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Laffer said:
I was obsessed with it as a child. Then my parents started giving me books and... it went growing from there. Also, when I was about 6 or 7 years old a world fair was held in my city. It had a huge Japanese exhibition with a lot of origami. I think that's was when I learnt I could do more complex and beautiful figures.
Lately I have it abandoned, as I don't have much time for origami with the work and the university and stuff...



Thanks! I'm glad you like them :)
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Origami fan! thats awesome!

I also started as a kid, did basic stuff, then I got really obsessed, I basically do origami everyday, in some way or another, have you ever made your own models? I've made very simple stuff like birds or dinosaurs. My favorite are insects though, I just love them, I'm a frustrated entomologist, but coming up with your own models for that is left for geniuses, for those I can only follow books.
 
Marius_ said:
9 months and he has cheated on you 6 times, let him go gurl

and get tested
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This a million times.

And you know, you shouldn't feel bad about yourself in all this. You didn't do anything wrong, you opened yourself up to someone, showed forgiveness, and a willingness to work through things with someone else. Your boyfriend though is the failure here and should feel ashamed that he didn't reciprocate your love and trust. Some people are just so immature and self centered they can't even tell when someone genuine and special is right in their face. Don't let this relationship sour your future ones. It hurts now but you'll eventually pick up the pieces.

In the meantime, yes go get tested
 
Cosmic Bus said:
Oh, lordy, this this this. I almost want to laugh when they're clearly bored senseless and yet still moanin' away like it's just the best thing.

I let a friend peer pressure me into something earlier, so maybe this can be part of real pic January. ;)
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This should be on our GAF Hot Men tumblr page!

red_13th said:
FTFY. Never say anywhere like that, with no restrictions, because that could include here! Fuck this place.
I'm bitter because our holiday recess is over, I hate my job and I hate my boss and it's hot! And it's gonna rain. I hate summer. Grrrrr.
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Where are you from if you don't mind me asking?
Katana_Strikes said:
Get your coat, you've pulled ;)
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:)
 
Bark252 said:
We played last week. You pretty much kicked my ass but I got a few wins in. GT same as SN.
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Well now that I got a face to the gamertag *Sets up kinect*

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lol :P
 
mantidor said:
Origami fan! thats awesome!

I also started as a kid, did basic stuff, then I got really obsessed, I basically do origami everyday, in some way or another, have you ever made your own models? I've made very simple stuff like birds or dinosaurs. My favorite are insects though, I just love them, I'm a frustrated entomologist, but coming up with your own models for that is left for geniuses, for those I can only follow books.
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I haven't made my own models, that's honestly too much for me. I sometimes make slight modifications to some figures to make them look like a different thing. For example, I took a frog model I use to make and noticed that it could easily be turned into an X-Wing ship from Starwars.

Frog: http://i.imgur.com/wxNhH.jpg
X-Wing: http://i.imgur.com/NZBWy.jpg

I just made those for you :P

Insects are really difficult. I have a book with insects and it's a nightmare!

P.S.: Sorry for the offtopic!!
 
Tritroid said:
Hi gay-gaf, new poster here! :) (Be gentle!)

I've recently been in my first (actual) gay relationship over the past 9 months. *Snip*
:(
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I know this sounds cold, but it gets better. Everyone's first relationship is usually a shitty learning experience. There's practically noone that grows old and marries their first love. Thank him for the experience and move on.
 
Koomaster said:
This a million times.

And you know, you shouldn't feel bad about yourself in all this. You didn't do anything wrong, you opened yourself up to someone, showed forgiveness, and a willingness to work through things with someone else. Your boyfriend though is the failure here and should feel ashamed that he didn't reciprocate your love and trust. Some people are just so immature and self centered they can't even tell when someone genuine and special is right in their face. Don't let this relationship sour your future ones. It hurts now but you'll eventually pick up the pieces.

In the meantime, yes go get tested
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+1

Totally agree with this. The sooner you forget about that guy, the better.
Sometimes relationships have this bitter side. I'm really sorry for you :(
 
Cosmic Bus said:
I wanna watch whatever this second gif is from...
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From that same episode of True Blood... ;)
..or just Google Ryan Kwanten. :p

..

And they just keep adding more guys and more nude guys..
This particular episode of Season 4..

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Agree with that (added) comment..earlier that scene, darn..bless Alcide/Joe Manganiello. XD
 
Why arent my posts showing up in here?
(just to be clear I have never been in a relationship)
tritroid - I'm sorry this has happened to you. Get tested and also dump this guy now. It isn't right that he lied to you at all and even worse he cheated on you a bunch. I know it sounds hard but you are gonna just have to forget about that asshole.

I think this is another reason I've been worried about getting in a relationship, but I now know that there is always gonna be some risk involved when you open your heart up to someone.

