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Delio said:
You know how I always seem to post Nikita (Guy in my avatar) in the past? Well I went snooping and finally found vids of him talking. Course it's in his native language but he has a lighter voice than I expected. XD

http://youtu.be/yHwxEGe9ub8

http://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=player_detailpage&v=HT0gl1t3p_M#t=70s

Anyways that is all from me :O.
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He's hot :p he doesn't look like the avatar picture you got of him. He also looks very muscular, I thought you was the twink slayer Del.
 
I was standing outside the back entrance to my uni department tonight having a smoke when some drunk, gruff tradie comes up to me and bums a smoke. I said sure and he asked me to light it for him so I obliged.

As I was lighting it, he cups his hands around mine and asked if I wanted to suck his dick. LOL. I declined.

Kicking myself
 
I can't believe I am actually considering a long distance relationship. I loathe the idea of anyone doing anything long distance, but I have a different feeling now.
 
Phonomezer said:
I was standing outside the back entrance to my uni department tonight having a smoke when some drunk, gruff tradie comes up to me and bums a smoke. I said sure and he asked me to light it for him so I obliged.

As I was lighting it, he cups his hands around mine and asked if I wanted to suck his dick. LOL. I declined.

Kicking myself
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He probably had genital warts.
 
Is the average Eastern European guy really that much hotter or is that simply a misconception with there being so much Eastern European porn?
 
GasProblem said:
He probably had genital warts.
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I wouldn't be surprised. That and the thought of me being a whore in a the back alley round the corner didn't really inspire any sort of reciprocation.

Stabbie said:
Is the average Eastern European guy really that much hotter or is that simply a misconception with there being so much Eastern European porn?
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I'm going to assume that the average Eastern European guy looks pretty average :P

Doesn't really matter anyhow, all guys and girls look hot after a few beers.
 
DarthWufei said:
I can't believe I am actually considering a long distance relationship. I loathe the idea of anyone doing anything long distance, but I have a different feeling now.
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I did it for two years.

... not sure I would do it again. It was a great relationship but it never seemed to be getting to the point where we would be in the same city. When it came down to it, I think he wanted to move close but I think the thought of leaving his family behind really held him back.

How long of a distance?

Stabbie said:
Is the average Eastern European guy really that much hotter or is that simply a misconception with there being so much Eastern European porn?
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Well, seeing that the average North American is overweight I guess it depends what you're into.
 
SomeoneCool said:
He's hot :p he doesn't look like the avatar picture you got of him. He also looks very muscular, I thought you was the twink slayer Del.
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hah Well when he started out he was very lean. He still had the twink face and bod going. Course now he's bulked up a ton but I still think he's cute.
 
Hey everyone...

Eros finally dropped by work just to see me. He was dressed up for another job interview. He said he's been staying with the guy for a week and he says he doesn't like it but will make a decision at the end of the month.

Anyway we hugged and then we talked about his jobs. I told him I slept with a guy the other day and he asked me if I liked it and I said no it just felt weird. I asked him if he slept with the guy and he said he did, but is disgusted with it too, he said he doesn't feel a connection with him.

Anyway we started hugging again and I kissed him on the lips and he told me that I was real
Sweet and he was like "you know we are in the front of the camera" and I said "I don't care I'm not afraid anymore". But then he went to the bathroom hallway and said for me to come there so we just started making out and hugging and I said I missed this and I'm glad that he still wants me. I even started getting hard from it.

But anyways I got his new phone number. He calle me babe and everything, I was calling him boo and stuff.

I am so happy that he came by because I was worried about him, and I'm happy to know that he still wants to be with me someday. :)
 
MidnightScott said:
Hey everyone...

Eros finally dropped by work just to see me. He was dressed up for another job interview. He said he's been staying with the guy for a week and he says he doesn't like it but will make a decision at the end of the month.

Anyway we hugged and then we talked about his jobs. I told him I slept with a guy the other day and he asked me if I liked it and I said no it just felt weird. I asked him if he slept with the guy and he said he did, but is disgusted with it too, he said he doesn't feel a connection with him.

Anyway we started hugging again and I kissed him on the lips and he told me that I was real
Sweet and he was like "you know we are in the front of the camera" and I said "I don't care I'm not afraid anymore". But then he went to the bathroom hallway and said for me to come there so we just started making out and hugging and I said I missed this and I'm glad that he still wants me. I even started getting hard from it.

But anyways I got his new phone number. He calle me babe and everything, I was calling him boo and stuff.

I am so happy that he came by because I was worried about him, and I'm happy to know that he still wants to be with me someday. :)
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Babe and boo? *giggle*
 
MidnightScott said:
Hey everyone...

