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RadioHeadAche
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I prefer a guys afternoon in.
Absofruitly, but I came to terms with that long ago.
dragonlife
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All of you should buy Binary Domain. It's awesome! Also:
All of you should buy Binary Domain. It's awesome! Also:
But it's a shooter :/
All of you should buy Binary Domain. It's awesome! Also:
Wait, does that mean what I think it means or is it just humourously out of context?
Mystic Theurge
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This.
Even though I've had many setbacks when trying to friends or lovers, at least for the moment, I'm going to continue trying.
dragonlife
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It's just one of the replies he gives when you say "I love you" to him. Which I like to do often. You can say it to anyone. Don't know if you guys know, but the game's gimmick is being able to speak to your AI teammates through mic. The game recognizes a set number of phrases/words and "I love you" is one. You can say anything to anyone. Of course, the game itself is fucking fun.
Hope springs eternal. I've been pretty lucky that I've still kept in touch with a couple of good friends. Had a heart to heart with one today.
Hm, I am now interested and intrigued. Will check it out on Steam.
the cutest guy I have ever dated has been friend-zoning at every possible chance. I suggested a couple of activites together and he's like " O.k. but I am not good at that" or " o.k but maybe I am not the best person to do that activity with".
I wrote today and said something like "dude, I think your are nice and attractive but am not desperate to take you out and if we just say hallo once in a month with messages on the dating site, I am fine with that, we don't HAVE to hang out if you don't feel like it, really, we can be internet friends or go out in 6 months or later if you feel like it", but more diplomatic and friendlier.
The guy is very thoughtful and educated and thinks that it would be unproper to just let it be, so instead asnwers every message and he is sending my wrong or mixed signals.
man, I really wished I didn't like complicated people... -_-
EDIT: and I NEVER, ever write more than once and not more than a couple of lines, so I am not being annoying (by regular standards)
I wrote today and said something like "dude, I think your are nice and attractive but am not desperate to take you out and if we just say hallo once in a month with messages on the dating site, I am fine with that, we don't HAVE to hang out if you don't feel like it, really, we can be internet friends or go out in 6 months or later if you feel like it", but more diplomatic and friendlier.
The guy is very thoughtful and educated and thinks that it would be unproper to just let it be, so instead asnwers every message and he is sending my wrong or mixed signals.
man, I really wished I didn't like complicated people... -_-
EDIT: and I NEVER, ever write more than once and not more than a couple of lines, so I am not being annoying (by regular standards)
dragonlife
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Fuck yeah! Smart man. There's a demo for you to try, and it sold me on the game. Just note: default keys are bad. Really bad. Run configuration and change them to something you're used to. (I can post my set-up if you need ideas, but I doubt it). Also change the key prompts from 360 to keyboard as well. 360 is default. None of this matters if you're playing with a controller, though.
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So being educated is sending mixed signals? Because I try to be as polite and educated as possible and I don't think I am sending anything, plus, I really hate when people don't answer or comment back (or just answer with short or one-line responses)*.
I don't chat online that much, but I try to have conversations when possible and if time allows it.
* That doesn't mean I can't appreciate a short and casual talk, though.
The way this guy is behaving isn't helping matters, that's what I can say. I am showing initial interest, and not in drama mode like " boyfriend and life partner or go rot in hell", I am just showing mild interest, I also think he is a kind and nice guy, regardless of whether or not I could have sex with him so some sort of friendship would be nice.
in this particular case, if he just isn't interested in anything with me, I think it would be for the better that he made it clear, somehow, no matter how hard it would be to swallow the pill, which wouldn't be because I am not in love, I am just interested.
we can then continue writing "hi" in the dating site once in a while and stop pretending we could go and have a drink the next days.
If you know he isn't interested or you made your intentions clear and he doesn't respond back the way one should (doesn't matter the outcome, for better or worse), why keep pursuing it? Just move on. Unless you "confront" him about in a direct way, looks like he just won't give a uncluttered answer.