I wish you the best of luck during this difficult period. :)
 
Tritroid said:
Hi gay-gaf, new poster here! :) (Be gentle!)

I've recently been in my first (actual) gay relationship over the past 9 months. It started out so amazing, with him texting me all the time, and us wanting to spend as much time as possible with each other. I was apprehensive at first about opening up completely to him, as I've kinda always been a reserved person, so I explained to him that it might take me a while to break my walls down and let him in, which he understood.

We grew to love each other and expressed it as often as we could every time we saw each other. We took as many trips as we could, every weekend, had an amazing sex life, talked about one day adopting kids and moving in together...

He cheated on me once, and it broke my heart. He begged me to take him back, we talked through it, and I did. I still had faith in our relationship, and chalked it up to being an accident of lust, nothing more.

Now at 9 months, I've learned a lot more: He's cheated on me with roughly 6 other guys (that I know of), had underlying relationships with some of them and me at the same time, and has apparently lied to me 90% of our time together. Everything I had and believed in is now just a crumbled pile of lies.

I hate to be so dramatic about it, but my heart is broken in a million pieces and I feel like I can't find the foot-hold to repair it. The scary thing? We're officially 'still together', even though right now he's hardly texting or calling me because he's talking to this 40-year-old something guy. We recently took a trip to Tennessee last weekend and he spent all of his time in the bathroom texting or calling this guy.

I feel so ugly and disgusting, and used. I opened up to him and I got betrayed in the end. I want to move on but it's the hardest thing to do because I still love him so much and I just wish he could see that.

:(
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break up with him and move forward. you will meet much better guys. as hard as it seems right now, the day you break up with him is the day you start feeling better as a person.
 
Tritroid said:
Hi gay-gaf, new poster here! :) (Be gentle!)

I've recently been in my first (actual) gay relationship over the past 9 months. It started out so amazing, with him texting me all the time, and us wanting to spend as much time as possible with each other. I was apprehensive at first about opening up completely to him, as I've kinda always been a reserved person, so I explained to him that it might take me a while to break my walls down and let him in, which he understood.

We grew to love each other and expressed it as often as we could every time we saw each other. We took as many trips as we could, every weekend, had an amazing sex life, talked about one day adopting kids and moving in together...

He cheated on me once, and it broke my heart. He begged me to take him back, we talked through it, and I did. I still had faith in our relationship, and chalked it up to being an accident of lust, nothing more.

Now at 9 months, I've learned a lot more: He's cheated on me with roughly 6 other guys (that I know of), had underlying relationships with some of them and me at the same time, and has apparently lied to me 90% of our time together. Everything I had and believed in is now just a crumbled pile of lies.

I hate to be so dramatic about it, but my heart is broken in a million pieces and I feel like I can't find the foot-hold to repair it. The scary thing? We're officially 'still together', even though right now he's hardly texting or calling me because he's talking to this 40-year-old something guy. We recently took a trip to Tennessee last weekend and he spent all of his time in the bathroom texting or calling this guy.

I feel so ugly and disgusting, and used. I opened up to him and I got betrayed in the end. I want to move on but it's the hardest thing to do because I still love him so much and I just wish he could see that.

:(
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You should move on or else he'll keep cheating behind your back. Also, I would get tested ASAP.
 
Tritroid said:
Hi gay-gaf, new poster here! :) (Be gentle!)

I've recently been in my first (actual) gay relationship over the past 9 months. It started out so amazing, with him texting me all the time, and us wanting to spend as much time as possible with each other. I was apprehensive at first about opening up completely to him, as I've kinda always been a reserved person, so I explained to him that it might take me a while to break my walls down and let him in, which he understood.

We grew to love each other and expressed it as often as we could every time we saw each other. We took as many trips as we could, every weekend, had an amazing sex life, talked about one day adopting kids and moving in together...

He cheated on me once, and it broke my heart. He begged me to take him back, we talked through it, and I did. I still had faith in our relationship, and chalked it up to being an accident of lust, nothing more.

Now at 9 months, I've learned a lot more: He's cheated on me with roughly 6 other guys (that I know of), had underlying relationships with some of them and me at the same time, and has apparently lied to me 90% of our time together. Everything I had and believed in is now just a crumbled pile of lies.

I hate to be so dramatic about it, but my heart is broken in a million pieces and I feel like I can't find the foot-hold to repair it. The scary thing? We're officially 'still together', even though right now he's hardly texting or calling me because he's talking to this 40-year-old something guy. We recently took a trip to Tennessee last weekend and he spent all of his time in the bathroom texting or calling this guy.

I feel so ugly and disgusting, and used. I opened up to him and I got betrayed in the end. I want to move on but it's the hardest thing to do because I still love him so much and I just wish he could see that.

