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I am not threatened by my GF's bisexuality and have told her that I wouldn't care if she had sex with a woman but w/a dude would piss me off. Since we started dating she's only had sex with 1 woman (like the first month we started dating) and since then she's only made out with one of our female classmates (I didn't care).

A few months ago we were out intoxicated and she was vaguely hinting at a threesome w/a woman who was down. Her vague hint went a lil over my head but at the same time I thought, if she were actually thinking of a threesome part of me wouldn't want to take the bait. Nothing happens, bout a week later we get back to this topic and she says bluntly that she was down for a threesome that night; of course I mentally kick myself in the head a little about this missed opportunity but then we start talking more about it. The deal is, she'd be down for a 3some... but then she'd have to have sex with a guy later on. Her logic being, her w/a woman doesn't bother me and me having sex with a woman would bother her, and she prefers sex with men so she'd have to get w/a guy afterwards. My logic is, well we are both attracted to a person so we're both getting something out of it and I wouldn't owe her shit if we both agreed to sex the same person.

Then she tried to flip the tables and put me in her position, saying if we had a 3some w/a guy I'd get jealous. I said I wouldn't have a 3some w/a guy unless I was bi and frankly I couldn't care less because I would be enjoying him too if that were the case. I can't wrap my head around her logic. Someone who's intellect I respect is just an overall selfish person when it comes to sex. Only reason why I'm asking is, I wonder if any part of her point is valid b/c it sounds so illogical to me.
 
YoungHav said:
I am not threatened by my GF's bisexuality and have told her that I wouldn't care if she had sex with a woman but w/a dude would piss me off. Since we started dating she's only had sex with 1 woman (like the first month we started dating) and then she has only made out with one of our classmates (I didn't care).

A few months ago we were out intoxicated and she was vaguely hinting at a threesome w/a woman who was down. Her vague hint went a lil over my head but at the same time I thought, if she were actually thinking of a threesome part of me wouldn't want to take the bait. Nothing happens, bout a week later we get back to this topic and she says bluntly that she was down for a threesome that night; of course I mentally kick myself in the head about this missed opportunity but then we start talking more about it. The deal is, she'd be down for a 3some... but then she'd have to have sex with a guy later on. Her logic being, her w/a woman doesn't bother me and me having sex with a woman would bother her, and she prefers sex with men so she'd have to get w/a guy afterwards. My logic is, well we are both attracted to a person so we're both getting something out of it and I wouldn't owe her shit if we both agreed to sex the same person.

Then she tried to flip the tables and put me in her position, saying if we had a 3some w/a guy I'd get jealous. I said I wouldn't have a 3some w/a guy unless I was bi and frankly I couldn't care less because I would be enjoying him too if that were the case. I can't wrap my head around her logic. Someone who's intellect I respect is just an overall selfish person when it comes to sex. Only reason why I'm asking is, I wonder if any part of her point is valid b/c it sounds so illogical to me.
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Yeah, I think it's selfish of her to want a threesome and then wanting to be with another guy. By agreeing to a threesome you pretty much already have to deal with another person coming into what was originally an exclusive relationship. While there's a possibility that you may enjoy said encounter, she'd also enjoy said encounter since she's the one who suggested it in the first place. If she wants to go around and have sexual relationship with another guy then you may want to consider re-defining your relationship from exclusive to open relationship because otherwise it doesn't seem fair to you.
 
YoungHav said:
I am not threatened by my GF's bisexuality and have told her that I wouldn't care if she had sex with a woman but w/a dude would piss me off. Since we started dating she's only had sex with 1 woman (like the first month we started dating) and since then she's only made out with one of our female classmates (I didn't care).

A few months ago we were out intoxicated and she was vaguely hinting at a threesome w/a woman who was down. Her vague hint went a lil over my head but at the same time I thought, if she were actually thinking of a threesome part of me wouldn't want to take the bait. Nothing happens, bout a week later we get back to this topic and she says bluntly that she was down for a threesome that night; of course I mentally kick myself in the head a little about this missed opportunity but then we start talking more about it. The deal is, she'd be down for a 3some... but then she'd have to have sex with a guy later on. Her logic being, her w/a woman doesn't bother me and me having sex with a woman would bother her, and she prefers sex with men so she'd have to get w/a guy afterwards. My logic is, well we are both attracted to a person so we're both getting something out of it and I wouldn't owe her shit if we both agreed to sex the same person.

