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Gay and Bisexual relationship thread |OT|
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I'd make it more depressing by saying:
Have you guys ever had one of those moments where you converse online with someone and then you realize...you don't know what else to talk about. And you keep thinking and thinking, and then you start to wonder....if I can't even converse with him easily online, how'd we do in RL? Man, I wish I can find someone who I can get along like a cracker like a friend of mine. The kind of guy where we both can throw verbal jabs at each other and laugh about it. Or is that just limited to friends?
As for eye color, I don't mind any color but I do like blue the most.
I was working at a cosmetics store last year, and this guy with green eyes, very dark, longish hair, facial hair, and tattoos came into the store. I was trying to help him, but everything I said came out so wrong because I could not think of anything besides "Holy shit this guy is too beautiful, buhbuhbhuhhuh" and eventually I had to go run to the back of the store because I was embarrassing myself waaaay too much. hahaha
Actually, I sometimes find it hard to carry a conversation with people online that I have no trouble doing so with in person. Weird, huh?
I don't really care (in fact, most of the time I don't notice), but I'm usually attracted to unusual colours compared to skin/hair colour.
Souldriver
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Green, very light blue, grey. These strike me as almost photoshopped, and make me stare. 
But really though, the eye color isn't that important for me. I have this weird thing that I don't look into people's eyes when I'm talking to them, but rather their mouth/nose. Don't know where that came from, as it is supposedly unusual. But nobody notices this though. People look at someone's face when talking, I just happen to look 2 inches lower than most people. It's only when I'm asked to look in someone's eyes that people notice, because then my eyes shift a little up and down from eyes to mouth and back.
But really though, the eye color isn't that important for me. I have this weird thing that I don't look into people's eyes when I'm talking to them, but rather their mouth/nose. Don't know where that came from, as it is supposedly unusual. But nobody notices this though. People look at someone's face when talking, I just happen to look 2 inches lower than most people. It's only when I'm asked to look in someone's eyes that people notice, because then my eyes shift a little up and down from eyes to mouth and back.
that's because online and telephone conversations suck, all together, regardless of whether it's with your mom, a friend or a possible date. Just arrange a date, and go for a walk and both will talk.
Instigator
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Hey guys, I don't play for your team but I got a question for you and you only have to read this short little quote to get you into context:
I totally get you're all into guys, but are there any women out there (no matter how rare, unlikely, unattainable or whatever) who would at the very least tempt you?
I totally get you're all into guys, but are there any women out there (no matter how rare, unlikely, unattainable or whatever) who would at the very least tempt you?
SecretMoblin
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I get what you're saying, but it's not a completely fair comparison. You're missing the visual cues you would have in person. Especially if the guy isn't very expressive in his typing, you can't really tell whether you've hit topic that is worth pursuing. Some people are just not very talkative online (especially at first), which can often be interpreted as disinterest (don't you just hate those that give one word responses). With friends you already know a good deal about how they talk and react, so it's much easier to get on with them, even when you're talking about nothing of importance.
What I've found to be taxing these days is that every time you start a new conversation, the motion of small talks you go through is always the same (interests, job, family, etc). Very rarely will the other person be interactive enough for you to be more creative. I really do appreciate those that will actually bounce off new ideas and topics to keep the talking going, rather than just answering your questions like a checklist.
CHEEZMO
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I'm actually more attracted to women than guys, so this question doesn't really apply to me. I just took this as an opportunity to post this picture.
Souldriver
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Some woman are beautiful, sensual, can make me swoon, sure... but sex? No: not attracted to tits and vagina.
CornBurrito
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I find some women very attractive, but not from a sexual standpoint. I think once they took off their clothes I'd be sufficiently turned off.
True about the no visual cues with online convo. And yes, I hate it when the responses seem like they're just answering your questions but not making any efforts to bounce off new ideas from the questions. It makes me wonder, should I try harder? It doesn't seem like he tries much so why should I try? Of course, the less interested you are in the person the less likely you're going to pursue the conversation. And I admit, I sometimes forget that I'm not the only guy the other person has talked to. So whatever question I asked, he probably has been asked many times before.
Mystic Theurge
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I can't think of a single woman I am attracted to.
Also in the topic of online conversation, that is usually why I'd rather meet for a drink to get to know the person than to chat online. I find it easier to get a sense if the person and I'd rather know if I'm visually attracted to them or not.
Also in the topic of online conversation, that is usually why I'd rather meet for a drink to get to know the person than to chat online. I find it easier to get a sense if the person and I'd rather know if I'm visually attracted to them or not.
i_am_ben
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I would say next time when you're really interested in a guy and he seems dismissive, just be blunt and ask him if he's really wanting to talk. If not then you have your answer and don't need to waste any more time. If yes, it could be just be a matter of him getting comfortable with you.
To be fair though, I think we have all been guilty of being that guy on the other end of the conversation. While rare for me, I have been contacted by people I don't feel attracted to, so I tend to not try as hard. So I do my best to not take it personal when it happens to me. Still sucks though!
EDIT: The ironic thing is I'm very introverted and shy in person, but online I could come off as aggressive (yes, someone actually said that to me).