I am not saying you should stop talking to the guy (acquaintance, acquaintance++, friendship... it's all cool), but stop (for you own good, health and benefit) expecting something more (and stop over thinking it too).
Just checking.
dragonlife
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You better be so I can play Dress Up Barbie with you. >:|
dragonlife
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Kasumi for life.
Been a while since I've played DOA. I may fire up one soon. I think I still have my friend's copy of 4...
Been a while since I've played DOA. I may fire up one soon. I think I still have my friend's copy of 4...
RatskyWatsky
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That Binary Domain screenshot looks exactly like Mass Effect.
I actually thought that was a Mass Effect screen. It's funny how similar they look.
RatskyWatsky
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So did I.
Guess I'll have to pick up Ayane to troll your Kasumi. I'm a Hitomi and Ein combo.
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You're kidding, right? :|
I love your avatar. Kiryu <3
I know right? It can't be Mass Effect without lense flare.
runlikehell
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BIOWARE LENS FLARE
More like "Unreal Engine 3 look" which this doesn't have.
Went on a date last night... sorta.
Met online (bah), we were going to go to this new bar that opened by my apartment in Sunset, till he realized he lost his wallet, and had no clue where it was.
Eventually I just ended up going to his place in north hollywood and we just chatted it up from 11pm to 3am (I had work at 6am today too D=) he ended up kissing me goodnight
Hes cute, hes nice, hes funny, I am having this weird conflict because hes not in the best of shape, not that hes fat or anything, but I am kinda on this focus and quest to get to a certain physical peak... well just have to see what happens
hes also 6'1"... :triforce:
Met online (bah), we were going to go to this new bar that opened by my apartment in Sunset, till he realized he lost his wallet, and had no clue where it was.
Eventually I just ended up going to his place in north hollywood and we just chatted it up from 11pm to 3am (I had work at 6am today too D=) he ended up kissing me goodnight
Hes cute, hes nice, hes funny, I am having this weird conflict because hes not in the best of shape, not that hes fat or anything, but I am kinda on this focus and quest to get to a certain physical peak... well just have to see what happens
hes also 6'1"... :triforce:
*cough*Shal-*cough*-low*cough cough*.
I'm sorry. I've been having a frog in my throat issues for a bit. Why are most gays stereotypical and wanting ZEUS, GREEK GOD OF MANLY from people? Jesus Christ that shit drives me up the wall.
Hell, let's go one step further and toss in "big dicks" as well. Why are most gays superficial? What ever happened to liking a person because they look decent but have a great personality? Am I just stuck in the 1950's? Gawwwwd.
Sorry but you're stereotyping.
I lost 35lbs last year, and being physically fit and healthy is important to me.
If you just wanna lay around and eat del taco when I wanna do yoga and go hike runyon canyon, there are issues.
I didnt say he wasnt attractive, I said it might not look like he takes his physical fitness seriously. I am not asking for 6 pack abs, but I am expecting a level of personal care.
No, you're stereotyping. How do you know he eats Del Taco all day? You just said yourself you lost 35 lbs last year. Maybe he's trying to do the same thing, but is at a different point in his journey?
I'm in a similar position you're in. I'm losing weight and trying to get in good physical shape. I've been rejected by several guys in the last few months because I'm not their physical ideal, in spite of being a great match in so many other areas. If I ever do get to the point where I'm in great shape, I would never date someone as shallow as you or the aforementioned guys who rejected me. I'm the same person now that I'll be when I lose the last 30 lbs. If someone doesn't want to date me now due to his own shallowness, then I'm not gonna date him later because he's a shallow, stereotypical gay douchebag. And so are you!
I'm in a similar position you're in. I'm losing weight and trying to get in good physical shape. I've been rejected by several guys in the last few months because I'm not their physical ideal, in spite of being a great match in so many other areas. If I ever do get to the point where I'm in great shape, I would never date someone as shallow as you or the aforementioned guys who rejected me. I'm the same person now that I'll be when I lose the last 30 lbs. If someone doesn't want to date me now due to his own shallowness, then I'm not gonna date him later because he's a shallow, stereotypical gay douchebag. And so are you!
