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I finished playing Alan Wake a week or two ago and continued it with ME3.

One game with DLC endings and the other with people who want a DLC ending.
:lol


I may want to get back into Skyward Bore, but it's so dull. :/
 
Excluding the ending, everything was great.

And more importantly, you get to flirt with sex Kaidan

Fixed. And it's sooo worth it. Except for the damned ending, of course. And I'm surprised to know that my Shep is far more expressive during the dating scene than Sheploo.
 
Ha, well that was three games in the making. At least they finally got around to adding it. My ex is really sad they made him bi though.
Technically he was always a LI for Shep, but they removed the male option (at the last minute?) in the first game.
 
Fixed. And it's sooo worth it. Except for the damned ending, of course. And I'm surprised to know that my Shep is far more expressive during the dating scene than Sheploo.

The sex scene reminded me of the movie
shelter

Technically he was always a LI for Shep, but they removed the male option (at the last minute?) in the first game.

the supposed love scene between Kaidan and Shepard in ME1:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lPMOlEfhWGE

the conversation between them from 0:41 to 0:53 is pure gold.
 
Technically he was always a LI for Shep, but they removed the male option (at the last minute?) in the first game.

I thought there was also a scene removed in the second one during the kidnapping if you didn't kill Kaidan? Though that one made sense since the first was cut. Always struck me as a strange thing to remove, given how far along it was. And their excuse that "Shepard was a preconceived character" didn't make any sense either.
 
The sex scene reminded me of the movie
shelter



the supposed love scene between Kaidan and Shepard in ME1:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lPMOlEfhWGE

the conversation between them from 0:41 to 0:53 is pure gold.

Is that the infamous "I don't think I've had the pleasure of YOU serving under me, Kaidan" line?

I thought there was also a scene removed in the second one during the kidnapping if you didn't kill Kaidan? Though that one made sense since the first was cut. Always struck me as a strange thing to remove, given how far along it was. And their excuse that "Shepard was a preconceived character" didn't make any sense either.

Whatever scene left between Kaidan and Shepard in ME2's Horizon was pretty homoerotic anyway, dialogue-wise. It's like Kaidan was pissed off that Shep is with Cerberus, mostly because he thought that they had something together.
 
yup, it's pure gold.

but I actually like the interactions with Kaidan than the actual sex scene itself (not that it was bad)

potential spoiler for those who haven't played the game yet: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lxlN9EaXIcw watch from (2:06 to 2:24), so cute <3

Another scene that I like was the one in Apollo Cafe
I never got the flirting part. I guess it's because I had a romance*, who knows?

*
I had tweaked ME2's file to see how Thane's romance played out. I should have removed the flag from the save. Thaaaaane.
 
yup, it's pure gold.

but I actually like the interactions with Kaidan than the actual sex scene itself (not that it was bad)

potential spoiler for those who haven't played the game yet: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lxlN9EaXIcw watch from (2:06 to 2:24), so cute <3

Did you know that if you
visit Kaidan in Normandy after he joined you, he'll say "Hi Shepard" and Shep in return asks "Are you flirting with me, Major?"
I couldn't help but grinning wide when I heard that.

Another scene that I like was the one in Apollo Cafe

Yup, love that one too.
 
Though the ME1 clip is a mod of sorts, which is why he turns into female during sex.
Glad things were..updated in 3..finally. :p

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A) I find it funny that Kaidan and Shepard have the same body model.
B) I find it funny that Kaidan
is bruised as hell in the hospital
, but you get distracted because he has the hugest pecs in the world. And that his nipples kinda stand out.
C) Seriously, nipples.
D) Sex scene with the above mentioned -- though I didn't watch it in the game.
But I guess it's brief, so it doesn't matter.
 
A) I find it funny that Kaidan and Shepard have the same body model.
B) I find it funny that Kaidan
is bruised as hell in the hospital
, but you get distracted because he has the hugest pecs in the world. And that his nipples kinda stand out.
C) Seriously, nipples.
D) Sex scene with the above mentioned -- though I didn't watch it in the game.
But I guess it's brief, so it doesn't matter.