Then she tried to flip the tables and put me in her position, saying if we had a 3some w/a guy I'd get jealous. I said I wouldn't have a 3some w/a guy unless I was bi and frankly I couldn't care less because I would be enjoying him too if that were the case. I can't wrap my head around her logic. Someone who's intellect I respect is just an overall selfish person when it comes to sex. Only reason why I'm asking is, I wonder if any part of her point is valid b/c it sounds so illogical to me.
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Let me make sure if I get this.... She wants a threesome with another woman and you because she is bi, but at the same time can't stand you with another woman so she should have the right to have sex with another man than you afterwards, to make that wrong thing right?

Totally bizarre and illogical... seems she is the facilitator of her own jealousy and uses a crazy way of rationalization to make you go along with her. And while she is getting double the fun (sex with you, sex with another girl and then sex with another man) and you only have sex with her and another girl (proposed by her no less!) she still gets jealous... makes no sense... if she is bi she should be fine with a threesome...
 
Sounds like she found a twisted way to justify the fact that she wants another dick. Her thinking makes no sense whatsoever.

If you had gone through that threesome that night, would she have gone and fucked a guy without discussing it before?

IMO there's a difference between being bi and having sex left and right in a relationship. One does not imply the other and vice versa. Seems like she wants an open relationship and you should probably discuss that with her. If you don't want one, gtfo of that relationship.
 
Hey guys, I stayed the night as his place...there was no smanging lol.

We watched a movie and then he started kissing me and I started kissing him. Then we stopped and were watching another movie and not even halfway between the movie we started kissing again and he took off his shirt and stuff and was just on top of me.

It ended up being about 2 AM and I didn't feel like I could drive home (wasn't drunk or anything since we didn't drink, but I had a headache) so I stayed there and stripped down to my underwear and got in his bed with him.

He got on top of me and was kissing me all night and feeling me up, I was doing the same and it felt so right. We didn't go all the way yet, maybe when I feel up to it, but god damn that was hot and I told him that I want to be only with him, and he said he only wants to be with me.

td;lr
Stayed at his place all night, kissed all night.

Anyway now I have to get ready for work, I just got back to my house.
 
MidnightScott said:
Hey guys, I stayed the night as his place...there was no smanging lol.

We watched a movie and then he started kissing me and I started kissing him. Then we stopped and were watching another movie and not even halfway between the movie we started kissing again and he took off his shirt and stuff and was just on top of me.

It ended up being about 2 AM and I didn't feel like I could drive home (wasn't drunk or anything since we didn't drink, but I had a headache) so I stayed there and stripped down to my underwear and got in his bed with him.

He got on top of me and was kissing me all night and feeling me up, I was doing the same and it felt so right. We didn't go all the way yet, maybe when I feel up to it, but god damn that was hot and I told him that I want to be only with him, and he said he only wants to be with me.

td;lr
Stayed at his place all night, kissed all night.

Anyway now I have to get ready for work, I just got back to my house.
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Awwww :3
 
Congratulations, MidnightScott :D
I think it's ok if you ended having no sex if you didn't want to do it right then. If you both really like each other (and after reading your story, it's clear it's the case), it will be great when the time comes.

Although I rarely post, I have to admit i'm addicted to your story here. Was F5'ing all day waiting for you to appear lol. Not the thing I wanted to read, but it was really cute. I'm happy for you :)
 
Quadaess Suikun said:
Congratulations, MidnightScott :D
I think it's ok if you ended having no sex if you didn't want to do it right then. If you both really like each other (and after reading your story, it's clear it's the case), it will be great when the time comes.

Although I rarely post, I have to admit i'm addicted to your story here. Was F5'ing all day waiting for you to appear lol. Not the thing I wanted to read, but it was really cute. I'm happy for you :)
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Aww thanks, you're kind. Yeah I might go stay with him this weekend too :)
 
MidnightScott said:
be with me.

td;lr
Stayed at his place all night, kissed all night.

