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I am was the fatty one, even my teacher bullied me, her remark "You're really starting to get fat." will probably never leave my memory. She spoke the truth, but it's not fun to hear when you're 11. :)

It's hard to imagine skinny kids being bullied when you're bullied for the exact opposite. t's pretty obvious in the media that that kind of bullying isn't taken seriously, unfortunately. :(

Gimme a list of those bullies, I got some ass to kick!

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Gimme a list of those bullies, I got some ass to kick!
Haha, I usually seek comfort in knowing that a few of them are in jail for drug use. :p
Thankfully, my dad has always taught me to never start a fight, but to never take abuse either, so when the fists kept flying and the kickings started, I always fought back, maybe it doesn't make me a good person, but it probably saved me from serious injuries. :)

edit: Thanks again, guys!
 
Haha, I usually seek comfort in knowing that a few of them are in jail for drug use. :p
Thankfully, my dad has always taught me to never start a fight, but to never take abuse either, so when the fists kept flying and the kickings started, I always fought back, maybe it doesn't make a good person, but it probably saved me from serious injuries. :)

No, that makes you a good person. Don't take shit from anyone. Don't start shit either, but never, ever take shit.
 
Haha, I usually seek comfort in knowing that a few of them are in jail for drug use. :p
Thankfully, my dad has always taught me to never start a fight, but to never take abuse either, so when the fists kept flying and the kickings started, I always fought back, maybe it doesn't make a good person, but it probably saved me from serious injuries. :)

Nothing wrong with defending yourself and standing up for yourself. Never throw the first punch, but always make sure you throw the last.
 
I am was the fatty one, even my teacher bullied me, her remark "You're really starting to get fat." will probably never leave my memory. She spoke the truth, but it's not fun to hear when you're 11. :)

It's hard to imagine skinny kids being bullied when you're bullied for the exact opposite. t's pretty obvious in the media that that kind of bullying isn't taken seriously, unfortunately. :(

edit: Haha, thank you, guys, you've made my night, really. :)

I can relate with the teacher bullying. A teacher once told me when i was in 6th grade that i looked like "an Ethiopian child".

I was bullied for being scrawny and i could do nothing to fight back. I'm still pretty slim and petite, but at least now when someone makes a joke about my build i just laugh it off; it wasn't so easy back then though.
 
I can relate with the teacher bullying. A teacher once told me when i was in 6th grade that i looked like "an Ethiopian child".

I was bullied for being scrawny and i could do nothing to fight back. I'm still pretty slim and petite, but at least now when someone makes a joke about my build i just laugh it off; it wasn't so easy back then though.
Wtf, that's awful. :/ You are really cute now at least. :)
You shouldn't have to laugh it off though. From my experience, it cuts you deeper than you let on, even though you have moved on. It's kind of weird seeing people talk about overweight people behind their backs, but when it's a skinny/scrawny person, they think it's okay to say it to their face.
 
I can relate with the teacher bullying. A teacher once told me when i was in 6th grade that i looked like "an Ethiopian child".

I was bullied for being scrawny and i could do nothing to fight back. I'm still pretty slim and petite, but at least now when someone makes a joke about my build i just laugh it off; it wasn't so easy back then though.
I used to get the same - I was an absolute TWIG. Tiny, and people would comment on it all the time, as if I hadn't noticed. Gives you all sorts of insecurities later on.
 
In my case, no teacher bullying..though some horny teachers if anything, that blatantly admitted that they would frozen themselves, just to be with older versions of some of the other students. XD.
I was bullied (and punched, kicked, etc..) for:
[x] Been Skinny
[x] Wearing braces
[x] Wearing glasses
[x] Acne

On top of some making fun of my voice (too deep..at a young age. Plus, if you add all that, to the fact that I like videogames that also meant I was a big/nerd; so of course I had to be punched and thrown stuff and insulted, since I was asking for it. Ignoring that my grades has always been average, and the actual nerds (A+ students, that even cried when they got a...B) called me a nerd.. XD

In my case, no gym, positivism, etc. helped in that I grew up been a taller version of that "nerd"...but whatever. XD

King Endymion looks quite great, ignored that he was "from here" when I saw his pic at the pics-thread; since I've been toning down the "post moar pleeese" ... for the many good looking and straight guys around here.
 
Wtf, that's awful. :/ You are really cute now at least. :)
You shouldn't have to laugh it off though. From my experience, it cuts you deeper than you let on, even though you have moved on. It's kind of weird seeing people talk about overweight people behind their backs, but when it's a skinny/scrawny person, they think it's okay to say it to their face.