E) I find it funny that Kaidan
is a pushy power bottom. He's shown pushing Shep into the bed in that scene. Or maybe he's a top but I refuse to believe that.
 
E) I find it funny that Kaidan is a
pushy power bottom. He's shown pushing Shep into the bed in that scene. Or maybe he's a top but I refuse to believe that.
Hehehe.. something even funnier is that..
If you play as a female character, the scene is the same...but she's the one that pushes Kaidan.
Video from that "spoiler"

EDIT:
Spoiler-tagged Replicant's post, just in case. :p
 
I told my sister! :D She had a million questions. Like when I found out (at 12) and who I had crushes on. As I suspected she suspected for a while and so did my brothers (internet history helped...) But she accepts me as her little brother and I just wanted to burst into tears. She's going to tell her fiance and I'm cool with that because I trust them the most. I just feel really good. The world seems clearer :)
 
OK :(

Sorry to be a downer on this but....

My BF just went nuts at me and threatened to hit me. I have had this happen with Exes and know this is not right..........

Do I pretend it's OK and escape with my things or should I just leave now?
 
OK :(

Sorry to be a downer on this but....

My BF just went nuts at me and threatened to hit me. I have had this happen with Exes and know this is not right..........

Do I pretend it's OK and escape with my things or should I just leave now?

Run as fast as you can before it goes worse.
 
I told my sister! :D She had a million questions. Like when I found out (at 12) and who I had crushes on. As I suspected she suspected for a while and so did my brothers (internet history helped...) But she accepts me as her little brother and I just wanted to burst into tears. She's going to tell her fiance and I'm cool with that because I trust them the most. I just feel really good. The world seems clearer :)

Grats! The feeling of being relieved after you just came out and had a good response is one of the best feelings ever.
 
OK :(

Sorry to be a downer on this but....

My BF just went nuts at me and threatened to hit me. I have had this happen with Exes and know this is not right..........

Do I pretend it's OK and escape with my things or should I just leave now?

Its definitely not ok and you should leave... once someone threatens to hit you then the relationship isn't really salvageable.
 
I told my sister! :D She had a million questions. Like when I found out (at 12) and who I had crushes on. As I suspected she suspected for a while and so did my brothers (internet history helped...) But she accepts me as her little brother and I just wanted to burst into tears. She's going to tell her fiance and I'm cool with that because I trust them the most. I just feel really good. The world seems clearer :)

Congrats on that.. I was just wondering what took you so long? It doesn't make sense to me how anyone would wait until they're 25 to come out.
 
OK :(

Sorry to be a downer on this but....

My BF just went nuts at me and threatened to hit me. I have had this happen with Exes and know this is not right..........

Do I pretend it's OK and escape with my things or should I just leave now?

If it is safe to pack your stuff, do that, if not, just get out and worry about your stuff after.

Edit: And have a hug.
 
I told my sister! :D She had a million questions. Like when I found out (at 12) and who I had crushes on. As I suspected she suspected for a while and so did my brothers (internet history helped...) But she accepts me as her little brother and I just wanted to burst into tears. She's going to tell her fiance and I'm cool with that because I trust them the most. I just feel really good. The world seems clearer :)

Congrats! ^.^ I'm glad it went well for ya.

(Internet history is a bitch, isn't it?)
 
Grats Trimon! Glad you had the courage to do it! Is your sister and her fiancé religious? If that's the case, I think you should feel better about telling your parents. Regardless, it's a big step in the right direction, and I hope you can eventually come out to the rest of your siblings as well as your immediate family. Feels good man.

And Catmincer, sorry to hear that, but like it's been said before just get out and don't look back. He clearly doesn't deserve you or anyone else he's willing to treat this way.
 
OK :(

Sorry to be a downer on this but....