About online conversations, you also have to remember that very often while people talk on a chat/phone, they can also do many other things at the same time. I must admit that I hate real-time online/phone conversations for that reason - I'm very easily distracted and thus, for example, I end up reading articles/forum posts or watching videos/TV while talking to a person; of course by doing that I'm less engaged in the conversation.
the other thing besides a male body that could possibly turn me on, is intelligence.
If I met a girl at a party, was incredibly intelligent and had lots of things in common and she was very secure and wanted to have sex with me even after I said I am gay, I'd definitely try, if she was my type (brunette, big ass and big tits). I can definitely see myself enjoying and getting an erection from grabbing her tits and butt and kissing.
As for penetration, I would have to say "I only do anal, sorry" and if even after that, she definitely wants it, then maybe I'd consider dating her for longer periods and try heterosexuality.
Oral on a vagina though, there is NO way I'll go there.
If I met a girl at a party, was incredibly intelligent and had lots of things in common and she was very secure and wanted to have sex with me even after I said I am gay, I'd definitely try, if she was my type (brunette, big ass and big tits). I can definitely see myself enjoying and getting an erection from grabbing her tits and butt and kissing.
As for penetration, I would have to say "I only do anal, sorry" and if even after that, she definitely wants it, then maybe I'd consider dating her for longer periods and try heterosexuality.
Oral on a vagina though, there is NO way I'll go there.
Hazel, amber or brown...yes so common, but I like
Instigator
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Vaginas are not necessarily the prettiest thing to look at for straight guys either, but their self-lubricating nature and lack of fecal matter make penetration hassle-free.
And oral on an anus, you're open to that?
First time I tried that I nearly threw up. Partly because I was already sick at the time. It was embarrassing though, but she understood.
After that though I got a lot better. The reaction when a girl cums from oral is almost better than that of a guy if you're doing it right. Not being attracted to women though, I just got more of a sense of satisfaction out of pleasuring her.
The Abominable Snowman
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I love Amber Rose, and I think she is so damn sexy
However, I can't imagine plugging her at all. I think a sensual one-on-one session for us would end up with us on a hotel balcony shaking our asses together and trying to see if we can make our asses clap.
However, I can't imagine plugging her at all. I think a sensual one-on-one session for us would end up with us on a hotel balcony shaking our asses together and trying to see if we can make our asses clap.
Coppertracks
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Sex with a woman? It's on my to-do list before I die but I'd never aggressively pursue it. Celebrity wise, probably Ellen Page, or Carey Mulligan.
Re: birthdays:
Haha, in my case aside my parents and like 1 friend; noone remembers. I don't even put it on Facebook; since it brings a bunch of people that either don't talk to me the entire year or don't even know me, to just say a "congratulations" to feel better with themselves. Yeah, sounds angry; but whatever.
Re: eye color:
Blue, it's always nice; but those really (like baby?) blue eyes, and mostly in white/tanned guys with blone hair or tanned guys with dark hair. Light brown is another nice color, so dissapointed that my dad has that color, but I don't.
Re: women:
Angelina Jolie and Anne Hathaway; though more Anne because she's my age while Angelina could be a really awesome older sister (since she seems cool to hang out with). But in either case, more like an experimental "thing" rather than a full relationship or just sex. I've been sure I'm gay since technically I was born, which is why I've never dated any girls.
Oh! and...
Haha, in my case aside my parents and like 1 friend; noone remembers. I don't even put it on Facebook; since it brings a bunch of people that either don't talk to me the entire year or don't even know me, to just say a "congratulations" to feel better with themselves. Yeah, sounds angry; but whatever.
Re: eye color:
Blue, it's always nice; but those really (like baby?) blue eyes, and mostly in white/tanned guys with blone hair or tanned guys with dark hair. Light brown is another nice color, so dissapointed that my dad has that color, but I don't.
Re: women:
Angelina Jolie and Anne Hathaway; though more Anne because she's my age while Angelina could be a really awesome older sister (since she seems cool to hang out with). But in either case, more like an experimental "thing" rather than a full relationship or just sex. I've been sure I'm gay since technically I was born, which is why I've never dated any girls.
Oh! and...
Just saw Weekend by Andrew Haigh at the Gothenburg Film Festival
Great movie. And Andrew Haigh is really charming, the very short Q&A session was interesting (even though our audience was uninspired, I personally couldn't think of anything. just wanted to give him a hug and a thanks)
It's been mentioned before in the thread, is available on Netflix and is a charming, funny, well-acted story! Pretty great, thoroughly enjoyable. Felt very 'authentic' if you will: I believed what was happening on screen. Which is really good if you ask me.
Trailer
And oh.. it's pretty sexy. As one might say: they could both get it. (Andrew Haigh could too
)
Great movie. And Andrew Haigh is really charming, the very short Q&A session was interesting (even though our audience was uninspired, I personally couldn't think of anything. just wanted to give him a hug and a thanks
)It's been mentioned before in the thread, is available on Netflix and is a charming, funny, well-acted story! Pretty great, thoroughly enjoyable. Felt very 'authentic' if you will: I believed what was happening on screen. Which is really good if you ask me.
