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That sounds really super cute. If i could do that, then i would... the problem is we wouldn't have a place to do that... I would want to spend Valentine's romantically alone with him, but where he lives he has 2 roommates with boyfriends, and where i live, i have 2 brothers with girlfriends. We won't have a place to bake it
That's why i would just rather make it the night before and surprise him with it the following day. I love seeing his surprised face; it makes me really happy.When it comes to giving gifts and it becoming some kind of pattern- i think that really depends on the two involved. If you feel obligated to give something in return, then that's on you. I've told him that he should never feel obligated to give me anything. I haven't counted, but i'm sure i've given more than he's given to me and i'm a happy camper and he's a happy camper.
Stabbie, that lamp is really awesome!! It's pretty thoughtful and unique, i love it.
That sounds really super cute. If i could do that, then i would... the problem is we wouldn't have a place to do that... I would want to spend Valentine's romantically alone with him, but where he lives he has 2 roommates with boyfriends, and where i live, i have 2 brothers with girlfriends. We won't have a place to bake it
Ugh, I forgot that V-Day is coming soon. /wrist
The Broken Ska Record
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Yup. Not looking forward to it. Then again, I don't really do anything for Valentine's anyway.
MidnightScott
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Well you guys I made up my mind for now and decided that I'm not going to hookup with the guy. I'm meeting the guy I like on Thursday already and would rather pursue him for a relationship then just casual sex with a random guy.
I even told the guy I liked about it and he was like "I thought you said he was flamboyant and that you didn't like that." sounds like he is jealous kinda...which is cute xD
But yeah I'm looking forward to hanging out with the guy I met on New Year's Day, we have a lot in common and even planning to go to the Japan festival with him in April.
I even told the guy I liked about it and he was like "I thought you said he was flamboyant and that you didn't like that." sounds like he is jealous kinda...which is cute xD
But yeah I'm looking forward to hanging out with the guy I met on New Year's Day, we have a lot in common and even planning to go to the Japan festival with him in April.
Cool! A Japan festival?
Hey, wait a second, that's my wr--x_x
I've never spent Valentine's Day with anyone special before so i'm really looking forward to it...
Remember "please" and "thank you!"
MidnightScott
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Yeah the Houston Japan Festival happens every year in April. I've been twice already, this will be my 3rd time going but first time with a friend/boyfriend.
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The Abominable Snowman
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So I just came back from an awesome outing with a few friends, and the topic of the night was awesome so I thought I'd ask on here (If its been asked): What are some of you guys' ONE NIGHT STAND / meetup experiences??
Does anyone have any funny stories of a one night stand or meetup that you did that you can share, either from the oddness or hilarity of the situation, or because it was so awesome that you fell in love and never saw them again?
Myself being an older guy, 24, I've had my fair share of experiences. My very last one night stand, a few years ago (literally) I had exchanged pics with this guy for WEEKS, not nude mind you, but we conversed and talked for at least a MONTH, if not more. And let me tell you, this guy was so hot. He was mixed Mexican and African American. His body was akin to CJ Wright, and he was tall. 6'1 of not more. I mean physically, you couldnt get any better.
I finally convinced him that we should hang out, through his shyness and unwilling to meet people from online.. and things went downhill. I drove to a nice, BEAUTIFUL house, and i was so excited. he opened a door and let me in, and he looked even better in person than he did in pictures. I was in LOVE. But then I noticed something.
His front door was padded (Which I thought was decoration) and his house was EMPTY. Like literally he had a 2 floor beautiful minimansion and the only thing in there was a bed he had in the living room and a few other things. It was odd because you can tell he was loaded. He drove an awesome hybrid car and had on very nice clothes. so we get to talking while i sit on his bed, and he goes "Hey can you talk a little quieter, my hearing is sensitive"
So turned out, he had a complicated disorder where his hearing is so sensitive, regular talking sounds like shouting and he gets regular migraines. I said "OK, well hes still really hot" and continued to converse with him in a very low church mouse voice for a few hours, then he goes "I really like you, you're so attractive, and ..." you know... that speech. So we kiss a few times, clothes come off, and hands are rubbing over body parts, all very slowly and quietly mind you. Felt wrong but right, so i begin fellating him, and after about a minute he rips me off of him and was like "You was sucking too loud, so just lay back and I'll please you" so he did.
