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I know MidnightScott isn't the most popular person in here, but do you guys have to make fun of him by making fun of someone else? What are you guys trying to prove? Life superiority? Because that's funny.
 
Am I in the wrong thread?

Why are there two pink, furry avatars here?

I know MidnightScott isn't the most popular person in here, but do you guys have to make fun of him by making fun of someone else? What are you guys trying to prove? Life superiority? Because that's funny.
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I know MidnightScott isn't the most popular person in here, but do you guys have to make fun of him by making fun of someone else? What are you guys trying to prove? Life superiority? Because that's funny.

I'm not trying to be too mean, but this soap-like swooning over a man named Eros is simply too comical to ignore.

I wish you only the best MidnightScott.
 
To me, Midnight's post are just part of the "process"...he's just happy.
I know it may sound too..sugar coated...cookie-cuter for some.

But seeing how he went from barely posting in here, guys?/girls?, not even wanting to post a picture of himself afraid of others knowing... to have a picture of his face on his avatar (until the Kid Icarus-avatar :p), openly talk about a guy he's interested, and the usual ups and downs that come with it and all the "drama" associated with it.

Plus, there's an Ignore function on this forums and seeing how 90% of GAF uses it on me it seems, some might as well use it on Midnight is his stories are so much of a problem. I know that that doesn't prevent seeing it quoted; but still... :p
 
To me, Midnight's post are just part of the "process"...he's just happy.
I know it may sound too..sugar coated...cookie-cuter for some.

But seeing how he went from barely posting in here, guys?/girls?, not even wanting to post a picture of himself afraid of others knowing... to have a picture of his face on his avatar (until the Kid Icarus-avatar :p), openly talk about a guy he's interested, and the usual ups and downs that come with it and all the "drama" associated with it.

Plus, there's an Ignore function on this forums and seeing how 90% of GAF uses it on me it seems, some might as well use it on Midnight is his stories are so much of a problem. I know that that doesn't prevent seeing it quoted; but still... :p

Welp I'm not going to question whatever he does anymore. It's obviously he knows what he is doing so meh why comment.
 
I'm just saying that everyone seems to go into a mob mentality whenever he pops up. I'm not exactly defending him, but whenever someone replies to him, it's usually in a condescending, holier-than-thou attitude. That, or it's to ridicule him. That gets just as tiring as MS's posts.

It's his fault, too, though, because he seems to be one of the only ones getting any (or at least posting about it), and posting about feelings that makes everyone roll their eyes. I understand why you guys do what you do, believe me.
 
I'm just saying that everyone seems to go into a mob mentality whenever he pops up. I'm not exactly defending him, but whenever someone replies to him, it's usually in a condescending, holier-than-thou attitude. That, or it's to ridicule him. That gets just as tiring as MS's posts.

It's his fault, too, though, because he seems to be one of the only ones getting any (or at least posting about it), and posting about feelings that makes everyone roll their eyes. I understand why you guys do what you do, believe me.

I'm sure people can just ignore him then and let him make comments about his super interesting life.
 
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ugh it seems i have a constant issue of always getting feelings for straight guys/friends...

it seems that sometimes who i have affection (sexual/romantic) for has nothing to do with orientation (on their part) and I just end up disappointing myself but i know no way around that...

i think that deep down my mind hopes the guys i crush on would be bi or closet dudes but that just leads me into even more disappointment...

what do people do in these tough situations? stop hanging out with friends they like? also is it wrong to fantasize about them, lol?

You probably just hang out with too many straight guys, so you're only going to end up crushing on straighties. You should start hanging out with more gays or just go on dates with some gay guys. If you fall for a straight guy, just make sure to not get infatuated with him because as you said it'll just end up in disappointment. I wouldn't stop hanging out with them just because of a dumb crush. Just don't pay attention to it, and it'll hopefully pass once you meet some other gay or bi guy. It's not wrong to fantasize about straight guys, but if it'll just make it more difficult for you to get over it then I'd avoid it.
 
To me, Midnight's post are just part of the "process"...he's just happy.
I know it may sound too..sugar coated...cookie-cuter for some.

But seeing how he went from barely posting in here, guys?/girls?, not even wanting to post a picture of himself afraid of others knowing... to have a picture of his face on his avatar (until the Kid Icarus-avatar :p), openly talk about a guy he's interested, and the usual ups and downs that come with it and all the "drama" associated with it.

Plus, there's an Ignore function on this forums and seeing how 90% of GAF uses it on me it seems, some might as well use it on Midnight is his stories are so much of a problem. I know that that doesn't prevent seeing it quoted; but still... :p

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I'm totally lost, but this made me sad. I've never used the ignore feature. Even if I get into a disagreement with somebody, I won't ignore them. There was a metaphor I was going to use here, but in my tired state I completely forgot it. Regardless, it goes against my personal philosophies. So I guess I'm among the 10%. lol : )

I've been away so long from gay-gaf, and off-topic in general that it almost feels alien. I have no idea what is going on, but I think everyone needs a giant hug. :p
 
I'm just saying that everyone seems to go into a mob mentality whenever he pops up. I'm not exactly defending him, but whenever someone replies to him, it's usually in a condescending, holier-than-thou attitude. That, or it's to ridicule him. That gets just as tiring as MS's posts.

It's his fault, too, though, because he seems to be one of the only ones getting any (or at least posting about it), and posting about feelings that makes everyone roll their eyes. I understand why you guys do what you do, believe me.

