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Second said:
Maybe this has been asked a few times...

But how do you know if someone you like is gay? Do you just flirt with him and try to find out?

I ask because...what if you flirt with the wrong person and he gets mad or something...
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Some guys are pretty obviously gay, some not so much. Replicant was discussing nods and stares from dudes in public, but by that logic the cute security guard who walks by my store nods at me, smiles and hangs outside wants to jump my bone. Oh, wait...
 
Phonomezer said:
Your avatar is gonna get it.

UNF.
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Second said:
Maybe this has been asked a few times...

But how do you know if someone you like is gay? Do you just flirt with him and try to find out?

I ask because...what if you flirt with the wrong person and he gets mad or something...
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If he checks out men, he's probably into men. You don't even have to stare. In a restaurant situation, for instance, you just notice if he perks his head up at the cute male waiter or cute female waitress. Or you could just go up and talk, no overt flirting necessary. Single people usually make it pretty clear if they're interested. And Grindr is location aware, so there's that, too.

And I can't think of anything but obvious situations where flirting with "the wrong person" would net you much more than a little embarrassment and maybe a bruised ego.
 
Cosmic Bus said:
:(

Buy me a ticket, you rich bastard.
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Tickets went hella fast, though I shouldn't be surprised. Initially tried to get 4, but had to settle for 2 (at $200/each). My friends are bummed, but I'll still get to go with the bf. Seats are halfway from the stage on the upper right side. I hope Madge looks our way once in a while (maybe if I flash my tits?).

I wonder if she'll add another Seattle show, since her next one in San Jose isn't until the 6th.

I'll keep you in mind if the bf bails, Mr. Bus. =)
 
Second said:
Maybe this has been asked a few times...

But how do you know if someone you like is gay? Do you just flirt with him and try to find out?

I ask because...what if you flirt with the wrong person and he gets mad or something...
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This is generally why I stick to online dating and queer-specific spaces to find dates (it's not just bars, BTW- campuses often have stuff like gay gamers or athletes associations if you're at college, and there are often analogous organizations off-campus). Still, you can often find out a person's orientation well enough by asking mutual friend or acquaintances or friending them on facebook. I haven't had much success just hitting on guys you find attractive- gay guys aren't that common, unfortunately, and while I haven't had any terrible results like someonebeing violent, things can get awkward for a bit.
 
runlikehell said:
Dis video <3
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Do you remember me sending it to you? Lol, back in the day, haha. It seems though that I've ended up listening to more of your shitty emo music than my J-Rock and Glam/Alt rock. :P

G-Fex said:
Oh lucky you! Yes it seems he's a bit into fan service. None the less I liked him since his Malice Mizer days.

Ah yes, so many that look like ladies :3. I like my boys from japan pretty and in a lot of makeup.

like this

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=d7v6HL_H3Qc

<3
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Aww man, Dir En Grey are the shit. I saw them live when they played the Kerrang tour that came to Ireland a couple of years ago. They were AMAZING. Seriously, one of the best gigs I've ever been to. They played a great selection from Uroboros, Kyo even did a song without using a mic (although I don't recall which song it was, I think it was Glass Skin), he is one talented guy. The scream at the end of Dozing Green has given me chills ever since seeing him do it live. Just... wow.

Here is the one and only picture that I took at the first Gackt gig I was at (they are REALLY strict about using cameras, but I sneaked one on my phone). He has a great body for an older gent. When I saw him last year he had a second vocalist, this America called John. He has an amazing body (Almost as nice as my boyfriends. :P) It was hilarious to me being surrounded by a 98% female audience shrieking like crazy every time he gyrated. Ah, good times. Every time I showed this picture to friends or co-workers they thought that the guitarists (Chachamaru and You) were girls, aww. They're just too glam!

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barrin87 said:
I am getting one! I just don't know when.

Gackt isn't bad but I have always preferred Malize Mizer.
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YES you guys! Merveilles is such a great album. I also love S-Conscious and Le Ciel. Actually, Le Ciel is one of my go-to songs for when I want to chill out and feel like a badass at the same time. (Ace, Illuminati is a song on the album Merveilles by Malice Mizer.)