And after I was done, we laid down, cuddled, and it got late, so I said I should leave. we say our quiet little goodbyes and the last words we ever exchanged:
Him: "Hey wait til I go upstairs before getting in/starting your car. The noise cars make when starting makes my head hurt"
me: "OK *proceeds to car, slams door, starts up immediately and drives off*"
That was the last I seen or spoke to him. He's texted or called for months afterwards, and I still get the "Merry Christmas" or other holiday text. He once left me a drunk, semiangry voicemail, during the summer of last year, and I blocked his number for a while, but it was unblocked when i switched carriers :/
Does anyone have any funny stories of a one night stand or meetup that you did that you can share, either from the oddness or hilarity of the situation, or because it was so awesome that you fell in love and never saw them again?
Myself being an older guy, 24, I've had my fair share of experiences. My very last one night stand, a few years ago (literally) I had exchanged pics with this guy for WEEKS, not nude mind you, but we conversed and talked for at least a MONTH, if not more. And let me tell you, this guy was so hot. He was mixed Mexican and African American. His body was akin to CJ Wright, and he was tall. 6'1 of not more. I mean physically, you couldnt get any better.
I finally convinced him that we should hang out, through his shyness and unwilling to meet people from online.. and things went downhill. I drove to a nice, BEAUTIFUL house, and i was so excited. he opened a door and let me in, and he looked even better in person than he did in pictures. I was in LOVE. But then I noticed something.
His front door was padded (Which I thought was decoration) and his house was EMPTY. Like literally he had a 2 floor beautiful minimansion and the only thing in there was a bed he had in the living room and a few other things. It was odd because you can tell he was loaded. He drove an awesome hybrid car and had on very nice clothes. so we get to talking while i sit on his bed, and he goes "Hey can you talk a little quieter, my hearing is sensitive"
So turned out, he had a complicated disorder where his hearing is so sensitive, regular talking sounds like shouting and he gets regular migraines. I said "OK, well hes still really hot" and continued to converse with him in a very low church mouse voice for a few hours, then he goes "I really like you, you're so attractive, and ..." you know... that speech. So we kiss a few times, clothes come off, and hands are rubbing over body parts, all very slowly and quietly mind you. Felt wrong but right, so i begin fellating him, and after about a minute he rips me off of him and was like "You was sucking too loud, so just lay back and I'll please you" so he did.
And after I was done, we laid down, cuddled, and it got late, so I said I should leave. we say our quiet little goodbyes and the last words we ever exchanged:
Him: "Hey wait til I go upstairs before getting in/starting your car. The noise cars make when starting makes my head hurt"
me: "OK *proceeds to car, slams door, starts up immediately and drives off*"
That was the last I seen or spoke to him. He's texted or called for months afterwards, and I still get the "Merry Christmas" or other holiday text. He once left me a drunk, semiangry voicemail, during the summer of last year, and I blocked his number for a while, but it was unblocked when i switched carriers :/
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The Broken Ska Record
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Yay! Happy Chocolate Day!
*eats chocolate*
Ha ha. I'd probably gorge myself on those Sweethearts candies, and go get dinner by myself or something.
It's obvious that you've never been with someone who does care about V-day.
dragonlife
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Lucky him.
GPS. ASAP!
That story was definitely interesting:
- 24 isn't old.
- Why did you end the "friendship"?
Yes, I've been and convinced him about it. Luckily people over Europe are not as brainwashed with this kind of shit. Oh well, it's obvious that if someone would make a scene for something like this, wouldn't most likely be with me to begin with.
Eh, for me V-day is another excuse to be silly and cherish my love for my boyfriend. This year I'm a bit broke so I don't think we'll be exchanging any presents, but we'll likely watch a silly romance movie together
:3
But really, any day is V-day for me, and I'm glad I'm short on money, because I'd likely be spending it on him! (just like he would, if I'd let him... We're that terrible!)
or maybe get to be a bit naughty!
But really, any day is V-day for me, and I'm glad I'm short on money, because I'd likely be spending it on him! (just like he would, if I'd let him... We're that terrible!)
Mystic Theurge
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Forgive me, but that doesn't sound very nice. He might have been a little insensitive with his comment, but I don't think he deserved that.
3 things:
1. You're not an "older" guy and far from experienced.
2. His condition is called hyperacusis and there is nothing complicated about it.
3. You're an idiot.
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Me and my Bf are the same, never really cared for the V-day thing, it actually makes a lot of single people feel worse.
Indeed.
Orioto the slut! (kidding).