Eros finally dropped by work just to see me. He was dressed up for another job interview. He said he's been staying with the guy for a week and he says he doesn't like it but will make a decision at the end of the month.

Anyway we hugged and then we talked about his jobs. I told him I slept with a guy the other day and he asked me if I liked it and I said no it just felt weird. I asked him if he slept with the guy and he said he did, but is disgusted with it too, he said he doesn't feel a connection with him.

Anyway we started hugging again and I kissed him on the lips and he told me that I was real
Sweet and he was like "you know we are in the front of the camera" and I said "I don't care I'm not afraid anymore". But then he went to the bathroom hallway and said for me to come there so we just started making out and hugging and I said I missed this and I'm glad that he still wants me. I even started getting hard from it.

But anyways I got his new phone number. He calle me babe and everything, I was calling him boo and stuff.

I am so happy that he came by because I was worried about him, and I'm happy to know that he still wants to be with me someday. :)
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He called you babe because? Also he's living with another guy and expects you to wait till the end of the month for him to decide if he even wants to stay with him? And you are just happy go lucky running back to him every single time. You know what I give up.
 
Delio said:
He called you babe because? Also he's living with another guy and expects you to wait till the end of the month for him to decide if he even wants to stay with him? And you are just happy go lucky running back to him every single time. You know what I give up.
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Um waiting for him? I am waiting for him to one day be together but I'm not gonna stop meeting other guys. I might show a picture of him later. But I could feel that he really does care for me now.
 
DarthWufei said:
I can't believe I am actually considering a long distance relationship. I loathe the idea of anyone doing anything long distance, but I have a different feeling now.
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It really depends how long this situation would last. I don't advise getting into it if either of you isn't committed to make it work. It might seem a rush, but you should set an approximate date to when would you guys try to move in together (or at least both of you in the same city).

Also, honesty and setting the rules is important (I'd say very). My boyfriend and I made a vow to be completely honest with our feelings. With a distance relationship you can't really spare the time with "games" and saying A and wanting your partner to understand AB. Otherwise you add on baggage and it's not pleasant, bickering starts and it's a sort of snowball effect. Also, arguments tend to be maximized, because it's easy to "shut off" and ignore it, instead of dealing with it as you would normally do without distance.

I guess I'm no one to talk, this is my first relationship, but we've been 3 years together, 4th on july and we're moving in on august. That probably doesn't mean shit anyway, because in the end it's not the years but how you feel about your partner. You'll see it easily if it's worthy or not.

MidnightScott said:
Um waiting for him? I am waiting for him to one day be together but I'm not gonna stop meeting other guys. I might show a picture of him later. But I could feel that he really does care for me now.
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Not being judgemental here, but couldn't it be you desire that so much that you're seeing things that aren't there? Your situation is not normal or even common, and it's not really healthy for you. There's so many men that would like to love you, but it feels like you're wasting your energy on this guy, and that you're even enjoying -to some extent- the pain and attention this gives to you.
 
MidnightScott said:
Um waiting for him? I am waiting for him to one day be together but I'm not gonna stop meeting other guys. I might show a picture of him later. But I could feel that he really does care for me now.
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If you think that then there Is no point talking anymore. So what happens when you get close to another guy? Do you just drop them to wait for Eros?
 
SpaceBridge said:
Whateves, I surfed the Net when it was called BBS's.
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OLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLD. SO OLLLLLLLLD. Space, how did it feel to live in the age of dinosaurs?

I miss BBS. :(

Also Scott is so naive it hurts. I expect the next chapter when I pop in here to be "guyz, I got an STD from him. It isn't curable. :("

*poof*
 
Sofo said:
It really depends how long this situation would last. I don't advise getting into it if either of you isn't committed to make it work. It might seem a rush, but you should set an approximate date to when would you guys try to move in together (or at least both of you in the same city).

Also, honesty and setting the rules is important (I'd say very). My boyfriend and I made a vow to be completely honest with our feelings. With a distance relationship you can't really spare the time with "games" and saying A and wanting your partner to understand AB. Otherwise you add on baggage and it's not pleasant, bickering starts and it's a sort of snowball effect. Also, arguments tend to be maximized, because it's easy to "shut off" and ignore it, instead of dealing with it as you would normally do without distance.

I guess I'm no one to talk, this is my first relationship, but we've been 3 years together, 4th on july and we're moving in on august. That probably doesn't mean shit anyway, because in the end it's not the years but how you feel about your partner. You'll see it easily if it's worthy or not.