Anyway now I have to get ready for work, I just got back to my house.
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MidnightScott said:
Hey guys, I stayed the night as his place...there was no smanging lol.

We watched a movie and then he started kissing me and I started kissing him. Then we stopped and were watching another movie and not even halfway between the movie we started kissing again and he took off his shirt and stuff and was just on top of me.

It ended up being about 2 AM and I didn't feel like I could drive home (wasn't drunk or anything since we didn't drink, but I had a headache) so I stayed there and stripped down to my underwear and got in his bed with him.

He got on top of me and was kissing me all night and feeling me up, I was doing the same and it felt so right. We didn't go all the way yet, maybe when I feel up to it, but god damn that was hot and I told him that I want to be only with him, and he said he only wants to be with me.

td;lr
Stayed at his place all night, kissed all night.

Anyway now I have to get ready for work, I just got back to my house.
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Congrats on the Se--wait, what!? YOU FAILED! >:|
 
MidnightScott said:
td;lr
Stayed at his place all night, kissed all night.

Anyway now I have to get ready for work, I just got back to my house.
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Congrats ;]
I'm not gonna lie, just like Quadaess Suikun I was kind of anticipating the next chapter of your story :P

SpaceBridge said:
No prob, did you find the site?

heres the link: http://nickieryhmeswithhickie.blogsp...3547626bb72cd3
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The guy have a nice art style, and some fun ideas, but I think he somewhat forces all those schlongs too much. Some of his arts (like the one with dead zombie) would be better without it.

dragonlife said:
PC comes later. Sucks, I know. I already complained about that in the thread.
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I just hope that this time Capcom will release DLC; I'm still bitter about Desperate Escape, Lost In Nightmare and Mercenaries Reunion >:|

Sagitario - thanks for the earlier compliment :3
 
Mr_Zombie said:
The guy have a nice art style, and some fun ideas, but I think he somewhat forces all those schlongs too much. Some of his arts (like the one with dead zombie) would be better without it.
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That's what I told SpaceBridge, but noooo "It's erotica! YOU JUST DON'T 'GET' IT!"
 
i_am_ben said:
in the next episode he has sex with YoungHav.
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LOL. Not me not now.
Alcoori said:
Sounds like she found a twisted way to justify the fact that she wants another dick. Her thinking makes no sense whatsoever.

If you had gone through that threesome that night, would she have gone and fucked a guy without discussing it before?

IMO there's a difference between being bi and having sex left and right in a relationship. One does not imply the other and vice versa. Seems like she wants an open relationship and you should probably discuss that with her. If you don't want one, gtfo of that relationship.
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she said she would have wanted to eff a dude, don't think she'd do it without discussing.

I think this relationship might head down the open path in the future. I would not be ready for that at this point, having been monogamous for so long (would be rusty) and now overweight. Would consider after I finish losing weight, get fit (lost 50lbs the past two yrs), and get some confidence.
 
Mr_Zombie said:
I just hope that this time Capcom will release DLC; I'm still bitter about Desperate Escape, Lost In Nightmare and Mercenaries Reunion >:|
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Agreed. I didn't really mind back then because I had it on 360 first and was without a gaming PC; now I prefer everything to be on PC :( If anything, Capcom will just be late with everything for RE6 PC, probably. We're getting a patch for SSFIV: AE in February that console owners got in December, if that's any indication =/ But who knows.

I got 1400/1400 in RE5 360 <3 Fairytale Sheva is <3<3<3 I'm at 900/1000 on the PC version since I uninstalled it before finishing it. Was playing it with a friend but we kind of just stopped.
 
MidnightScott said:
Hey guys, I stayed the night as his place...there was no smanging lol.

We watched a movie and then he started kissing me and I started kissing him. Then we stopped and were watching another movie and not even halfway between the movie we started kissing again and he took off his shirt and stuff and was just on top of me.

It ended up being about 2 AM and I didn't feel like I could drive home (wasn't drunk or anything since we didn't drink, but I had a headache) so I stayed there and stripped down to my underwear and got in his bed with him.