Hey thanks! You're looking beyond fantastic yourself! :)
And I guess you're right that I should probably more often say something. I do sometimes, but usually when i do, the other person gets really upset because i'm pretty blunt haha. People tell me all the time "omg you're so skinny. do you even eat?!" or "why are you so freakin skinny? you should put on some weight." or "you look really unhealthy." >_< Maybe i should stop running and exercising, or i could try to bulk up.

edit: and people go super crazy when they find out what my pants waist size is.
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People tell me all the time "omg you're so skinny. do you even eat?!" or "why are you so freakin skinny? you should put on some weight." or "you look really unhealthy."

This is super rude IMO and I hate it. I used to get this shit all the time in elementary and high school, and even from some family members. It pissed me off a lot.
 
Hehe, thank you. I was bullied for 2 years for just how I looked, so taking in compliments is extremely hard, but it's buildning my confidence a bit getting them. I guess you can't judge a book by its cover and all that. ^^

I'm going through the same thing. Being a big guy I'm just not used to being hit on, and on top of that i've only been in one long term relationship and never was a club going guy. My mind was blown when 2/3 clubs I went to on friday left me with a couple of numbers, a date next weekend and gropes. My god the gropes lol.

I understand the concept of chasers (<3 you guys!) but this is all so new to me.

Sex question!

So I finally met a guy i've been talking to yesterday. He's cute, I find him attractive and he's just as much of a geek as I am. When I rolled up there last night he ended up showing me the first couple of episodes of Archer (omg) and cuddled on the couch. We made out several times and after returning from dinner we eventually slept together
(no anal)
. Today was a cuddle thon while he force fed me my naruto backlog, and towards the afternoon we fooled around a bit again. But here's the problem:

Towards the end of it I just didn't have the urge/fortitude to get off. Part of me wants to say it was because he initially wasn't in the mood so I had a bit of guilt on the mind. Another part was that I had this subconscious vibe that he might've not been as attracted to me as i'd thought. In any case I started this huge inner monologue which more or less killed it for me. I managed to finish him off and it did not even seem like he noticed that I did not come.

After that blunder we showered together and did some more cuddling before I had to beat rush hour. We left on a good note after the fact but overall I feel like it'd be best if I let him instigate the notion of continuing this. Anyways, the question is where should my mind be during the act? When your mind wanders do you try to concentrate on one particular thing about the guy that you find insatiable?

This kinda feels like when you catch yourself manually breathing or something like that.
 
Hey thanks! You're looking beyond fantastic yourself! :)
And I guess you're right that I should probably more often say something. I do sometimes, but usually when i do, the other person gets really upset because i'm pretty blunt haha. People tell me all the time "omg you're so skinny. do you even eat?!" or "why are you so freakin skinny? you should put on some weight." or "you look really unhealthy." >_< Maybe i should stop running and exercising, or i could try to bulk up.

edit: and people go super crazy when they find out what my pants waist size is.
Thank you so much, and thank you fernoca as well. :)
Bleh, people just don't realize that some people are just having a harder time gaining or losing weight, they tell fat people to lay off McDonalds and that skinny people should eat there more often, not thinking about genes and metabolism and other reasons...
Of course you shouldn't stop excercising if that's what you like, or bulk up, just to please other people. Some people are just born insensitive assholes.
 
Where are my Mario-bag pictures ciD_Vain? >:|
Haha shit i totally forgot! I will tomorrow when there's better lighting around :)
This is super rude IMO and I hate it. I used to get this shit all the time in elementary and high school, and even from some family members. It pissed me off a lot.
It's really annoying isn't it?!
Thank you so much, and thank you fernoca as well. :)
Bleh, people just don't realize that some people are just having a harder time gaining or losing weight, they tell fat people to lay off McDonalds and that skinny people should eat there more often, not thinking about genes and metabolism and other reasons...
Of course you shouldn't stop excercising if that's what you like, or bulk up, just to please other people. Some people are just born insensitive assholes.

My metabolism is ridiculous. And you're right, i like the way i look. If anything, i just want to get a little more ripped than i am. Where do you live btw?
 
Anyways, the question is where should my mind be during the act? When your mind wanders do you try to concentrate on one particular thing about the guy that you find insatiable?

This kinda feels like when you catch yourself manually breathing or something like that.

