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Hey, you know all that worry stuff about the frenulum? You can ignore that. Seriously.

Had another go at retracting the foreskin and it went fine this time. I then spent 90 minutes in the shower giving it a test run. Turns out my new penis isn't 'damaged penis', it's 'new and improved penis'. Frenulum is less tight, and that means the foreskin can be pulled lower than it used to, particularly when erect. Also, the tissue where the tear was isn't sore at all. In fact it is unbelievably sensitive (in a good way). Felt like discovering masturbation again.

Speaking of which, it's healed up enough to masturbate again. Twice. In five minutes. (I'm not good at the whole abstaining thing)

Well good for you, it usually takes up to 3 weeks to heal.

Most likely, yes. You see it pop up in sleazy bareback porn from time to time.

WTF? Why would anyone do bareback porn if the other guy is HIV+? Are these people that stupid/desperate?
 
God damn it. Day 25.

For those that don't know, I'm doing the No Fap Challenge and unfortunately I failed it last night. Went to bed a little tired since this challenge has me running on a deficit of sleep. Anyway, woke up in the middle of the night buck naked. This isn't too unusual since I often manage to get myself undressed in my sleep. I don't usually end up mounting my pillow though.

The weird thing was, I didn't even wake from a sexy dream or anything. I think I was just exploring some ruins and then BAM! Making sweet, sweet love to my pillow. It was one of those things where, in my half sleep daze, I figured since I was already there I might as well finish. My pillow and I had a very wild night, poor thing, and it's good that it can't talk because I'm pretty sure it would call the cops otherwise. Was so wound up by the end that I took a few minutes to just finish off.

And Oh. My. God. Twenty five days of pent up sexual energy was just insane. I'm not a shooter, and have never been, but even in the dark I knew that I was rivaling porn shoots with this one. I spurted everywhere, with it flying past my head even. I was essentially covered down my neck and chest. Fell fully asleep shortly after. The amazing thing was that, beyond the little required fantasy to turn my pillow into a dude, there was no need for any sort of imagining of pornography. It was essentially just my body and the crazy sensation and release you can get.

Which is good, since I'm not going to count this. It's close enough to a wet dream that I think I'll classify it as such.
 
God damn it. Day 25.

For those that don't know, I'm doing the No Fap Challenge and unfortunately I failed it last night. Went to bed a little tired since this challenge has me running on a deficit of sleep. Anyway, woke up in the middle of the night buck naked. This isn't too unusual since I often manage to get myself undressed in my sleep. I don't usually end up mounting my pillow though.

The weird thing was, I didn't even wake from a sexy dream or anything. I think I was just exploring some ruins and then BAM! Making sweet, sweet love to my pillow. It was one of those things where, in my half sleep daze, I figured since I was already there I might as well finish. My pillow and I had a very wild night, poor thing, and it's good that it can't talk because I'm pretty sure it would call the cops otherwise. Was so wound up by the end that I took a few minutes to just finish off.

And Oh. My. God. Twenty five days of pent up sexual energy was just insane. I'm not a shooter, and have never been, but even in the dark I knew that I was rivaling porn shoots with this one. I spurted everywhere, with it flying past my head even. I was essentially covered down my neck and chest. Fell fully asleep shortly after. The amazing thing was that, beyond the little required fantasy to turn my pillow into a dude, there was no need for any sort of imagining of pornography. It was essentially just my body and the crazy sensation and release you can get.

Which is good, since I'm not going to count this. It's close enough to a wet dream that I think I'll classify it as such.

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BeesEight -- I don't understand why you're doing a no fap challenge anyway. Are you anticipating a very special sex encounter or is it just to test your own willpower? Sorry you slipped but you can get the effect of.. er.. multiple orgasms and tons and tons of semen buildup by taking vitamins. Folic Acid is the best.. I think I'm about three times hornier after taking it several times daily. This increases blood circulation all over and especially down there.. It really does regenerate it quickly and you don't have to deny yourself sex or fapping. Zinc works too, but not as well. Also.. eat almonds and pine nuts. Lots of them.
 