He got on top of me and was kissing me all night and feeling me up, I was doing the same and it felt so right. We didn't go all the way yet, maybe when I feel up to it, but god damn that was hot and I told him that I want to be only with him, and he said he only wants to be with me.

td;lr
Stayed at his place all night, kissed all night.

Anyway now I have to get ready for work, I just got back to my house.
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Good job Midnight. Do you feel better now that you realize he likes you?

What a great feeling right? See if you guys maybe wanna go out for a date or something. Remember you dont have to do full sex right away, but make out sessions can be just as hot.

Question though: If you were both in your undies, did either one of you climax?

edit: Geez, I need to get out there again and make someone fall in love with me. These are cold nights in Canada.
 
No but I did have precum in my boxers lol. Yeah we are gonna take it slow though, we aren't officially boyfriends yet but I may be going to hi place this weekend :)
 
Now Scott as a friend I'll tell you this. Don't back off again like you did last year. You made it to this stage before (gay gaf forgets) Don't let your nerves kill it.
 
Delio said:
Now Scott as a friend I'll tell you this. Don't back off again like you did last year. You made it to this stage before (gay gaf forgets) Don't let your nerves kill it.
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I backed off before I even met that guy last year or was it 2010? Don't worry this time I am ready, I can feel it in my heart. :) Unless you meant my friend last year?

I felt totally comfortable with my guy last night. :)

Looking forward to this weekend, spending more time with him. :)
 
MidnightScott said:
I backed off before I even met that guy last year or was it 2010? Don't worry this time I am ready, I can feel it in my heart. :) Unless you meant my friend last year?

I felt totally comfortable with my guy last night. :)

Looking forward to this weekend, spending more time with him. :)
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Alright then,good luck Scott.
 
MidnightScott said:
Hey guys, I stayed the night as his place...there was no smanging lol.

We watched a movie and then he started kissing me and I started kissing him. Then we stopped and were watching another movie and not even halfway between the movie we started kissing again and he took off his shirt and stuff and was just on top of me.

It ended up being about 2 AM and I didn't feel like I could drive home (wasn't drunk or anything since we didn't drink, but I had a headache) so I stayed there and stripped down to my underwear and got in his bed with him.

He got on top of me and was kissing me all night and feeling me up, I was doing the same and it felt so right. We didn't go all the way yet, maybe when I feel up to it, but god damn that was hot and I told him that I want to be only with him, and he said he only wants to be with me.

td;lr
Stayed at his place all night, kissed all night.

Anyway now I have to get ready for work, I just got back to my house.
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Finally. Like I said before, don't worry about anal. Many gay guys don't like it and one should not confuse one preference for it with how they feel about someone that they like.
 
Replicant said:
Finally. Like I said before, don't worry about anal. Many gay guys don't like it and one should not confuse one preference for it with how they feel about someone that they like.
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Hey I'm willing to do it with him, I care about him a lot. If next time we go all the way then so be it. I've always fantasized about getting fucked anyway. :)
 
MidnightScott said:
Hey guys, I stayed the night as his place...there was no smanging lol.

We watched a movie and then he started kissing me and I started kissing him. Then we stopped and were watching another movie and not even halfway between the movie we started kissing again and he took off his shirt and stuff and was just on top of me.

It ended up being about 2 AM and I didn't feel like I could drive home (wasn't drunk or anything since we didn't drink, but I had a headache) so I stayed there and stripped down to my underwear and got in his bed with him.

He got on top of me and was kissing me all night and feeling me up, I was doing the same and it felt so right. We didn't go all the way yet, maybe when I feel up to it, but god damn that was hot and I told him that I want to be only with him, and he said he only wants to be with me.

td;lr
Stayed at his place all night, kissed all night.

Anyway now I have to get ready for work, I just got back to my house.
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Congrats man! I'm really happy for you after all these mindfucks you've had about that guy.
 
MidnightScott said:
Hey I'm willing to do it with him, I care about him a lot. If next time we go all the way then so be it. I've always fantasized about getting fucked anyway. :)
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Don't fall too fast with him. Remember that at first he just wanted to be FWB. Also don't pressure him into anything. Just take things leisurely and remember, you want to ensure that whatever happens things don't become awkward for you at the workplace.
 
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