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Gay and Bisexual relationship thread |OT|
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Coppertracks
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I'd have to agree with this. It all seems a bit intense and rushed. Some people seem to like that but I've rarely seen it work out well and the fall out is always high drama/emotionally devastating. (Not that I'm saying there will be fallout of course!
)MidnightScott
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I just feel disappointed that we didn't get off but that was probably because I had him stop. Now I've been gassy like all day an I think that's why it didnt happen since we didn't continue. I'll give it another try I think but hopefully I won't feel sick. I think the pizza I had last night got to me because I'm burping it up.
But while he is dealing with all of his drama I think it's best that we just wait a while before we do it again.
But while he is dealing with all of his drama I think it's best that we just wait a while before we do it again.
Had a great time on my date last night. We talked at the cafe for two hours then ended up in an empty theatre cracking jokes on Devil Inside. Tried to take it as slow as possible but I still managed to see all of his tats (he has "GLORY HOLE" inked on his ass, it was....interesting). The chemistry seemed to be there and it looks like we'll be going out again Friday.
My ATL guy finally asked me out after a week of us playing dumb. After a few dates with both and being as honest as possible I really hope I can have a friend in one and a relationship with the other. Probably not going to turn out that way :/
My ATL guy finally asked me out after a week of us playing dumb. After a few dates with both and being as honest as possible I really hope I can have a friend in one and a relationship with the other. Probably not going to turn out that way :/
The Abominable Snowman
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So we have one guy being celebrated for sleeping with someone and someone else getting high fives for dating like 3 or so guys? What is going on in here :lol
I would hope there's a difference between a few dates to get to know somebody and full blown relationships. Both guys i'm talking to know the deal, and to be honest i'm pretty lucky they took it so well.
Do you want a relationship with one of them specifically or do you feel like you can work one out with either of them?
What should we do? Boo him for sleeping with someone?
As for you comment about Pupi and us being jerks about it, it's called though love. He doesn't seem to grasp how it could be life threatening and despite the common sense idea that he should go see a doctor he doesn't want to because last time he was misdiagnosed he lost a tooth? It was just a tooth and although that sucks losing your heart is gonna hurt so much more.
I'm sorry but to me it's akin to saying "I refuse treatment because praying is gonna save me from my cancer". It drives me mad.
As it stands it feels like the latter. Now chances are there might be nothing in common between me and ATL guy. But at the same time we met physically and actually have phone conversations compared to just texting. The main thing i've gathered hobby wise from him is that he doesn't like horror movies (buzzkill for me) and he is supposedly a workaholic. But in terms of keeping a conversation together everything flows very well with him.
With C'ton guy we have a lot more in common, but there's some stuff that makes me second guess if i'd want to be in a relationship with him. He had a bad temper growing up, but is in better control of it now. Plus a few other minor things which were a little odd but fine.
Physically it seems the attraction seems mutual with both parties.
I don't know either of them well enough just yet. At the same time I don't want to linger too long and end up leading someone on.
The Abominable Snowman
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Don't use it too often! It's not good for the bowel movements
If you have sex more than once every few days, then yes it will. However, who does that? After about 24 hours of fleeting your litterbox, the state of your bowels will have been reset and you'll be fine.
I agree about Pupi, because there are many doctors. if you have a bad experience with one doctor, dont go to that doctor again. But its kind of important to see them, no matter how bad you think it is. Knowing is important, and if you dont know what it is you don't know what you should do about it or how severe it is.
Now about that sex thing, im still shocked he hasnt answered whether or not he fleeted. The abdominal pain would only be if he had some residue there that was being shifted. thats wrong. Thats all types of wrong i dont even wanna think about.
All I can think about is...
Now are you really getting to know someone by doing that? Seems to me like they'd be more reserved since they know they probably wont win and youre giving the town a taste, and you'd be more reserved because you're not trying to open up too much to one specific person in lieu of another you might have known longer or feel like you are closer with or some other dumb variable. Just seems lose-lose to me.
SpaceBridge
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Okay this is a valid point. I think Ive made my own views on sex (and open relationships) pretty clear before. As one of the older dudes here, Ive also had a some experience in both casual and relationship sex, afterall Ive been in an a 8 year long relationship in the past.
That being said, my coming out process included casual sex, really as a means to discover what I liked and dont like. Also, when your 19 (as I was) the sexual frustration was too much to bear, and really, when the opportunity came I jumped at it. I didnt date the first dudes I messed with, so at least Midnight has one over me. As long as he's being smart about it, and safe, then let him learn what is he needs to.