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This is EXACTLY what me and my bf failed at. I was open with everything but he was used to closing off and dealing with it himself. In the end that never works out and It just makes things worst and worst.
 
MidnightScott said:
Um waiting for him? I am waiting for him to one day be together but I'm not gonna stop meeting other guys. I might show a picture of him later. But I could feel that he really does care for me now.
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Man, if he wanted to be with you he would be. You say youre open to meeting other guys but mentally you're still hanging onto this one bcause youre assuming you two are gonna end up together. This has impending disaster written all over it. In Comic Sans.
 
Delio said:
This is EXACTLY what me and my bf failed at. I was open with everything but he was used to closing off and dealing with it himself. In the end that never works out and It just makes things worst and worst.
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I must admit there's been times I've done that, and I feel terrible afterwards. I've learned from my mistakes now, and try to calm down first (damn mediterranean blood in my veins) and react in a more mature way. It takes time learning yourself and your partner!
 
Sofo said:
It really depends how long this situation would last. I don't advise getting into it if either of you isn't committed to make it work. It might seem a rush, but you should set an approximate date to when would you guys try to move in together (or at least both of you in the same city).

Also, honesty and setting the rules is important (I'd say very). My boyfriend and I made a vow to be completely honest with our feelings. With a distance relationship you can't really spare the time with "games" and saying A and wanting your partner to understand AB. Otherwise you add on baggage and it's not pleasant, bickering starts and it's a sort of snowball effect. Also, arguments tend to be maximized, because it's easy to "shut off" and ignore it, instead of dealing with it as you would normally do without distance.

I guess I'm no one to talk, this is my first relationship, but we've been 3 years together, 4th on july and we're moving in on august. That probably doesn't mean shit anyway, because in the end it's not the years but how you feel about your partner. You'll see it easily if it's worthy or not.
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This is good advice. We didn't have an estimate other than "in the future." It certainly wasn't the sole reason why we couldn't get it to work, but I started to feel like it was never going to happen.
 
julls said:
Man, if he wanted to be with you he would be. You say youre open to meeting other guys but mentally you're still hanging onto this one bcause youre assuming you two are gonna end up together. This has impending disaster written all over it. In Comic Sans.
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Right now he is living with the guy so he can save money on bills. The guy is 45.
 
Is there a way to make it so people can't see who you have friended/are friending on facebook? My privacy level is maximum I think, but...


1: I got a message from one of Zack's new boyfriend's friends asking me to apologize for getting angry at him after I found out he cheated on me.

Seriously. This is a real thing that happened.

She threatened to "call the cops" if I didn't. Neat. That isn't blackmail at all. (I did not do anything illegal, for the record, while his boyfriend was trying to talk me into killing myself.)

2: It's becoming really apparent that Zack is not over me at all. He's "accidentally" texted me twice (I never responded back) and my provider won't let me block his number. I'm afraid he's going to start fucking with the guys I'm friending soon, and that would -not- be good.

I've been out partying and enjoying my life. I'd be lying if I said I was fully "over" this entire messy situation, but I was really motherfucking close. These harassing pieces of shit are not letting this end, and I feel the only legal option I can take would be to start taking message logs and go to the police. =\ Seems really excessive, but every time I hear from him I kind of just die inside for about a day.

I dyed my hair and worked out a shitload. I'm going to wear a mask over my face at PAX east (as part of my "cosplay") so they won't even be able to recognize me.

I suppose it's comforting knowing they're still angry and obsessive while I've been (for at least a week or two) happy as fuck and swimming in guys, but.... T.T I really just want all this to FUCKING END.

Advice please, GAF? I want a legal way out of this situation. I feel like filing two restraining orders the second they contact me again is the only way to go here =\
 
MidnightScott said:
Hey everyone...

Eros finally dropped by work just to see me. He was dressed up for another job interview. He said he's been staying with the guy for a week and he says he doesn't like it but will make a decision at the end of the month.

Anyway we hugged and then we talked about his jobs. I told him I slept with a guy the other day and he asked me if I liked it and I said no it just felt weird. I asked him if he slept with the guy and he said he did, but is disgusted with it too, he said he doesn't feel a connection with him.

Anyway we started hugging again and I kissed him on the lips and he told me that I was real
Sweet and he was like "you know we are in the front of the camera" and I said "I don't care I'm not afraid anymore". But then he went to the bathroom hallway and said for me to come there so we just started making out and hugging and I said I missed this and I'm glad that he still wants me. I even started getting hard from it.

But anyways I got his new phone number. He calle me babe and everything, I was calling him boo and stuff.