You can say the same thing about straight guys. Is it shallow, though? Sure. But men usually are shallow when it comes to look.
You can try and convince him to work out with you
You can try and convince him to work out with you
heres hoping theres a lot of working out going on, its been a while since I've done certain styles :x
CHEEZMO
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I'm with you, bro.
Red Arremer
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Agreed.
Actually, that is incorrect; shallow people are shallow, regardless of gender or sexuality. I've seen more than enough shallow women as well.
electroplankton
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Hi Gaffers!
I've just bought Colors 3D for 3DS, and I wanna show my first works
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You can see them from your 3DS in 3D.
I've just bought Colors 3D for 3DS, and I wanna show my first works
http://colorslive.com/details/113903-Dalton_Flint_by_deveroos.php
http://colorslive.com/details/113783-VG_lover_by_deveroos.php
You can see them from your 3DS in 3D.
As unpopular as it is, I'm with you Bri. At no point did you say he had to look like Chris Rockwood here so I don't see why people are jumping on you for it. Obviously there are going to be some guys who won't even approach someone if they're not sporting rock abs but I don't see why you would have to force yourself to date someone that isn't even looking after their own health.
I mean, checking out the P90X and fitness threads and you can see amazing results from one month of work. One month. I don't think that's too much to ask from someone for their own health and fitness. And I don't think that makes you anymore shallow than saying "I won't date someone that smokes."
Now, if you are conflicted, you could always inquire about his views on fitness and whether he's willing to put in the effort to change. Having a gym buddy is both great motivation and a little hot. But if he's not even willing to head to the gym because he's hung up on self image issues, I don't see a problem with moving on.
Hi Gaffers!
I've just bought Colors 3D for 3DS, and I wanna show my first works
You can see them from your 3DS in 3D.
Damn, plankton! These are really good. You've got some talent with that stylus.
as someone who is rather lean and who fell in love and had a 3 year relationship with someone who had 50 Pounds overweight... this time I am gonna go with the shallow guys... sorry 
It's more the attitude than the fact the he eats, the lazyness, carelessness, it gets depressing with time and you have to carry the burden of seeing how your guy is making efforts to get a heart attack when he reaches 40 ... no , sorry, not anymore.
smoking, drinking, drugs, having no real activity in life, being a evil person, among other attributes, are as bad as bad eating habits to me, I just came to realize.
I can very well have sex with someone who smokes but partner for life? hell no, it took me balls and strength to quit, not going to fall again because my guy does it, same with weight and eating.
It's more the attitude than the fact the he eats, the lazyness, carelessness, it gets depressing with time and you have to carry the burden of seeing how your guy is making efforts to get a heart attack when he reaches 40 ... no , sorry, not anymore.
smoking, drinking, drugs, having no real activity in life, being a evil person, among other attributes, are as bad as bad eating habits to me, I just came to realize.
I can very well have sex with someone who smokes but partner for life? hell no, it took me balls and strength to quit, not going to fall again because my guy does it, same with weight and eating.
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give me a fucking break. when I was out of shape, I didn't expect people who spent a huge chunk of their life looking after their body to be physically attracted to me. If you don't like that, then hit the gym. Don't bitch about it on the internet.
It isn't a deal-breaker, but if I'm getting to know two people, and one doesn't look after themselves (or even put in any effort) and the other does, and they both had similar interests and ambitions, I'm going to go with the one who looks after their body.
dragonlife
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Hiking with another person can be funYou can try and convince him to work out with you
Hecatonchires Custom
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My bf is overweight and there are plenty of fit guys I could bang but guess what there's more to a person than his fucking weight. Your choice to miss out on a potentially incredible person because oh no his body fat is 5.2% too high.
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