My issue is when your a 30 year older gay man and still act like your 19.
This...until i noticed:
This.
The person who asked... be patient
lordfroakie
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Thx ^^ You're new avatar is cute as well :3
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The only thing i'm reserved on is not fucking after we just met. Everyone is on even ground and from what i've experienced there has been no reservations so far.
Admittedly I put myself in this situation, and it does feel selfish.
dragonlife
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People can hear me talk when I play L4D2, which is pretty often.
I forget who else here has L4D2 on Steam. DarkUSS, I think. Post your Steam profile again for me, dude
I almost always play with friends and sometimes we need a fourth. We pretty much do Expert exclusively unless it's custom campaigns, in which we do Advanced. I'd be happy to join you and your friends as well if you ever need someone. I wonder how the lag would be Actually, I'll just link you to my profile: http://steamcommunity.com/id/dragonlife29/
MidnightScott
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I just feel really bummed right now about it. He say it was good to him, he didn't pressure me into anything.
I hope in the future if we do it again I'll feel really good. I hope maybe we can turn it into a relationship but I guess in do time we'll see.
I hope in the future if we do it again I'll feel really good. I hope maybe we can turn it into a relationship but I guess in do time we'll see.
Phonomezer
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Lucky Scott!
Take your time and have fun.
Take your time and have fun.
People can hear me talk when I play L4D2, which is pretty often.
I forget who else here has L4D2 on Steam. DarkUSS, I think. Post your Steam profile again for me, dude
Actually, I'll just link you to my profile: http://steamcommunity.com/id/dragonlife29/
I've got it as well
I pretty much only boot it up to play Realism Vs. with some online friends, but I'm always up for playing with other people!http://steamcommunity.com/id/7echnicolor <- Me! Feel free to add me!
dragonlife
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Doh. Not a big fan of Versus, to be honest. I'm pretty much a Campaign-only guy. The only Versus I enjoy is the 20-man server psycho shit, haha; sometimes by myself, just killing the bots and then switching teamsI've got it as well
http://steamcommunity.com/id/7echnicolor <- Me! Feel free to add me!
Will add regardless!
lordfroakie
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Ask yourself this question: Do you want a relationship or a fuck buddy?
SpaceBridge
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There's another possibility too: maybe you aren't a bottom after all .
MidnightScott
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That is possible but I always jack off and finger myself. Also vic, i do want a relationship with him someday I believe.
Ollie Pooch
In a perfect world, we'd all be homersexual
BAHAHA I've seen those. I miss Agro!I feel compelled to get an Ann-Maree avatar
I love these filthy outtakes http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Fpt2FN4OvxU
Erebus
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Feeling like crap the last couple of days; also having this on repeat.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=player_detailpage&v=pElbXYsZ9OU
PS. I added you on Steam, dragonlife. Though, I'm more into Versus tbh.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=player_detailpage&v=pElbXYsZ9OU
PS. I added you on Steam, dragonlife. Though, I'm more into Versus tbh.
Why?
Is this the truth? I've looked around a lot and there seems to be a lot of conflicting evidence (well, internet "evidence") on the overall safety of enemas longterm. As long as I'm not using it everyday it should be fine right? Maybe once a week at best?
You shouldn't use saline or sodium phosphate enemas more than once a week, as they're a laxative (and can additionally irritate the colon). Fleet makes this product called Fleet Naturals that they say is safe to use daily. That stuff is basically a bottle of purified water with a drop of aloe and a lubed tip. I like it (Damn Varla Jean Merman for turning me on to them!), but it's not super necessary as it's just water. But if you feel a little less than fresh, it can certainly help.
My last birthday was pretty shitty, too. *hug* Is that because you have too much work to do in college, or is there more to it?This is the worst birthday ever, I hate college. I cant help but feel like shit
oh this Novela finally got good, he got laid? did not see this coming
I've just been using tap water and a small hose connected to my shower. The only thing I'm worried about is I've read if you use an enema too much your body won't be able to have a normal bowl movement any other way.
So you've basically been douching your colon out with tap water? You'll be fine. The chlorine could maybe possibly irritate your bowels a bit, but I'd worry more about possible injury (you may overfill your colon with water or stretch out an anal fissure) than a little morning rinse out having any effect on your bowel movements.
sorry for the rant but I just needed to vent
thats what you call overreacting
MidnightScott
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Finally home from work, I was basically up all night and barely slept last night. Then I had to work 10 hours today. I am friggin' tired. My poor dog he missed me a lot. My mom said he was mopey all day long and didn't wanna play or anything lol.