:(
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Key line right there.

A part of you still wants to think that if you were just more loving, or better at taking care of him, he'd stop cheating on you. Essentially, a part of you wants to blame yourself.

STOP.

WHAT HE IS DOING IS NOT IN ANY WAY YOUR FAULT.
 
Mystic Theurge said:
So, GayGaf, besides video games, what other "geeky" things are you into?

For me, it's comics, manga, yu-gi-oh (anime), and pen & paper RPGs.
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For me it's mostly gamedev. Coding, 3D modeling, animation, pixel art; I just want to do it all (though mostly coding). And of course Doctor Who.

But I have rather nerdy tendencies overall, as I can engross myself completely in something for weeks and loose focus of pretty much everything else; be it coding, games, tv-shows, books or something else. But maybe that's just obsessive rather than geeky.
 
ugh there is an extremely hot guy in my class this semester. he's completely my type and a LOT hotter than the guy i was eyeballing in december ha. it is now my task to find out if he's gay and continue ogling him. i have a friend in the class so we are both going to team up and SOLVE THIS MYSTERY.
 
We were just chatting and she dropped "I've been seeing women."

I was surprised only in the sense that we don't usually talk about sex or dating.

I had a hunch it was possible, but you never know.

But it really did make me feel good that she trusts me like that. I think I'm the first dude she told. Got kinda mushy.




Then I asked a bunch of inappropriate questions and we had a laugh.
 
Tritroid said:
Hi gay-gaf, new poster here! :) (Be gentle!)

I've recently been in my first (actual) gay relationship over the past 9 months. It started out so amazing, with him texting me all the time, and us wanting to spend as much time as possible with each other. I was apprehensive at first about opening up completely to him, as I've kinda always been a reserved person, so I explained to him that it might take me a while to break my walls down and let him in, which he understood.

We grew to love each other and expressed it as often as we could every time we saw each other. We took as many trips as we could, every weekend, had an amazing sex life, talked about one day adopting kids and moving in together...

He cheated on me once, and it broke my heart. He begged me to take him back, we talked through it, and I did. I still had faith in our relationship, and chalked it up to being an accident of lust, nothing more.

Now at 9 months, I've learned a lot more: He's cheated on me with roughly 6 other guys (that I know of), had underlying relationships with some of them and me at the same time, and has apparently lied to me 90% of our time together. Everything I had and believed in is now just a crumbled pile of lies.

I hate to be so dramatic about it, but my heart is broken in a million pieces and I feel like I can't find the foot-hold to repair it. The scary thing? We're officially 'still together', even though right now he's hardly texting or calling me because he's talking to this 40-year-old something guy. We recently took a trip to Tennessee last weekend and he spent all of his time in the bathroom texting or calling this guy.

I feel so ugly and disgusting, and used. I opened up to him and I got betrayed in the end. I want to move on but it's the hardest thing to do because I still love him so much and I just wish he could see that.

:(
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Bail out as fast as you can, that's 6 too many times. After some time you'll remember it and you won't have the littlest regret
 
Tritroid said:
Hi gay-gaf, new poster here! :) (Be gentle!)

I've recently been in my first (actual) gay relationship over the past 9 months. It started out so amazing, with him texting me all the time, and us wanting to spend as much time as possible with each other. I was apprehensive at first about opening up completely to him, as I've kinda always been a reserved person, so I explained to him that it might take me a while to break my walls down and let him in, which he understood.

We grew to love each other and expressed it as often as we could every time we saw each other. We took as many trips as we could, every weekend, had an amazing sex life, talked about one day adopting kids and moving in together...

He cheated on me once, and it broke my heart. He begged me to take him back, we talked through it, and I did. I still had faith in our relationship, and chalked it up to being an accident of lust, nothing more.

Now at 9 months, I've learned a lot more: He's cheated on me with roughly 6 other guys (that I know of), had underlying relationships with some of them and me at the same time, and has apparently lied to me 90% of our time together. Everything I had and believed in is now just a crumbled pile of lies.

I hate to be so dramatic about it, but my heart is broken in a million pieces and I feel like I can't find the foot-hold to repair it. The scary thing? We're officially 'still together', even though right now he's hardly texting or calling me because he's talking to this 40-year-old something guy. We recently took a trip to Tennessee last weekend and he spent all of his time in the bathroom texting or calling this guy.

I feel so ugly and disgusting, and used. I opened up to him and I got betrayed in the end. I want to move on but it's the hardest thing to do because I still love him so much and I just wish he could see that.

:(
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Sorry, but you have to ditch this guy and move on. He'll never stop cheating and you'll just be the one suffering here. Clearly he doesn't respect the relationship the same way you do. It'll be hard but you can do it. You'll be happier in the long run.
 
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