I have to admit though I've only really listened to the Gackt era Malice Mizer.

barrin87, have we seen you around here much before? Forgive me if you introduced yourself and I missed your post. J-rock loving Gaygaf represent! :P
 
godelsmetric said:
i personally think the biggest step down was from BG2 -> KOTOR

everything since has been a variation on the KOTOR theme
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I could see that. KOTOR wasn't full-on brosephery like Mass Effect (even moreso in 2 and likely 3), but it did get pretty Hollywoodish and started painting with broad strokes. Interestingly, KOTOR 2 takes a step back from this and into the neutral, despite being rushed.
 
Yasae said:
I could see that. KOTOR wasn't full-on brosephery like Mass Effect (even moreso in 2 and likely 3), but it did get pretty Hollywoodish and started painting with broad strokes. Interestingly, KOTOR 2 takes a step back from this and into the neutral, despite being rushed.
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plus there were fewer, less interesting side-quests, the gameplay removed a lot of choices from the player, and the loot system was wanged
 
Wow that sounds great Goth, I would've loved to see Gackt on stage.

Reminds me how much I love seeing Kaya on stage performing one of his songs so passionately, they're beautiful songs too.

You missed out too cause the second singer Klaha was amazing, truly a great voice. I suggest listening to Gardenia or Garnet.
 
Masamuna said:
Question, when you're at the club and someone you do not find attractive nor want to talk to is aggressively trying to beckon you over to him what do you do? Me being the nice/naive guy I go over and eventually had to be saved by a buddy. Do I just completely ignore him? I tried that but he eventually got people to catch my attention towards him. So obnoxious.
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In a casual bar situation, sometimes I'll head over and say hi and then excuse myself saying I have to make a call, or that my friends expect me back, or or pretend I'm not noticing the wave if I really get creep vibes.

If you're talking the Eagle/leather bar, what I do is meat their eyes and shake my head "no".
Not in some better than you way, just say nope, not interested. I made the distinction, because in that situation, it's a direct sex offer usually, or at least well on it's way to one.

Never feel obligated to socialize beyond what you're feeling at the time. It's not rude to not be available to everyone at the bar. =)
 
krypt0nian said:
In a casual bar situation, sometimes I'll head over and say hi and then excuse myself saying I have to make a call, or that my friends expect me back, or or pretend I'm not noticing the wave if I really get creep vibes.

If you're talking the Eagle/leather bar, what I do is meat their eyes and shake my head "no".
Not in some better than you way, just say nope, not interested. I made the distinction, because in that situation, it's a direct sex offer usually, or at least well on it's way to one.

Never feel obligated to socialize beyond what you're feeling at the time. It's not rude to not be available to everyone at the bar. =)
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Good advice. When I eventually go back I'll keep that in mind. Till then my trips to ATL will probably involve hanging out with guys i've met in a non club setting. Dinner parties and all that jazz. Filter out the flakes so to speak.

And on top of that I get to see my local guy this Sunday. The wait. It kills.
 
Alcoori said:
Can we stop with the straight guy teasing the gays because he loves attention?

Thanks.
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AceBandage said:
Sorry?
I was simply posting in this topic.
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Sorry Gay dudes, I'll put him on a leash next time. He shits on the rug too, and is in need of better manners. I take full responsibility and will drag him back to the heterosexual testostrone filled threads like Dating-GAF and Girl-Gaf (?) ironically isnt this ''Girl-GAF'' too? plus Girl-GAF isnt even ''that'' Girl-ish with the swarm of lonely male intruders.

Anyways... :p
 
Not really into BDSM.
>_>

highluxury said:
Sorry Gay dudes, I'll put him on a leash next time. He shits on the rug too, and is in need of better manners. I take full responsibility and will drag him back to the heterosexual testostrone filled threads like Dating-GAF and Girl-Gaf (?) ironically isnt this ''Girl-GAF'' too? plus Girl-GAF isnt even ''that'' Girl-ish with the swarm of lonely male intruders.

Anyways... :p
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One fucking time and you're labeled for life...
 
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