BeesEight -- I don't understand why you're doing a no fap challenge anyway. Are you anticipating a very special sex encounter or is it just to test your own willpower? Sorry you slipped but you can get the effect of.. er.. multiple orgasms and tons and tons of semen buildup by taking vitamins. Folic Acid is the best.. I think I'm about three times hornier after taking it several times daily. This increases blood circulation all over and especially down there.. It really does regenerate it quickly and you don't have to deny yourself sex or fapping. Zinc works too, but not as well. Also.. eat almonds and pine nuts. Lots of them.

It's a pure willpower test and to cut down on the habit.

I was also reading that eggs and pineapples work but I don't know the validity behind that claim. I wasn't aware those vitamins had that side effect as well. What's the reason for taking folic acid? I'm assuming it does more than the... ahem... stated effects.
 
It's a pure willpower test and to cut down on the habit.

I was also reading that eggs and pineapples work but I don't know the validity behind that claim. I wasn't aware those vitamins had that side effect as well. What's the reason for taking folic acid? I'm assuming it does more than the... ahem... stated effects.

Well, first of all.. its very impressive that you made it for 25 days but its not really normal to hold it in for that long. Soon you would have had wet dreams.. or worse involuntary things happening to you and that would really suck.

Fapping isn't really a bad habit, is it? I mean, it can lessen your desire to go out and meet someone I suppose.. which would ultimately be more fulfilling but it seems completely normal for anyone to do.. so why not try to increase your sperm count by taking healthy supplements?

Folic acid increases blood circulation and its used to increase your body's synthesis of DNA.. which improve your health in many ways but none so immediately noticable as an increased sperm count and being horny all the time.

Eggs (yolks) are very very high in folate.. so this is why they can increase sex drive. I don't really know about pineapple.
 
Cardiovascular health, supposedly beneficial in helping prevent certain cancers and depression.

Folic acid increases blood circulation and its used to increase your body's synthesis of DNA.. which improve your health in many ways but none so immediately noticable as an increased sperm count and being horny all the time.

Eggs (yolks) are very very high in folate.. so this is why they can increase sex drive. I don't really know about pineapple.

Interesting. I may consider in getting some after this challenge is done. Or... I'll just not masturbate for a few days which is cheaper and I am pretty poor...

Well, first of all.. its very impressive that you made it for 25 days but its not really normal to hold it in for that long. Soon you would have had wet dreams.. or worse involuntary things happening to you and that would really suck.

Fapping isn't really a bad habit, is it? I mean, it can lessen your desire to go out and meet someone I suppose.. which would ultimately be more fulfilling but it seems completely normal for anyone to do.. so why not try to increase your sperm count by taking healthy supplements?

I was mostly to the point where I was fapping when I was bored and to contain my desires. By abstaining, it's kind of forced me to deal with somethings that I had been avoiding for awhile. It also gave me enough testosterone to become very confrontation...

Speaking of which, the Carnival of Stupid that Gaf can become is pretty surprising sometimes. As a side effect of my pent aggression, I decided to challenge the video of the No Fap Challenge and it's surprising the outright ignorance of some people. Especially over something so minute and meaningless as masturbating. There literally is a defence for everything.

Do you guys still use the Skype chat?

Ahhhh... fresh meat!
 
Doctor today gave me some more (stronger) meds and said that it indeed can happen to anyone even without an STD. He said I probably got it without an STD, actually, and even though it's more rare, it can definitely happen. Good news for me, though. The only thing I'm worried about now is that it can become something chronic. I asked him about it and he said it was a legitimate concern and one I should keep on the lookout for.

Oh, and doctors feeling up my balls is definitely not a turn on. Such a weird fetish if you ask me :p

Now I think I'm going to go running and train for this damn marathon, pain be damned! I'm running a 10k in the Cleveland Marathon (can't do the full marathon) and it's in two weeks and this has prevented me from training enough. I've GOT to do this, dammit!

Also, I'm going to try and post more in this thread. I like you guys, so I hope you stick around and don't drift into Skype-world TOO often! And what are we gonna do when this thread hits its limit? I think we're pretty close, aren't we? We should definitely make a new one :)
 
Also, I'm going to try and post more in this thread. I like you guys, so I hope you stick around and don't drift into Skype-world TOO often! And what are we gonna do when this thread hits its limit? I think we're pretty close, aren't we? We should definitely make a new one :)

I believe someone already has the first post of the new OT thought up. I think we're just waiting on this one to officially close.