Yes and yes, I am swamped with work but thats understandable. I dont know maybe I am being a bit selfish but I feel like I need new friends, the best my current ones can do is write a 'happy birthday' on my facebook page. I just want to go out and party on the weekend but none of them are into that kind of thing. I feel like I am always there for them but only a few are there for me. All I am asking is for one weekend where we do what I like, is that to much to ask
sorry for the rant but I just needed to vent
thats what you call overreacting
Same. Well I have friends that like to party, but they go to different colleges 3 hrs away
Yes and yes, I am swamped with work but thats understandable. I dont know maybe I am being a bit selfish but I feel like I need new friends, the best my current ones can do is write a 'happy birthday' on my facebook page. I just want to go out and party on the weekend but none of them are into that kind of thing. I feel like I am always there for them but only a few are there for me. All I am asking is for one weekend where we do what I like, is that to much to ask
sorry for the rant but I just needed to vent
thats what you call overreacting
Same. I want friends I can go out to see film and have dinner with. I mean I do have a friend who normally goes out to dinner with me after gym but lately he's busy due to preparing for other friend's engagement. /firstworldcountryproblem
I've come to expect nothing from nobody on my birthdays. I've found that when I expect people to give a shit and pretend like they care just for one day, without fail, they disappoint me. When I'm not expecting anything out of the ordinary to happen on my birthday, something great usually happens. And if not, then who cares at that point?Yes and yes, I am swamped with work but thats understandable. I dont know maybe I am being a bit selfish but I feel like I need new friends, the best my current ones can do is write a 'happy birthday' on my facebook page. I just want to go out and party on the weekend but none of them are into that kind of thing. I feel like I am always there for them but only a few are there for me. All I am asking is for one weekend where we do what I like, is that to much to ask
sorry for the rant but I just needed to vent
thats what you call overreacting
I've come to expect nothing from nobody on my birthdays. I've found that when I expect people to give a shit and pretend like they care just for one day, without fail, they disappoint me. When I'm not expecting anything out of the ordinary to happen on my birthday, something great usually happens. And if not, then who cares at that point?
What kind of stuff were you expecting?
Hmm... I guess just for someone to make me feel special. Make me feel like I'm important. That feeling is magnified to hell on my bday. I feel like no one ever goes out of their way to make me feel that way. Maybe I'm being a bit too self involved? I guess what it comes down to is feeling like I want to be THE MOST important thing in one other human's life.
Hmm... I guess just for someone to make me feel special. Make me feel like I'm important. That feeling is magnified to hell on my bday. I feel like no one ever goes out of their way to make me feel that way. Maybe I'm being a bit too self involved? I guess what it comes down to is feeling like I want to be THE MOST important thing in one other human's life.
Like a hug? A simple "Happy Birthday?"
I remember a year ago on my birthday not one person even mentioned it except for a few gaygaffers. Ha!
Nah, a simple "happy birthday" is just way too easy. I want someone to put some thought into how to make me feel special. There are people like that in the world, right??
No one you knew in real life said anything about it to you? Did they even remember? I remember last year some of my friends were annoyed because I didn't tell them, not a few days before, not a week before, not months before, that my birthday was coming up. It totally passed without them saying anything (I didn't have a facebook, so they couldn't rely on that), and my best friend asked me if I was doing anything on the upcoming weekend, and I, assuming he knew my birthday had passed, said "Nah, I'm not planning anything for my b-day this year." So he waits til Friday and calls me to say happy birthday, I said thanks, and told him it wasn't today but last week. He was kinda pissed. Whatever. lol
It almost sounds like what you want is a S.O. to do something significant and magnificent on your birthday.Hmm... I guess just for someone to make me feel special. Make me feel like I'm important. That feeling is magnified to hell on my bday. I feel like no one ever goes out of their way to make me feel that way. Maybe I'm being a bit too self involved? I guess what it comes down to is feeling like I want to be THE MOST important thing in one other human's life.
You expect them to remember your birthday? Also no nobody said anything to me in real life not even my family. Yes they knew about it.
SpaceBridge
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God it's fucking depressing in here tonight.
An avatar quote would be in play here if the full image wasn't actually about something else.
I think it's good to know how little you matter to them, don't you think? It really lowers expectations.
Exactly. lol. Maybe I'm asking for too much! Not everyone is a hopeless romantic!
I don't care if my family remembers or says anything to me. Like hateradio said, I want my "s.o." to make me feel like a princess.
Life can be depressing sometimes, man.
I love me some white boys. So usually blue or green. Green eyes and dark hair is the hottest. I have shit colored eyes myself.
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