My BF just went nuts at me and threatened to hit me. I have had this happen with Exes and know this is not right..........

Do I pretend it's OK and escape with my things or should I just leave now?

You haven't provided a lot of information, but if you have been seeing him for awhile and this is the first time he's threatened you, you can probably make it clear what he did was wrong and leave. If this is a new relationship, and you feel really concerned about your safety, then a quiet escape is good.

Either way, it's good that you've decided to end it.

I told my sister! :D She had a million questions. Like when I found out (at 12) and who I had crushes on. As I suspected she suspected for a while and so did my brothers (internet history helped...) But she accepts me as her little brother and I just wanted to burst into tears. She's going to tell her fiance and I'm cool with that because I trust them the most. I just feel really good. The world seems clearer :)

Congrats. It's always nice when you start getting that pressure of your chest.

Congrats! ^.^ I'm glad it went well for ya.

(Internet history is a bitch, isn't it?)

Did you guys not know how to delete your Internet history? That was the easiest thing you could do to cover your trails.
 
So... when do you guys ever play games?
I meant to reply to this earlier. I always make time to get some gaming in, although it is easier with handhelds and a BF who plays games.

I was playing BF3 almost daily but the BF and I have stopped playing for now whilst we wait for the next patch. I platinumed Sly Cooper 1 in about 3 sittings over the weekend and I've been playing my Vita a lot. I should really get around to finishing Xenoblade. And Dark Souls. Oh and Alan Wake. I've been meaning to actually play the Mass Effect series properly as well... and the 15 other games I've played 3 hours of and set aside. I'm also determined to platinum Demon's Souls.

Stochastic gamer here :P

Edit:
Did you guys not know how to delete your Internet history? That was the easiest thing you could do to cover your trails.
This just reminded me of when I got caught when I was about 11 or so. I had deleted the browser history but had forgotten about the program my Dad had installed that cached images of frequently visited websites to speed up browsing (this was the time of dial-up). He ended up seeing some bad quality porn I had been looking at - gay football and cowboy pictures - I don't even recall how I found them, probably through some random web search results. XD I just blamed my sister, but I'm not sure how good my poker face was back then. Ah, the mishaps of sexual discovery!
 
I think this is a decent place to ask this...I hope. Sorry for the wall of text too.

I've been dating my current GF for over a month now, and last week she told me she was bisexual. I don't have any issue with that at all, but she mentioned that she'd like to have permission to get together with chicks every now and again should the opportunity arise.

I told her I wasn't comfortable with her having sex with chicks while we're together. I just don't see how it's fair for her to have something extra on the side when I'm committed to her. I did, however, say that she could make out with a chick should the chance occur. I figure it's best not to keep her on a tight leash, as she might eventually go behind my back if I don't allow anything.

As far as I know our relationship so far is pretty great, so I don't really see this as her trying to escape. She told me that I could trust her not to go outside our agreed upon terms, so all I can really do is trust her. Do you guys have any tips for me? This is uncharted space and I'm afraid of screwing it up.
 
I think this is a decent place to ask this...I hope. Sorry for the wall of text too.

I've been dating my current GF for over a month now, and last week she told me she was bisexual. I don't have any issue with that at all, but she mentioned that she'd like to have permission to get together with chicks every now and again should the opportunity arise.

I told her I wasn't comfortable with her having sex with chicks while we're together. I just don't see how it's fair for her to have something extra on the side when I'm committed to her. I did, however, say that she could make out with a chick should the chance occur. I figure it's best not to keep her on a tight leash, as she might eventually go behind my back if I don't allow anything.

As far as I know our relationship so far is pretty great, so I don't really see this as her trying to escape. She told me that I could trust her not to go outside our agreed upon terms, so all I can really do is trust her. Do you guys have any tips for me? This is uncharted space and I'm afraid of screwing it up.

If she asked if she could sleep with other guys would you still be together? Don't be a doormat. Get rid of her.
 
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