Being a senior citizen (I'm 26), I've had a lot of experience (I've had 2).
When I think one night stands I'm thinking meet the guy on the same day you're getting naughty with him and never see him again.
- First was from Grindr. I wanted to do the whole "hi, wanna fuck?" get the deed done and go home. Well it was horrible. The guy was def not as cute as his pic, he was high/drunk/smelled like cigarette and the fact that "hi" and "thanks" is the only thing we said in person did bother me. Needless to say I got tested afterwards even though we didnt do anal.
- The other one is pretty typical and much less seedy. I was at a house party and started talking to that guy because his friend was hot. However turns out he was the coolest one and not too bad to look upon. We talked the whole night, everyone ended up going to a bar downtown and then went to his apt and did the nasty. It was pretty fun and in the morning we went and got a bagel before parting ways. Then I went to meet this guy I had a date with.
I know, whore.
Being a senior citizen (I'm 26), I've had a lot of experience (I've had 2).
When I think one night stands I'm thinking meet the guy on the same day you're getting naughty with him and never see him again.
- First was from Grindr. I wanted to do the whole "hi, wanna fuck?" get the deed done and go home. Well it was horrible. The guy was def not as cute as his pic, he was high/drunk/smelled like cigarette and the fact that "hi" and "thanks" is the only thing we said in person did bother me. Needless to say I got tested afterwards even though we didnt do anal.
- The other one is pretty typical and much less seedy. I was at a house party and started talking to that guy because his friend was hot. However turns out he was the coolest one and not too bad to look upon. We talked the whole night, everyone ended up going to a bar downtown and then went to his apt and did the nasty. It was pretty fun and in the morning we went and got a bagel before parting ways. Then I went to meet this guy I had a date with.
I know, whore.
freenudemacusers
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24 is old in gay years eh? no midlife crisis team switching for me then lol
You old slut
I can't really talk about one night stand actually, cause in general i don't stay to sleep! I sleep badly when not in my own bed
Me, neither. I think I have to know a person for longer than an hour before I literally sleep with them, and that doesn't happen all to often.
Really? When I was single (and I've been single for a lot of time), I never really cared for it. I guess it's something more prominent in the states. Here in the EU it's just an excuse to treat your partner. Not so much in the "buy him 30 PS3 games" but more like prepare him his favorite lunch or surprise him with something. I don't know, at least that's our idea. o_o
I've had only 1 one night stand about two years ago, haven't felt the need to do have another since.
You never had a one night stand in your own bed?
I can't really talk about one night stand actually, cause in general i don't stay to sleep! I sleep badly when not in my own bed
You never had a one night stand in your own bed?
I'll be 30 in a few months, so guess I'm geriatric.
In my case, I've had 2 one night stands, both were disappointing because I talked to them online and turned out they lied about everything (age, pictures, location, etc.). They even seemed "shocked" when it turned out that unlike them, I didn't lied to them (real age, real pics, etc.).
In my case, I've had 2 one night stands, both were disappointing because I talked to them online and turned out they lied about everything (age, pictures, location, etc.). They even seemed "shocked" when it turned out that unlike them, I didn't lied to them (real age, real pics, etc.
).My own bed is only for guys that deserve better than one night stand
This.
I've been tempted to host but just can't do it. As for one night stands, I've only had a couple but it didn't do much for me. Think I prefer being intimate with someone I actually know. A FB would be nice in that case.
Tritroid
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I meant to thank everybody here for the advice and/or comments over my situation I posted about a week ago (with the guy that lied and cheated with like 4 guys)..
I'm in the process of breaking up with him now...but god this is hard. I keep thinking back to how things used to be and how HE used to be, and wanting to think eventually he'll become that person again.
I just have to keep reminding myself that person never existed, it was just all a lie..
I'm in the process of breaking up with him now...but god this is hard. I keep thinking back to how things used to be and how HE used to be, and wanting to think eventually he'll become that person again.
I just have to keep reminding myself that person never existed, it was just all a lie..
Ha - Oh, one night stands. I tried to shorten this, but it's still pretty long. Read if you want.
I think the most remarkable one I ever had was back when I was healthily middle-aged (22). I started talking to this guy on manhunt (I know) and we really hit it off. Gorgeous Puerto Rican attorney, not at all creepy, lived in DC but he visited friends in Philly often (which is where I live).