Also, good luck with the training! Two weeks doesn't sound like a lot of time.
 
The taste of pineapple? Yes its great.. although I think I'm missing the point. BeesEight.. folic acid is dirt cheap.. I think I got mine for like $2.

Eating pineapple makes semen taste sweet and delicious.

Doctor today gave me some more (stronger) meds and said that it indeed can happen to anyone even without an STD. He said I probably got it without an STD, actually, and even though it's more rare, it can definitely happen. Good news for me, though. The only thing I'm worried about now is that it can become something chronic. I asked him about it and he said it was a legitimate concern and one I should keep on the lookout for.

:)

Oh, and doctors feeling up my balls is definitely not a turn on. Such a weird fetish if you ask me :p

Yeah. It's really weird and uncomfortable. Especially since mine always scrunch up when I go to the doctor, which makes the hernia (or whatever) more difficult to feel for, so he usually has to press a little harder.

Now I think I'm going to go running and train for this damn marathon, pain be damned! I'm running a 10k in the Cleveland Marathon (can't do the full marathon) and it's in two weeks and this has prevented me from training enough. I've GOT to do this, dammit!

You've got this!
 
i met up with this guy yesterday and i think he might of been recording it :/. i went to go for a shower afterwards and when i went back into the room, he was quickly putting away a camera. i didnt say anything because it only clicked when i left.

hi btw, gaygaf.
 
i met up with this guy yesterday and i think he might of been recording it :/. i went to go for a shower afterwards and when i went back into the room, he was quickly putting away a camera. i didnt say anything because it only clicked when i left.

hi btw, gaygaf.

oh shit... that really sucks and is completely an invasion of your privacy. sorry man.. he may have just been recording it for his own personal use but there are unscrupulous porn companies out there that will pay for that sort of thing. Hope its the former at least. You should confront him right away.. especially if he tries to arrange another encounter.
 
i met up with this guy yesterday and i think he might of been recording it :/. i went to go for a shower afterwards and when i went back into the room, he was quickly putting away a camera. i didnt say anything because it only clicked when i left.

hi btw, gaygaf.

Where were you? In the gym?
 
Doctor today gave me some more (stronger) meds and said that it indeed can happen to anyone even without an STD. He said I probably got it without an STD, actually, and even though it's more rare, it can definitely happen. Good news for me, though. The only thing I'm worried about now is that it can become something chronic. I asked him about it and he said it was a legitimate concern and one I should keep on the lookout for.

Oh, and doctors feeling up my balls is definitely not a turn on. Such a weird fetish if you ask me :p

Now I think I'm going to go running and train for this damn marathon, pain be damned! I'm running a 10k in the Cleveland Marathon (can't do the full marathon) and it's in two weeks and this has prevented me from training enough. I've GOT to do this, dammit!

Also, I'm going to try and post more in this thread. I like you guys, so I hope you stick around and don't drift into Skype-world TOO often! And what are we gonna do when this thread hits its limit? I think we're pretty close, aren't we? We should definitely make a new one :)

Its fascinating to me how we haven't ended up in.... yet.
 
oh shit... that really sucks and is completely an invasion of your privacy. sorry man.. he may have just been recording it for his own personal use but there are unscrupulous porn companies out there that will pay for that sort of thing. Hope its the former at least. You should confront him right away.. especially if he tries to arrange another encounter.
Yeah, it's late so I'm going to talk to him tomorrow just I don't know, it's kinda awkward to ask because if he wasn't recording it but I'll ask him tomorrow. I just hope if it's true, it's not already up on the tube sites >_>
Where were you? In the gym?
At his house
 
It was basically "ha, I'll ask for tips and see what happens".

An hour later I had $60. People are definitely are willing to pay for live porn.

Have you actually been paid $60 dollars? I would say I have something of an academic interest in the sex industry (Sasha Grey <3). I seem to recall that these types of websites require you to earn larger amounts of "credits" before you can cash out for real money, except many will ban your account or find some way to get out of paying you the money you've "earned." I would look into site reviews/stories to make sure you aren't just going to end up being scammed or something.