Trailer
And oh.. it's pretty sexy. As one might say: they could both get it. (Andrew Haigh could too
)Mystic Theurge
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I didn't care for Weekend. It was too low key for me.
I think that was the whole point of the movie though. It was more about the bittersweet feeling you get from the situation than anything else. The relationship that can develop between two people when you remove any expectation or uncertainty. You know it's gonna end, what do you do with the little time you have left?
It wasn't perfect but I thought it was the kind of gay movie straight people could enjoy compared to Another Gay Movie for example (which I did like a lot though).
Hell yeah! XDJust saw Weekend by Andrew Haigh at the Gothenburg Film Festival
Great movie. And Andrew Haigh is really charming, the very short Q&A session was interesting (even though our audience was uninspired, I personally couldn't think of anything. just wanted to give him a hug and a thanks
It's been mentioned before in the thread, is available on Netflix and is a charming, funny, well-acted story! Pretty great, thoroughly enjoyable. Felt very 'authentic' if you will: I believed what was happening on screen. Which is really good if you ask me.
Trailer
And oh.. it's pretty sexy. As one might say: they could both get it. (Andrew Haigh could too
(to the movie been good and the director/cast looking good too
)
(L-R) Actor Tom Cullen, director Andrew Haigh, producer Tristan Goligher and actor Chris New attend the "Weekend" premiere during the 55th BFI London Film Festival at BFI Southbank on October 15, 2011 in London, England.
Interestingly, I find the director, the 2nd guy from left to right, the most attractive or charming.
Last night i brought my (straight) brother to a gay bar and he wanted to be my wingman and... it actually turned out really well! Haha. He told me, "Alright, pick the hottest guy here and i'll make it happen." I looked around and saw the cutest guy in the place and sure enough my brother went up to him and after a minute or so, the guy looked at me and came up to me! My brother winked and walked away, and I had a really nice conversation with the guy. He was moving back to New York in a couple days so I didn't bother to ask for his phone number, but it was pretty awesome my brother did that for me. It was like an episode of How I Met Your Mother.
ps...i'm hungover as fuck. my head hurts so badly((
ps...i'm hungover as fuck. my head hurts so badly
((Last night i brought my (straight) brother to a gay bar and he wanted to be my wingman and... it actually turned out really well! Haha. He told me, "Alright, pick the hottest guy here and i'll make it happen." I looked around and saw the cutest guy in the place and sure enough my brother went up to him and after a minute or so, the guy looked at me and came up to me! My brother winked and walked away, and I had a really nice conversation with the guy. He was moving back to New York in a couple days so I didn't bother to ask for his phone number, but it was pretty awesome my brother did that for me. It was like an episode of How I Met Your Mother.
ps...i'm hungover as fuck. my head hurts so badly
That is awesome!
The Broken Ska Record
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Last night i brought my (straight) brother to a gay bar and he wanted to be my wingman and... it actually turned out really well! Haha. He told me, "Alright, pick the hottest guy here and i'll make it happen." I looked around and saw the cutest guy in the place and sure enough my brother went up to him and after a minute or so, the guy looked at me and came up to me! My brother winked and walked away, and I had a really nice conversation with the guy. He was moving back to New York in a couple days so I didn't bother to ask for his phone number, but it was pretty awesome my brother did that for me. It was like an episode of How I Met Your Mother.
ps...i'm hungover as fuck. my head hurts so badly
Way to go, dude.
SpaceBridge
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Last night i brought my (straight) brother to a gay bar and he wanted to be my wingman and... it actually turned out really well! Haha. He told me, "Alright, pick the hottest guy here and i'll make it happen." I looked around and saw the cutest guy in the place and sure enough my brother went up to him and after a minute or so, the guy looked at me and came up to me! My brother winked and walked away, and I had a really nice conversation with the guy. He was moving back to New York in a couple days so I didn't bother to ask for his phone number, but it was pretty awesome my brother did that for me. It was like an episode of How I Met Your Mother.
ps...i'm hungover as fuck. my head hurts so badly
You have the greatest brother ever!
dragonlife
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Nah, I think maybe the cause is that I didn't know that I got his message until a day later. By the time I replied, it's likely he thinks that I wasn't interested and only being polite. Oh well, whatever, it's partly my fault for using an email address that I don't use much for that site so I don't check it out that often. It was actually unusual that I check that address a day after instead of a week after. But yeah, that's another thing that is tiring about dating scene. People seems to be offended so quickly if you don't respond immediately. They assume that you're not interested and only replied because they are the spare wheel. The thing is, I often has a lot of things on my mind and don't always check my emails, etc.
krypt0nian
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I would def pee in his butt.*
* I would not actually pee in his butt. It is a euphemism.
EDIT: in OSS 117: Lost in Rio there's an orgy scene in which he has his butt played with by another guy.
Yeah he's pretty awesome! Love him.
MidnightScott
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So bored tonight, gonna go watch The Hangover II with my parents >.>;
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