He was very kind and affectionate, I got lots of slow caresses and such that I had not imagine could come from a guy... It was all very new and scary and exciting.

Oh, and I'm incredibly flirtatious though. It's a terrible habit of mine. So even though you're not in a relationship Ratsky I would most likely have talked to you in PMs by now

 

[Ollie Pooch]

So cool you guys hooked up with someone and you all clicked. Having an open (to a degree) relationship is what works for me and the fella too.

 

[branny]

Mine is pretty hot from an outside standpoint, I suppose.

Inside, it's weird. Going from one day being all monogamous to straight up threesomeing' it is pretty scary though.

I didn't not enjoy it though, which I think is the satisfying thing. He was very kind and affectionate, I got lots of slow caresses and such that I had not imagine could come from a guy... It was all very new and scary and exciting.

Oh, and I'm incredibly flirtatious though. It's a terrible habit of mine. So even though you're not in a relationship Ratsky I would most likely have talked to you in PMs by now

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[Ashodin]

I know if I were in your position, that's what I would be afraid of.

I hope your polyamorous situation works out though. Sounds fun.

It's what I'm MOST afraid of. He excites her more than I could ever do, which is not exactly a favorable thing to me.

However, he excites us both in the same way. I'd say he's the meat in the relationship sandwich. LOL.

julls: She pretty much told me that she knew one of two things would happen: that I would either enjoy it or walk away.

When you look back at that it was pretty selfish of her to do that, but I appreciate it as a way to explore part of me that had lain dormant and imaginary.

Oh, and you're dead sexy. You have a face like Peter on Fringe.

 

[RatskyWatsky]

Mine is pretty hot from an outside standpoint, I suppose.

Inside, it's weird. Going from one day being all monogamous to straight up threesomeing' it is pretty scary though.

I didn't not enjoy it though, which I think is the satisfying thing. He was very kind and affectionate, I got lots of slow caresses and such that I had not imagine could come from a guy... It was all very new and scary and exciting.

Oh, and I'm incredibly flirtatious though. It's a terrible habit of mine. So even though you're not in a relationship Ratsky I would most likely have talked to you in PMs by now

How often do you guys hook up? Was it only that one time?

You lookin to add a fourth party to your group? ;}

 

[Mystic Theurge]

Wow, Maxrpg, your situation is like a fairy tale. I wish I had that.

 

[Ollie Pooch]

julls: She pretty much told me that she knew one of two things would happen: that I would either enjoy it or walk away.

When you look back at that it was pretty selfish of her to do that, but I appreciate it as a way to explore part of me that had lain dormant and imaginary.

Oh, and you're dead sexy. You have a face like Peter on Fringe.

Aww, thanks!

....

I assume you were still talking to me. Haha.

 

[Ashodin]

How often do you guys hook up? Was it only that one time?

You lookin to add a fourth party to your group? ;}

Just that first time (a couple of days ago).

No but the woman wouldn't mind me getting a little side action, LOL.

Wow, Maxrpg, your situation is like a fairy tale. I wish I had that.

Seeing quotes like these make me cherish what I have, really. It helps to allay the fears in my mind.

Aww, thanks!

....

I assume you were still talking to me. Haha.

Of course, hot stuff.

 

[Mystic Theurge]

I first realized I liked dudes in the 8th Grade. There was a little resistance (I rationalized that love woman but lust after guys) but in short time I accepted it and dove into gay porn.

 

[Ollie Pooch]

Of course, hot stuff.

So where's your face pic?

 

[RatskyWatsky]

Just that first time (a couple of days ago).

No but the woman wouldn't mind me getting a little side action, LOL.

Ah, I see.

And since you asked everyone else, have you always liked guys?

:} BRB coming right over.

 

[Ashodin]

Ah, I see.

And since you asked everyone else, have you always liked guys?

:}

Hmmm.... I started to like them when I was around 13. I had experimented younger than that though.

I've always grown up with an open mind though, which helps out a lot.

I'm glad I'm making you squiggly smile. LOL. (I assume you're trembling.... yeah)

julls: you mean Real Pic January or just a generic picture of what I look like?

 

[Ollie Pooch]

julls: you mean Real Pic January or just a generic picture of what I look like?

Yeah Real Pic January!

 

[Ashodin]

Yeah Real Pic January!

I was going to go all artsy with it and merge my current avatar with a similar picture of mine.

But I can take a quick snapshot for this thread just to satisfy curiosities...

 

[The Abominable Snowman]

why won't you show your face? ;x

I KNOW people off of GAF. I went through 3 name changes to dodge those people in the hopes of them not knowing my GAF handle. 2 of them don't even know my sexuality :x

 

[Dead Man]

I KNOW people off of GAF. I went through 3 name changes to dodge those people in the hopes of them not knowing my GAF handle. 2 of them don't even know my sexuality :x

Fair enough. I am not out to everyone I know, but I don't hide it either. If someone reads gaf, I figure they are probably gonna be okay with it anyway.

 

[Ollie Pooch]

I was going to go all artsy with it and merge my current avatar with a similar picture of mine.

But I can take a quick snapshot for this thread just to satisfy curiosities...

Yes plz. I like a face to go with the name

 

[RatskyWatsky]

Hmmm.... I started to like them when I was around 13. I had experimented younger than that though.

I've always grown up with an open mind though, which helps out a lot.

I'm glad I'm making you squiggly smile. LOL. (I assume you're trembling.... yeah)

Experimented? I don't mean to ask too many questions, but I'm just always curious about other people's experiences.

I'm not trembling at the moment, but I'm sure that would change if you were where I was. >:}

 

[Ashodin]

Experimented? I don't mean to ask too many questions, but I'm just always curious about other people's experiences.

I'm not trembling at the moment, but I'm sure that would change if you were where I was. >:}

Oh you're dirty. I like that...

Experimented as you would imagine. Touching, kissing, rubbing... the works.

Pic time!

Excuse the face. It is 2 AM after all...

 

[Ollie Pooch]

Cute man.

Wheres ya gf?

Actually i'm sure she wouldn't like you posting her pic

 

[RatskyWatsky]

Pic time!

My my...what do we have here?

Spoiler

Hotness, that's what!

 

[Ashodin]

She's sleeping.

And you both jest. I am nothing but a young man. Apparently a natural too according to the guy that I did things with...

Here's a generic pic of her though:

 

[Ollie Pooch]

LOL, love that he said you were a natural. Gives ya a confidence boost

I hooked up with some dude who was previously girls-only and he took to it like a dog starved of food for a week.