I have been checking the photo thread far too often the past few days looking for my new boyfriend =(

No volunteers?

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Have you actually been paid $60 dollars? I would say I have something of an academic interest in the sex industry (Sasha Grey <3). I seem to recall that these types of websites require you to earn larger amounts of "credits" before you can cash out for real money, except many will ban your account or find some way to get out of paying you the money you've "earned." I would look into site reviews/stories to make sure you aren't just going to end up being scammed or something.



No volunteers?

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It's closer to $300 at this point, and I think the minimum for cashout is something like $150. (I just cashed out the money; we'll see if it ever comes in.)

It's cam4. It's the biggest camsite on the internet. I'm not being scammed.

EDIT: Wait, no, it looks like they're scamming performers in other countries who have little/no legal recourse. I should still be fine though :P We'll see if I get the cash.
 
WTF? Why would anyone do bareback porn if the other guy is HIV+? Are these people that stupid/desperate?

I'm assuming all involved are positive. Or are certifiable idiots (which they are in any case since people carry different strains of the virus and you can get worse even if you're already HIV+).
 
My boyfriend's is well fine, it kinda tastes like nothing. Mine otherwise... ): And I hate pineapple!

Oh god, new page \(*'3')/
 
How can you just go to sleep drenched in your own . . .
Not that it'll ever taste or feel good. It's like snot. :/
If I don't go to bed drenched in my own and my boyfriend's juices then it's a sad sad day.

I thought most people found it a turn on to be on the receiving end of a love parcel on their person tbh. >.> Maybe I'm just slutty.
Sometimes I wonder if I reveal too much about myself in this thread...

Whilst I suppose technically a fair comparison, I'd rather compare semen to saliva - which almost everyone is happy to share when they're sticking their tongue in someone's gob - than to snot...

I've had guys who tasted pretty bad, and guys who actually tasted good. I mean, so good that you think to yourself 'let's do that again!'... but perhaps I'm in the minority. But come on, giving head is super hot!

My boyfriend's is well fine, it kinda tastes like nothing. Mine otherwise... ): And I hate pineapple!

Oh god, new page \(*'3')/
I don't think it's exclusively pineapple - just anything that is high in fructose. Pressed apple and mango juice can give the same effect. Ricky and I go through 4 litres of the stuff every week. XD (I just checked the USDA nutritional analysis breakdown for pineapple and mango, and mango has twice the amount of fructose. Mango <3)

Oh and 50 posts per page? n00b :P
 
That's hilarious.

How can you just go to sleep drenched in your own . . .

I was really tired. Like, this was the middle of the night and since starting the challenge I have not been sleeping well so even if I wanted to, I doubt I'd have had the energy to get up and clean up.

That said...

If I don't go to bed drenched in my own and my boyfriend's juices then it's a sad sad day.

I thought most people found it a turn on to be on the receiving end of a love parcel on their person tbh. >.> Maybe I'm just slutty.
Sometimes I wonder if I reveal too much about myself in this thread...

This is kinda hot.

I've had guys who tasted pretty bad, and guys who actually tasted good. I mean, so good that you think to yourself 'let's do that again!'... but perhaps I'm in the minority. But come on, giving head is super hot!

I don't think it's exclusively pineapple - just anything that is high in fructose. Pressed apple and mango juice can give the same effect. Ricky and I go through 4 litres of the stuff every week. XD (I just checked the USDA nutritional analysis breakdown for pineapple and mango, and mango has twice the amount of fructose. Mango <3)

Yeah, I wasn't a fan of the taste of the ex and am not really worldly enough to know if I would like the taste in general. I have heard that diet can make things better and the ex always said that I tasted fine. He did eat a lot of Mexican which I know is what I'm blaming.

Oh and 50 posts per page? n00b :P

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As a small update, I'm a little surprised that even after yesterday's relapse, it hasn't really done much to curb that libido. It's certainly not as strong as leading up to it, but I was still rocking some hard wood this morning. I suppose that's one thing guys have over girls - crazy high sex drive.
 