I am so happy that he came by because I was worried about him, and I'm happy to know that he still wants to be with me someday. :)
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This shit is cracking me up.

Surely your posts are all just script excerpts from Days of our Lives?
 
Sorry about your situation, Lucario. I truly do not understand people sometimes.

IIRC if a person can't see your profile, then they can't see your friends. Also absolutely keep a log in case these people keep harassing you. Have you considered changing your number?
 
Mystic Theurge said:
Sorry about your situation, Lucario. I truly do not understand people sometimes.

IIRC if a person can't see your profile, then they can't see your friends. Also absolutely keep a log in case these people keep harassing you. Have you considered changing your number?
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I might consider changing my number. I honestly believe Zack's messages are accidental, but I'm baffled why he doesn't just remove "<3 WILLY" from his contacts to prevent it from happening again >.>

Good idea. And if that FB thing is true, it'd be awesome... But if I view an unfriended person, I can see everyone they have friended, including a log of everyone new they friend =\ I wish there was a way to make it so that were not the case.
 
Lucario said:
I might consider changing my number. I honestly believe Zack's messages are accidental, but I'm baffled why he doesn't just remove "<3 WILLY" from his contacts to prevent it from happening again >.>

Good idea. And if that FB thing is true, it'd be awesome... But if I view an unfriended person, I can see everyone they have friended, including a log of everyone new they friend =\ I wish there was a way to make it so that were not the case.
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Maybe that person's privacy settings are low?

Do an experiment.

Call up one of your friends, defriend them, and ask them what they see.
 
julls said:
Yeah serious, it's like something out of a soap for sure. "we'll be together someday..." *stares into distance out window*
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Alcoori said:
There is a simple way Lucario: unfriend these motherfuckers.
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They have been unfriended and blocked for over a month.

The issues are them talking their friends into pestering me and them pestering my friends. =\

Do I just secrete some sort of toxin that drives everyone I date completely insane?
 
Hey you guys,

I just look at him as a possibility but today his actions seemed very truthful, I never felt so intimate with him before now.

I had a hookup the other night with a guy from Grindr and I just didn't feel anything from it. Seems like I can't enjoy it unless I care for the person already.
 
Lucario said:
Good idea. And if that FB thing is true, it'd be awesome... But if I view an unfriended person, I can see everyone they have friended, including a log of everyone new they friend =\ I wish there was a way to make it so that were not the case.
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This is one reason I'm avoiding Facebook. I know they've updated the privacy settings since I've used it, but I've always found that it's pretty open about the information you share on it.

I know that's not very helpful. Sounds like a really shitty situation you're in. Can you just keep blocking them? How many friends can someone have?
 
Mystic Theurge said:
Online Dating woes, huh?

At least you guys reach the meeting stage. I barely get responses, and the ones that do respond clearly aren't interested since I'm the one doing all the asking.
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I feel like I'm part of the problem. I used to try really hard to reply back to everyone, but I started losing interest. No one in my area was really striking me. Lately, when people write anything, I often end up wanting to write something back, but I don't want to lead them on. I end up just giving up. Which is probably bad, because it makes it seem like I'm ignoring them... okay I guess technically I am, but I do read them.

I guess it'd help if I wasn't crushing on a couple of guys right now outside of the online dating space. One of which I fell head over heels for, yet I won't do anything about it. Won't introduce myself, ask him out, or anything. I'm not even sure he's gay, but.. you know how this goes.

I'm honestly starting to think I should give up on online dating for now. : (
 
MidnightScott said:
Hey you guys,

I just look at him as a possibility but today his actions seemed very truthful, I never felt so intimate with him before now.

I had a hookup the other night with a guy from Grindr and I just didn't feel anything from it. Seems like I can't enjoy it unless I care for the person already.
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Cos you're completely hung up on this dude.
 
Lucario said:
I dyed my hair and worked out a shitload. I'm going to wear a mask over my face at PAX east (as part of my "cosplay") so they won't even be able to recognize me.
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You shouldn't do that.. the fact that he has nothing better to do than harass you is pretty pathetic. What you should do is come with a much hotter guy and not even acknowledge these people.
 
Bel Marduk said:
You shouldn't do that.. the fact that he has nothing better to do than harass you is pretty pathetic. What you should do is come with a much hotter guy and not even acknowledge these people.
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That was actually my initial plan; I had a built-as-fuck lifeguard lined up to go with me, just to show off.

Then I realized I had absolutely no real desire for the guy. I basically would be using him just to get back at Zack, which would make me nearly as bad as he is.

I don't want to hurt anyone. I just want these shitheads out of my life =\
 
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