We talked for weeks on manhunt before we exchanged numbers and texted for a few more weeks before we actually met. One night I got a text from him while I was at work. A friend of his had gone out of town and left him the keys to his Center City condo for the weekend, and he wanted to take the opportunity to finally meet up with me, have drinks, chat in person, etc. I told him I was working at a restaurant nearby, and would probably smell like french fries and sweat by the time I got done. He told me that I could shower at the condo and he'd have something for me to change into.
So at that point I knew where the night would end. But I was excited. We'd been talking for a while, and he was hot.
So I finished my shift that evening, and texted him that I was walking over. He told me that he'd be in front of the building waiting for me. I was about 3 blocks away from the building when I spotted a figure standing at the entrance that I assumed to be him.
And, well, you know how far-away objects get larger as you get closer to them? he wasn't getting any larger.
I was a little over a block away when I realized that he was a little person.
Granted, he was about as tall as you could be and still be considered a "little person," but still a little person. To put this in better perspective: I'm 6'3
. Not once - once - in the month we'd been talking had he mentioned he was a little person. And it was only then that I realized that all of his photos were close-ups and his height on manhunt hadn't been specified.
I'm still walking toward him with a pleasant expression on my face, but I was absolutely freaking out in my mind. I contemplated turning down the block and running away, but at that point he'd seen me and after all of our chatting I didn't want to be rude to him. I figured that I'd still have a drink with him, and that the night didn't have to end in a hook-up.
I finally reach him, and he looks up - way up - at me, and just says "hello" and shakes my hand. Makes no mention of our height difference...so neither do I, but I'm still freaking out. We go up to his condo, which was on one of the upper floors of a sky-rise, and I'm absolutely floored when we get to it. Stone floors, a bear skin rug, wall-to-wall windows overlooking all of Philly south of city hall. He had music playing, there's a fire going in the fireplace, he has two wine glasses out. And I wasn't planning on taking a shower at that point, but he had already set it up for me...and it was one of those fancy bathrooms where all of the walls are cobblestone and the entire room is the shower.
I was so stunned by DAT SWAG that I couldn't refuse.
So I shower, and the entire time I'm thinking Brandon, you don't have to be rude and you're not obligated to sleep with him. He's still the same nice guy you've been talking to all this time, so just go with the flow and make up an excuse to leave in an hour. You don't have to sleep with him.
I get out of the shower and, that thing he said he'd have for me to change into? A golden sarong, waiting for me outside of the bathroom. I wrap it around me and walk out into the living room where he's waiting for me with a glass of wine and already wearing a sarong of his own.
And, let me just say, for a little person his body was banging.
He hands me the wine, and we sit down on the rug, our backs to the fire and looking out the windows in silence for a few moments before he turns and says to me, "So, you've probably realized that I'm a little short."
And before I know it I'm doubled over laughing my ass off. Completely disarmed.
What followed was easily the most surreal, romantic night of my life. We're sitting there, in sarongs, overlooking a lit-up city, drinking expensive wine
and he's telling me stories about growing up poor in Puerto Rico and becoming a lawyer. I'm telling him about my life and he's giving me career advice. We're talking about places we've traveled to, all the while he's stroking my thigh. Before I know it, hours have gone by, and at some point in the conversation he had me lay flat on my stomach and started giving me a back massage. At some point after that, and still deep in conversation, he peels off our sarongs and I hear the sound of an opening condom wrapper behind me.
Not going into gory details. I don't know if it was the wine,
, the condo, the moment, or the fact that I was just so impressed by him at that point, but any reservations I had were gone. And we did it.
And it was awesome. To this day (I'm now 25) that man's sex is still in the top 3 of the best sexual experiences I've ever had.
We did it again in the morning, and showered. Then I left. That was the last time I saw him. We still talk (and he still gives me valuable career advice), but we're never in the same city at the same time these days.
God, that man had A+ game...
I think the most remarkable one I ever had was back when I was healthily middle-aged (22). I started talking to this guy on manhunt (I know) and we really hit it off. Gorgeous Puerto Rican attorney, not at all creepy, lived in DC but he visited friends in Philly often (which is where I live).
We talked for weeks on manhunt before we exchanged numbers and texted for a few more weeks before we actually met. One night I got a text from him while I was at work. A friend of his had gone out of town and left him the keys to his Center City condo for the weekend, and he wanted to take the opportunity to finally meet up with me, have drinks, chat in person, etc. I told him I was working at a restaurant nearby, and would probably smell like french fries and sweat by the time I got done. He told me that I could shower at the condo and he'd have something for me to change into.