I'm usually drunk so I don't know, LOL.

More seriously, I usually focus on how good the guy looks, on his body, etc. I also focus on how good I look and how my abs pop when I stand like this or that. Thing is, the least you think about it, the better it is.


Oh also, metabolism and genes don't explain the extremes. If you're super fat, that's probably because you eat tons of shitty food. As for making fun of skinny people, lol? I never understood that.
Disclaimer: I used to be fat, and although I gain weight pretty easily, if I was fat it was because I would eat Nutella with a spoon.
 
Haha shit i totally forgot! I will tomorrow when there's better lighting around :)

It's really annoying isn't it?!


My metabolism is ridiculous. And you're right, i like the way i look. If anything, i just want to get a little more ripped than i am. Where do you live btw?
Nothing wrong with wanting to look better, if you do it for yourself. :)
Personally, I'd like to lose 20 pounds, but I haven't got the motivation for it atm. :/
I live in western Sweden. :)

And of course super fat people can't solely blame genes and metabolism, but you should never rule it out either, imo.
When I got fat, my mother owned a candy store, so I can't just blame genes and metabolism either. :p
 
Disclaimer: I used to be fat, and although I gain weight pretty easily, if I was fat it was because I would eat Nutella with a spoon.
Busted!!.. :(

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Only last 2 days (though that's the smaller one :p); and that's forcing myself to not eat it a lot.
Though I've been 130lbs since I was 13 years old...and I'll be 30 soon. :p
 
Nothing wrong with wanting to look better, if you do it for yourself. :)
Personally, I'd like to lose 20 pounds, but I haven't got the motivation for it atm. :/
I live in western Sweden. :)

And of course super fat people can't solely blame genes and metabolism, but you should never rule it out either, imo.
When I got fat, my mother owned a candy store, so I can't just blame genes and metabolism either. :p

Oh nice! I actually have this weird plush doll from Sweden that my friend brought back when she went last year. It's really strange and I have no idea what the hell it's supposed to be LOL.

Going out to WeHo tonight. Who wants to meet me there? :D
 
Maybe try mindfulness? Or not, apparently I have to bring Buddhism into everything. It's effective for at least partially silencing overactive thinking, though.

Sounds like something up my alley. Thank you!


More seriously, I usually focus on how good the guy looks, on his body, etc. I also focus on how good I look and how my abs pop when I stand like this or that. Thing is, the least you think about it, the better it is.

Although my abs won't popping anytime soon I get what you're saying lol
 
Oh nice! I actually have this weird plush doll from Sweden that my friend brought back when she went last year. It's really strange and I have no idea what the hell it's supposed to be LOL.

Going out to WeHo tonight. Who wants to meet me there? :D

I would...but I'm too far away. I'll be there in spirit
 
Have you watched the live action version? I think I like it better than anime.
I haven't watched all of it, pretty much only the first and last 10 episodes, the story is great as usual, but I can't look past the cheesiness sometimes, the fighting looks ridiculous, and some of the acting is meh. I do however love Keiko Kitagawa as Sailor Mars, and act 47 is pure awesomeness.
The anime will always be the best for me though, but only Sailor Moon, R and S though, I don't like the rest of the series.
The manga is awesome too, glad it's finally being released in English again, even with some of the weird translations. :p
 
I prefer Nutella to peanut butter too, but that's probably because I'm a European and thus I didn't really eat peanut butter growing up.

Although Chocolate Peanut Butter cookies are my favorite.
 
For me 2012 is about trying new things, going outside my comfort zone. This week I've decided to make an Online Dating profile.

I was originally going to try Compatible Partners, EHarmony's gay counterpart. But after researching, I leaning towards OKCupid.

I know that that there are a few people in this thread that use OKCupid. How is it? Do you like it? Have you had success meeting anyone? Would you recommend the website?

For those of you that haven't tried OKCupid, would you recommend other dating sites?

No one has any words on online dating?
 
I met my partner on Gaydar. Their interface sucks ass but, worked out in the end :P

It's used by a lot of guys for hookups, but I find it's less seedy/meat market than something like Manhunt or Grindr, generally. Can't speak for OKcupid for gay guys.
 
okCupid doesn't work for me, I get enough visitors but no messages. I'm starting to think I have a shitty/boring personality. But grindr does

Nah, no one but ugly--er--um... yeah, no one uses OKCupid.

I stopped using mine as the local populance just wasn't desirable.
 
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