For me, it's not so much his comically romanticized stories. I find those funny, if anything.

It's not even the frequency of them. How he seems to have a new one every week about a different guy and it's always "twu wuv." Again, hilarious.

For me, it's how he likes to...for lack of a nicer term, pull focus with this crap. A new low being reached, just a few days ago, when we had a fellow gaffer posting in this thread about an STD scare, panicked out of his mind and needing reassurance, and Midnight finds that to be the time to quote his post and respond with something along the lines of "Ohh all this talk of oral is making me horny bla bla bla."

And yeah, there's the ignore feature, which I suppose people could use. But I suppose there's hesitation because I don't think anybody actually wants to dislike Midnight. I know I don't.
 

what the hell was that?!? At first I was so excited. Then I turned the volume on. lol Digital Devil Saga 2 is my favorite game of all time. Granted the original song is from the first one I believe (yes, I totally just had a nerd moment there I realize). But... why?!? This is so creepy! Nah, we need something more A L I V E: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Sitg0_aO6gE

You probably just hang out with too many straight guys, so you're only going to end up crushing on straighties. You should start hanging out with more gays or just go on dates with some gay guys. If you fall for a straight guy, just make sure to not get infatuated with him because as you said it'll just end up in disappointment. I wouldn't stop hanging out with them just because of a dumb crush. Just don't pay attention to it, and it'll hopefully pass once you meet some other gay or bi guy. It's not wrong to fantasize about straight guys, but if it'll just make it more difficult for you to get over it then I'd avoid it.

This is pretty sound advice. I should take it myself, but I just can't help it. Technically, I don't know if they're straight, bi, or gay. Too scared to ask. I hate crushes though. I'll stare, and then turn away when I feel he might look back. Note their presence and think they came just to see me, and then realize it's probably just coincidence or me subconsciously trying to see them. It gets old. Especially when you get that feeling that it's mutual, but know nothing will ever come of it because you're too scared to ask and chances are he's straight. Then there's the fact that you don't even think you look good. That makes you feel even worse and wonder why you ever even bothered hoping. I need to just put myself out there and build some conference and stop worrying about these petty things. But still...

Just today, someone struck me up and I turned them down. They seemed pretty lonely, but I didn't want to jump into a relationship. I told him I'd rather wait for the right one. He asks me who might that be, and I told him a friend first and foremost. My best friend perhaps, if that isn't too cheesy. I don't know. I think I'm an asshole for ignoring all these people, and I should really choose between one or the other.

For me, it's not so much his comically romanticized stories. I find those funny, if anything.

It's not even the frequency of them. How he seems to have a new one every week about a different guy and it's always "twu wuv". Again, hilarious.

For me, it's how he likes to...for lack of a nicer term, pull focus with this crap. A new low being reached, just a few days ago, when we had a fellow gaffer posting in this thread about an STD scare, panicked out of his mind and needing reassurance, and Midnight finds that to be the time to quote his post and respond with something along the lines of "Ohh all this talk of oral is making me horny bla bla bla."

And yeah, there's the ignore feature, which I suppose people could. But I suppose there's hesitation because I don't think anybody actually wants to dislike Midnight. I know I don't.

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I wasn't aware of this. That's a bit much.
 
Well, that I agree. That "oral = horny" comment was...weird. XD :p

And adam4adam and Manhunt, like the good deals..are YMMM (your mileage may vary).
Not the best experience (friendship = sex, fun = hoping from bar to club, traveling = getting into a car to have sex..and so on)...
...and made even worse, because the same guys I saw there showing their assholes, I then see them on OkCupid looking for something "nice". :p

But again: YMMV!
I've heard great experiences from all of those, so you'll be better by checking out for yourself and take things from there; since in the end you have the last word.
 
Crushing on a straight dude (who ended up being one of my best friends) is what eventually got me to fully come out and start socializing. Now i'm one big flirtatious bugger lol. What makes it funny is my crush was mostly emotional (and he was ginger, my one true weakness). Physically he wasn't bad, but his Jacob's Ladder looked TERRIFYING.

Local St Patty's party tomorrow night, then probably off to the club to see how much TBRU sapped the clientele.
 
Crushing on a straight dude (who ended up being one of my best friends) is what eventually got me to fully come out and start socializing. Now i'm one big flirtatious bugger lol. What makes it funny is my crush was mostly emotional (and he was ginger, my one true weakness). Physically he wasn't bad, but his Jacob's Ladder looked TERRIFYING.

Local St Patty's party tomorrow night, then probably off to the club to see how much TBRU sapped the clientele.

Wow. You got to see your straight crush's schlong?
 
Wow. You got to see your straight crush's schlong?

This is the same straight dude that took me to a drag show on my 1st outing with him. Then another night of gay clubbing with the first stop being red head appreciation night and the second stop being my current stomping grounds (leather/bear bar).

He shows his equipment on request. He had a little showing at the last gay bar and left a few guys flustered haha. He's extremely comfortable with his sexuality to the point that every gay guy asks why he's straight.

And yeah, i've seen it multiple times. The dude throws it on the table whenever I'm ahead in beer pong. Devious bastard.

EDIT- I've talked about this guy before. He's the same one that chilled in a grocery store parking lot while I was on my first hookup. If things had went awry he would have rolled up to dudes house and went ginger contra to try and get me out of there (and i'm not kidding).
 
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