So at that point I knew where the night would end. But I was excited. We'd been talking for a while, and he was hot.
So I finished my shift that evening, and texted him that I was walking over. He told me that he'd be in front of the building waiting for me. I was about 3 blocks away from the building when I spotted a figure standing at the entrance that I assumed to be him.
And, well, you know how far-away objects get larger as you get closer to them? he wasn't getting any larger.
I was a little over a block away when I realized that he was a little person.
Granted, he was about as tall as you could be and still be considered a "little person," but still a little person. To put this in better perspective: I'm 6'3
and a bottom...for the most part
I'm still walking toward him with a pleasant expression on my face, but I was absolutely freaking out in my mind. I contemplated turning down the block and running away, but at that point he'd seen me and after all of our chatting I didn't want to be rude to him. I figured that I'd still have a drink with him, and that the night didn't have to end in a hook-up.
I finally reach him, and he looks up - way up - at me, and just says "hello" and shakes my hand. Makes no mention of our height difference...so neither do I, but I'm still freaking out. We go up to his condo, which was on one of the upper floors of a sky-rise, and I'm absolutely floored when we get to it. Stone floors, a bear skin rug, wall-to-wall windows overlooking all of Philly south of city hall. He had music playing, there's a fire going in the fireplace, he has two wine glasses out. And I wasn't planning on taking a shower at that point, but he had already set it up for me...and it was one of those fancy bathrooms where all of the walls are cobblestone and the entire room is the shower.
I was so stunned by DAT SWAG that I couldn't refuse.
So I shower, and the entire time I'm thinking Brandon, you don't have to be rude and you're not obligated to sleep with him. He's still the same nice guy you've been talking to all this time, so just go with the flow and make up an excuse to leave in an hour. You don't have to sleep with him.
I get out of the shower and, that thing he said he'd have for me to change into? A golden sarong, waiting for me outside of the bathroom. I wrap it around me and walk out into the living room where he's waiting for me with a glass of wine and already wearing a sarong of his own.
And, let me just say, for a little person his body was banging.
He hands me the wine, and we sit down on the rug, our backs to the fire and looking out the windows in silence for a few moments before he turns and says to me, "So, you've probably realized that I'm a little short."
And before I know it I'm doubled over laughing my ass off. Completely disarmed.
What followed was easily the most surreal, romantic night of my life. We're sitting there, in sarongs, overlooking a lit-up city, drinking expensive wine
and at some point smoking really good weed
Not going into gory details. I don't know if it was the wine,
the weed
And it was awesome. To this day (I'm now 25) that man's sex is still in the top 3 of the best sexual experiences I've ever had.
And if you're curious, he was huge. At least 8 inches.
We did it again in the morning, and showered. Then I left. That was the last time I saw him. We still talk (and he still gives me valuable career advice), but we're never in the same city at the same time these days.
God, that man had A+ game...
courage201
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To be considered a "little person" you'd have to be 4'10 or under...
If thats the case-- good for you for looking beyond that.
If thats the case-- good for you for looking beyond that.
The Abominable Snowman
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OK, i might have left out a couple important details. He was actually cool over the phone, but perhaps a bit condescending. However in person he was actually too condescending and picky to the point that I couldnt bear it. I have a feeling people would let him say anything he wanted and give him a pass because he was cute and he had a disability. For example I got a new phone (Touch Pro 2 at the time) and he called my phone cheap because it had a scratch on the back. And even worse after we did the deed... he said I should start lifting weights because i have a "horrible tone" to my body -_-
It was little comments like that. I guess I should have included that in the original story, but I felt like it would be more douchey to try to paint him in a bad light. Plus I had to retype the thing about 3 times!
I meant to thank everybody here for the advice and/or comments over my situation I posted about a week ago (with the guy that lied and cheated with like 4 guys)..
I'm in the process of breaking up with him now...but god this is hard. I keep thinking back to how things used to be and how HE used to be, and wanting to think eventually he'll become that person again.
I just have to keep reminding myself that person never existed, it was just all a lie..
Just remember, every time it gets hard just think of all the horrible things he did to you. Then wave your finger and say "uh uh".
I think I've reach my internet quota for the day. Not sure I'll read another story as cool and hilarious as that one today.
runlikehell
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Royalan's story.... hnnnng 
I'm not sure I know what this gif is supposed to indicate. lol
Doesn't matter. It's from Gilmore Girls <3
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