I find that if you go in with the mindset that, "Damn I am getting that sweet tasty stuff" you're better off.

If you go in thinking it's gonna taste bad then it will.
 
This guy at the gym -- we've had a few conversations, mostly small talk, and he seems really smart.

But in the lockers, when we're in the steam room and all, he gives me this inviting look (I melt), and you know where that could possibly head.

And every single time, I seriously made conscious effort to resist acting on it because a, I'm not quite adventurous yet to play around in a public place, and b...

Well this might sound weird but I fear I might get hook-up-zoned with this guy if we go there. I want to get to know this guy better, as a friend, and actually "connect" with him, and I feel becoming sexual before any of those might ruin a potential.

Am I being logical?
 
Not that it'll ever taste or feel good. It's like snot. :/

Well, I think it varies from person to person, and also from day to day. Sometimes it's like snot, sometimes it's very watery, etc. I think it depends on your lifestyle, diet, and frequency of ejac.

This guy at the gym -- we've had a few conversations, mostly small talk, and he seems really smart.

But in the lockers, when we're in the steam room and all, he gives me this inviting look (I melt), and you know where that could possibly head.

And every single time, I seriously made conscious effort to resist acting on it because a, I'm not quite adventurous yet to play around in a public place, and b...

Well this might sound weird but I fear I might get hook-up-zoned with this guy if we go there. I want to get to know this guy better, as a friend, and actually "connect" with him, and I feel becoming sexual before any of those might ruin a potential.

Am I being logical?

I see what you did there.
 
This guy at the gym -- we've had a few conversations, mostly small talk, and he seems really smart.

But in the lockers, when we're in the steam room and all, he gives me this inviting look (I melt), and you know where that could possibly head.

And every single time, I seriously made conscious effort to resist acting on it because a, I'm not quite adventurous yet to play around in a public place, and b...

Well this might sound weird but I fear I might get hook-up-zoned with this guy if we go there. I want to get to know this guy better, as a friend, and actually "connect" with him, and I feel becoming sexual before any of those might ruin a potential.

Am I being logical?

This is interesting to me.....how do you know for sure he's gay and you're not just mistaking the look for something that isn't a look at all? Is it obvious or something? I'm genuinely curious because unless a guy is really flamboyant, I really can never tell if he is gay or not.
 
This is interesting to me.....how do you know for sure he's gay and you're not just mistaking the look for something that isn't a look at all? Is it obvious or something? I'm genuinely curious because unless a guy is really flamboyant, I really can never tell if he is gay or not.
In this case, I've gone past the stage of figuring him out.

His intentions are pretty overt. In the steam room for instance, he touches himself and rubs himself sensually while looking at me. Before that, I had been making eye contact with him in the gym, and sort of tried to "feel" if he was looking my way for the same reason.

So yes, generally speaking -- I posted in here before saying that sustained eye contact with another guy may be a signal of mutual interest. Others disagreed. But for me, it's been quite a good "test."
 
His intentions are pretty overt. In the steam room for instance, he touches himself and rubs himself sensually while looking at me. Before that, I had been making eye contact with him in the gym, and sort of tried to "feel" if he was looking my way for the same reason.

I think that first bit is a little more telling than sustained eye contact. Holy damn, I don't think I'd ever be that forthright.
 
So... biohazard symbol tattooed on a guy means he's HIV+, correct?

I ask because I just saw a video of a guy blowing a guy with that tattoo. Made me feel even grosser than I already do while watching porn.

I don't think that they are HIV+ necesarily, just that they are all for bareback sex and have no problem when they get infected.
 
Well this might sound weird but I fear I might get hook-up-zoned with this guy if we go there. I want to get to know this guy better, as a friend, and actually "connect" with him, and I feel becoming sexual before any of those might ruin a potential.
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His intentions are pretty overt. In the steam room for instance, he touches himself and rubs himself sensually while looking at me.

I'd be shocked if there was any potential here besides a sleazy hook-up, and there's very little chance he's looking for more than that. Dude's probably fucked half the people at that gym.

Theoretical: would you respond positively if the bulk of someone's contact with you on a dating site was sending lewd comments or dick pics? This is the in-person version of that behavior.
 
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